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Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On

Wed, Mar 11, 2009

Confessions, Personal Post

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Our contributor, a woman who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make.

My boyfriend’s butt is beautiful. It’s pretty. It’s plump. It fits in the palm of my hand. I can’t keep my hands off it, and simply touching it turns me on. I’ve spanked it, kissed it, rubbed it, grabbed it, bit it — and now I want to stick something in it.  A strap-on dildo to be exact. I want to bend that boy over, face down, bum up, and do him in the most dirty of ways. I want to make his prostate gland giddy with anal afternoon delight.

So last November I said to him, “I want to do you in the butt with a strap-on. I think it’s only fair.” He’s not only put his peen in my vajayjay, he’s poked me in the tush too.

“Um, no.”  He laughed nervously and changed the subject. Needless to say, this no-bullshit approach did not work.

Unwavering in my attempt to stick my strap-on where the sun don’t shine, I approached him again in December with a more sensitive strategy:  “Just because I want to pack your fudge and you let me doesn’t mean you are a fudge packer, baby.”  I thought assuring him I wouldn’t think he was gay, but rather a try-anything-sexual would work for sure. Sadly, this simply wasn’t the case.

“I know,” he replied, “I just don’t want a dick in my butt.  It’s not going to feel good.”

With this important information, I devised a more detailed put-it-in-the-pooper plan.  In January, sounding oh so scientific (and as cute as can be), I spouted off some knowledge gleaned from this very site:

“The prostate gland is similar in size and shape to a walnut. It is located at the base of the bladder and surrounds the ejaculatory ducts and urethra. It is essentially the equivalent of the female G-spot, hence it’s called the P-spot.  When stimulated during anal sex, it can produce orgasms. The P-spot is your best friend and you’re ignoring him. That’s not very nice, now is it?  From what I hear he is very fun to hang out with.  Perhaps you should make a play date.”

Silence…more silence…then finally, what my pretty little ears have always wanted to hear.  “Maybe…”

After a month of many talks about how to travel the brown brick road, we agreed that purchasing a vibrating anal plug would be the best way to get things started. February arrived and with it a text message from my boyfriend that read, “I’m really excited for you to do me in the butt. Wanna buy a butt plug today?”  Hell yes I do.  Butt plug today, strap-on tomorrow!

Last week we went to Fascinations, a local sex shop, and purchased our very first 4-inch blue butt plug.  We rushed home, stripped off our clothes and jumped into bed.  He looked a bit uneasy.

“Are you sure you want to do this?” I asked him. “I only want to do this if you’re comfortable with it.”

“It’s probably going to feel like a turd,” he laughed. Not the response I was hoping for, but he bent over, face down, bum up, just as I’d imagined, and after applying a little lube I eased that blue puppy in.

I started slow and soft, in and out, in and out, then applied a bit more pressure. After a few minutes I turned on the vibrator located inside the butt plug.  It was loud.  Very loud. The longer I sat there on my knees behind him, the more I felt like I should be wearing latex gloves and a lab coat; perhaps throw in a clipboard and stethoscope as well. Probing is the word that came to mind.  It felt far too formal for my liking, and I could tell by his silence and his face in the mirror behind our bed that he was not enjoying the ride.

“Okay,” I said. “Let’s try a different approach.” We sat for a few minutes and discussed what would feel good.  We agreed that foreplay first without the butt plug was a good idea.

Some plug-free fondling led to some plug-free fellatio. And when he was good and ready, I popped the plug back in. He liked this combination of front and back attention much better, as did I. But after a while my mouth and hands needed a break, so we resumed the prostate exploration in the spooning position. I inserted the butt plug half-way in and angled it up towards his belly button to start. “That feels really good. It’s vibrating my balls.”  Then I pushed the plug all the way in and started feeling around left to right.  “That doesn’t feel so good,” he said.  So I started making soft, slow circles inside.  He liked that a lot.

After about an hour our anal endeavor was over and the search for his prostate gland was called off.  He didn’t orgasm and he was strangely quiet as we lay there. It occurred to me that maybe I was asking too much. Maybe expecting amazing orgasms from just the push of a button was unrealistic. Maybe we should have thought of the plug as a side dish rather than the main course. Maybe P-spot stimulation just doesn’t work for some guys, just like some ladies hate having their G-spot touched…

Then he turned to me, smiling, and said, “Practice makes perfect, baby. I’m ready for round two.  What about you?”

Like I said, butt plug today, strap-on tomorrow.

