Comments on: Dear Em & Lo: My Girlfriend Always Cries After Sex

By: to gege

to gege — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 09:25:28 +0000

to gege what you had was a full body orgasm

By: claire

claire — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 03:49:06 +0000

I have cried after sex from being so incredibly happy and feeling overwhelmed with love of my boyfriend, overwhelmingly grateful to have him with me in my life.

By: Matt

Matt — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 00:36:25 +0000

Are the last two comments written by spambots or people hitting the crackpipe before hitting the submit button?

My lord.

By: maryam

maryam — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 13:56:55 +0000

I’m Every thing is happening to me Bstmrar I do not know the reasons may not be of the Every

By: uniq&waiting

uniq&waiting — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 10:43:16 +0000

to:LMS Though it’s genuinly tragic&far 2uncommon to suffer the atrossities u have;u r an inspiration 2those of us who’ve not been fortunate enough2 have ideal upbringings.2seek modern, liberal, individuality(from my personal journeys view)& find true serandipitous emotional&phisical satisfation,who wouldn’t burst into uncontainable tears every now& again (&again&again…)so happy4u/pray 4the rest of us;)*****On a totally different tip the snowboard dude w/ incesant isolation issues even habitually after sex an (ideally& at least potentially)enriching, releasing, connecting expierience.Not judging but talk 2someone,please.

By: Slartibartfast

Slartibartfast — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 23:18:28 +0000

I’ve also experienced the crying thing after coitus periodically and for me it usually falls in to one of two categories. Either I’m feeling a sense of isolation and a desperate ‘aloneness’ (which occasionally happens) or I have a sense of just experiencing a really intense emotion (usually akin to joy) and the tears are like ‘leakage’ of that emotion. For the record, I’ve also had that happen while snowboarding. I’m sure I’m not unique, but I’ve never met another guy who’s described anything like this.

By: gege

gege — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 19:50:26 +0000

i have question i just stared have sex and i just don’t know anything about it but when im haveing sex with my boyfriend and i have my orgasmic i started to shak it sacred me and him too i really don’t know can you help me with that

By: Little Miss Sunshine

Little Miss Sunshine — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 01:58:32 +0000

I’ve cried a few times. But I really remember two times this has happened. The first time it happened I started crying in the middle of sex. I was very nervous and I had some trust issues I guess. I was sexually abused by my father so I was stressed. I started crying because I didn’t want to get hurt, and I didn’t want to do something wrong since it was my first time ever having sex. But I wanted to share that part of myself with him. I loved him then and I still love him. The second time was when we finished and were cuddling up. I burst into tears and I was just really happy with him. I didn’t know that I could have such a strong connection with someone that I love and the experience for me was beautiful for us.
All of the times that I have cried after sex was because I was extremely happy and content. So nothing is wrong with her and you have done nothing wrong. The moment was perfect for her and you took all her stress and worries away. Just keep doing what your doing and everything will stay perfect =)

By: lastcallmd

lastcallmd — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 05:00:40 +0000

It also could be that she is cheating on you and when she gets to that stage the guilt gets the better of her. Personal experience speaking so skip the hate mail girls.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 20:16:21 +0000

It’s happened to me in a long term relationship before, and multiple times. It would happen when I had been super stressed out, and sex would just be this incredible release. I think it was also definitely because of how close I was to him, and how emotional the sex was to me. Definitely a good thing when it happened, not bad at all.