 
 
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525 Responses to “Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On”

  1. Emma Says:

    Me and my husband have been doing this for some time now. The idea was always very appealing to me, and as I am the breadwinner and older than him by twelve years, and he is quite pretty, it seemed like a very natural development. I don’t really think of it as dominating him, but at the same time I do think of it as asserting my place in the relationship, and the psychological, ego-boosting aspect, especially since I started using a large (9.5″) dildo, is a significant part of the pleasure I receive. And I do receive a lot, I always orgasm at least once, and usually more than once. His pleasure is still a work in progress, I would love for him to be able to climax, but for the most part he enjoys it because I do so much. And this might sound terrible, but the fact that he undergoes pain for my enjoyment is very arousing to me.

    I’ve found that this has had huge benefits for our relationship outside of the sex itself. We are much less prone to argue, I feel that I am the natural leader of the two of us, and in the past he would feel compelled to challenge this position, just because he was male and he felt it was expected of him. This has largely stopped. And he has become a much better lover for me. I happen to love getting oral, its practically a necessity for me to function, and he used to be reluctant, especially when I would go without shaving, which I loathe (why do women have to but not men??). Now he actually anticipates when I need it, and is much more enthusiastic and committed to pleasing, and willing to continue until I am totally satisfied.

  2. Please Says:

    Emma,
    This is a great example of the bastardization of the women’s movement. For christ’s sake, sexual penetration should not be about dominating or self assertion. The size of your faux-cock shouldn’t be about emasculating your lover either. For you to say all of this and then make the claim about women having to shave being unfair because men don’t just shows that you are completely out of touch with reality. Many men shave and many women do not. In my opinion, everyone should be required to trim that mess back, but that is my opinion and preference and maybe that was merely your husbands preference as well. You sound like a very selfish lover. It is all about you and what you want. You are excited to have anal sex with him and cause him pain for your own pleasure with little regard for his but are unwilling to even shave to make going down on you more comfortable for him? Anal and oral sex, as well as any other, should be about all parties involved regardless of their sex or orientations, not just yours.

  3. Emma Says:

    I don’t intend to use this as a debate forum, but I would like to respond with a few remarks. Rather than mine representing a “bastardization of the women’s movement”, I feel that your comment indicates that that movement’s work is not yet complete. Feminism preaches equality between the sexes, but what does that mean? No one seriously proposes to mandate that every individual should be equal to every other. We live in a world of differences, and such a proposal is clearly unrealistic. Rather, I think it means that everyone should have an equal opportunity to express their potential to its fullest, including their sexual potential. Now, my particular sexuality finds fulfillment when I am in an unequal position with my partner. Men have been imposing this sort of inequality upon women, with or without their consent, for thousands of years. P, I take it you find this sort of relation offensive, and have expressed your moral outrage whenever and wherever you have come upon it? Or could it possibly be that your outrage was only aroused when, for once, a woman was on top?

    As for the particulars of your comment: In my view, yes, a woman penitrating a man with a strap-on does entail the assertion and yes the dominance of the woman. As it is my view, your idea of whether it “should” or not is irrelevant. And yes, using a large dildo is very exciting and ego-gratifying to me, ask a well endowed man and he will probably tell you the same. As to shaving, I think it is you who is out of touch with reality. You are right that some men shave and some women don’t, but you are very wrong if you think they aren’t very much in the minority. It is only women who are pressured and told that their hair, which I feel is beautiful, is dirty and repulsive. And I’m sorry if this offends you, but like I said I am the breadwinner and work in a very demanding and stressful job, and if there is something he can do sexually to relieve that stress and bolster my self-confidence (which is a matter of life and death at work), I think it is reasonable for me to expect that of him.

  4. A.C. Grienbax Says:

    @ Emma – You’re sadistic and controlling. I don’t care what your gender is. As a matter of fact, remove he and she entirely from your comments and it’s abundantly clear. I think whatever you do to your own body is just fine, but when you take it out on another, you’ve crossed a line. How would you like it if the roles were reversed? I enjoy pegging as well, but my lovers have always remained hard and orgasm multiple times. It is a role reversal and power exchange, but it’s not an excuse to punish them.

  5. Joe Says:

    To Emma:
    I don’t believe a word of your story. Your story is nothing more than a clever rouse that points out all the things you think are unfair to a women in a heterosexual relationship and than simply reverses that role.
    Look Emma, don’t let it get you down, there are sound scientific reasons why things are the way they are.
    1. Women don’t need to achive an orgasm to reproduce (although it does help), men must.
    2. Women are natural less hairy then men, therefor women shave what body hair they do have as a way of accentuating there femininity.
    3. A man with a big penis is a proud man, ask him why and he may not really know why, but the truth lies in our evolution, a big penis means getting sperm closer to the cervix, which in turn gaves a man a better chance to pass on his genes. And thick penis also helps the women orgasm, which in turn causes the cervix to open and close allowing for more sperm to make its way to the egg (most useful, but not necessary..Sorry Emma).
    4. Men have an inexhaustible amount of sperm they produce, so evolution dictated that men should never stop hunting for a place to put it, women on the other hand are born with all the eggs they will ever have, and thus the women was to be very choosey with whom she would reproduce with (plus choosing a good provider meant her offspring would have a better chance of survival), which also added to women trying to beautify themselves as a way to attract the best men possible.
    Look I could go on and on trying to make you understand why the human race works the way it does in hope you can feel better about your lot in life but I doubt a stranger off the Internet is going to do that for you, so good luck with your wishful thinking!!!

  6. Emma Says:

    Joe,

    Please feel free to regard my post as a “rouse”, or whatever makes you feel most comfortable. As far as I can tell it has no particular impact on me. But ruse or not I need to respond to these “sound scientific reasons”:

    1. My orgasms are inessential? Then I should be all the more thankful to the Goddess that I have been granted this joy!

    2. If you somehow couldn’t tell from the context, I was talking about pubic hair, where as far as I know we are more or less equal. And it has been a norm for women to shave there only in the last 25 years or so. So much for your law.

    3. I prefer to believe that he is proud because society prizes this attribute, and regards it as a proxy for his virility, rather than whatever pseudo-scientific reason you might concoct.

    4. I’m not sure what your point is here. If women
    control a resource which is scare and men one which is inexhaustible, would it not follow that women’s resource, and hence women, are the more valuable? Don’t men have to work hard to be appealing, and pretty, to women?

    And please don’t trouble yourself with my lot in life, I am quite content, but thank you for your concern. And

  7. Emma Says:

    Joe,

    Please feel free to regard my post as a “rouse”, or whatever makes you feel most comfortable. As far as I can tell it has no particular impact on me. But ruse or not I need to respond to these “sound scientific reasons”:

    1. My orgasms are inessential? Then I should be all the more thankful to the Goddess that I have been granted this joy!

    2. If you somehow couldn’t tell from the context, I was talking about pubic hair, where as far as I know we are more or less equal. And it has been a norm for women to shave there only in the last 25 years or so. So much for your law.

    3. I prefer to believe that he is proud because society prizes this attribute, and regards it as a proxy for his virility, rather than whatever pseudo-scientific reason you might concoct.

    4. I’m not sure what your point is here. If women
    control a resource which is scare and men one which is inexhaustible, would it not follow that women’s resource, and hence women, are the more valuable? Don’t men have to work hard to be appealing, and pretty, to women?

    And please don’t trouble yourself with my lot in life, I am quite content, but thank you for your concern. I will let you in on a little secret, Joe. A woman whose sexual potential has been maximized is able to experience pleasure far beyond what a man is able to, it’s not even close. Let me ask you, have you ever screamed because an orgasm was too intense? Cried? Convulsed? Blacked out? It really isn’t fair, to have to grimly carry out your biologically necessary role while we experience such bliss, apparently gifted to us by nature purely for its own sake. But that is your lot in life.

  8. M Says:

    Emma’s significant other needs to find a more loving home and discharge this abusive, self centered, possibly deranged partner. She’s definitely not a partner, nor most people’s idea of a sexy lover. By the words she’s chosen, I’m guessing not very attractive and hence her personality is undermined by anger and self dissapointment.

    Any individual of any gender that is selfish, finds enjoyment at the pain of others, carries anger and pride with degrading another is as far as you can get from attractive, desirable or normal. Being female, I’m dissapointed in Emma- if she is a female? Clearly she doesn’t speak for most of us.

    Hopefully he will wake up. Hopefully she will be stuck with a lover that turns the tables on her and she won’t remember her last orgasm but will remember the pain when her lover abuses her for their enjoyment. I’m guessing she’s not really into guys which is fine but even as a bifemale, I can’t imagine wanting this as a lover.

  9. M Says:

    I’ll admit I like pegging my boyfriend but because he grunts with pleasure! Thats a turn on! I don’t really care too much about a strapon as I’m proud of my body and happy with my own penetration by his maleness. I like being female and feel as much or more power, if that’s what you crave, be being the female and making his Big O as well as mine, so strong, he can’t wait to get home!

    Btw, we both shave. It’s cleaner and we feel each other more! Can’t say I find it tedious lol.

  10. M Says:

    Had to add. He def screams and grunts and I’ll call it close to passes out after he rides me! I think, at least with him, he’s having no problem feeling blessed with pleasure! Any other gals who have male partners that don’t enjoy sex with a sexy lady? Or a guy if that’s what they like.

    Just sayin.

  11. P Says:

    Emma, I stand by you on this. It sounds like you are getting a lot of flack, but I, as a man think you are on the right track with this. You are the kind of woman men dream of. He is so lucky to have a woman that not only can be a breadwinner, but also give him the ultimate sexual pleasure a man can receive. There are countless men in marriages where they have to make the money and have unfulfilling sex with partners that just don’t understand that the way to a man’s heart is through his ass. I salute you, Emma.

  12. josh Says:

    emma…i wish u were my wife….ur sexual life with ur husband..is my dream..i hope i can get the same sex u described!!!

  13. L Says:

    It makes me beyond excited, when I control his pleasure.Just getting started love to finger him,and make him orgasm, hope to soon work up to strap- on excited to know I am not alone. Took 20 years to feel this kind of pleasure omg wonderful.To many years afraid of what he might think if he knew how freaky I really was.

  14. josh Says:

    freaky?? thats my dream to find a girl who is freaky in that way

  15. jj Says:

    I love being dominated by the wife and she straps it on and fks me atleast twice a week. We have a large selection of toys in various types and sizes that we use on each other…….. That’s correct “each other”,
    The only rules we have are…… 1) boss/bitch. One day I’m the boss and next I’m the Bitch (sub/dom) and 2) the word “pain”, the boss can do whatever they want on there day and the Bitch got to take it and the only way to stop is shout pain….
    These rules work for us and we have an amazing sex life that we both enjoy and NO we don’t have sex every day but when we do we fully satisfy each others needs…….. Multiple times

  16. Me Says:

    Will you lot Chill Strap on play is all about power exchange, some people enjoy pain you all seem very close minded for the type of people who would visit this forum!

  17. Achilles Says:

    I don’t care that you fuk him but your approach, your determination, and the time you were planning to do him is just quite devilish, the same way Satan approaches people. I am wondering if you do you do every thing in life in such passion and determination! rules is changing, women are not pleased by having such an era which it never happened in thousands of years, but now they want to fuk men too! who knows in the next 50 years maybe you would ask men to get pregnant for you so you can enjoy having toned body! even if anal penetration can be enjoyable you should have respected his manhood, what an embarrassment if his friends and family finds out that you have become his fucker!

  18. Ian Says:

    Emma…. I loved your story and would just love to be with a woman like you..!!! Men need to be put in their pace at times. I’m a tall, confident and very dominant intelligent guy, being forced into submission is remarkably relaxing for a guy like me. I love being controlled…because normally, I’m always in control.

    Where can I find my own copy of you…!

  19. Jared Says:

    @Emma

    Not to take things off topic, but feminism is not about equality. Feminists do not fight for equality. They fight for women’s rights, and only in certain areas. The biggest problem with feminism is it concentrates on only what the “disadvantages” of being a women are and none of the “positives”. It actually does the exact opposite for men. Concentration on men who passed the “glass ceiling” and landed themselves a CEO position. Yet in reality, most men are on the bottom.

    Women receive far more government funding than men. 75% of government funding for medical needs is used by women, yet men live less and suffer from more chronic disease.

    Education grants are extremely biased. As men drop out of college, Women receive far more government grants, even though they make up the majority of students. Women also receive grants for studying a major dominated by men, however, men do not receive grants for majors dominated by women such as nursing, one of the nations highest paying degree’s.

    Child custody and divorce laws are extremely biased. Often in court we view women as “nurturing and better for child development”……wait a second ladies, I thought we were equal…. oh I guess not when it benefits you. Men are ripped away from their children and forced to pay up to half of their checks to their ex-wives making it impossible to start a new life.

    Feminists are the ultimate manipulators. Many are very well educated, especially in areas of statistics. Often feminists will manipulate statistics to their favor, such as the women make 75% to a mans dollar myth. However often media with feminist agenda will leave out categories of work where women make more than men. They also do not take in account for hours worked. Also the 1/4 of women are raped statistic. It comes from a 1985 study which clarified “rape” as a regrettable one night stand. Of course feminists know this but do not care if their agenda is being pushed.

    Men make up to 80% of the homeless, not including boys under 18. Do men receive gender only government assitance? No, women do!

    Men make up 88% of suicides. Do men receive gender only government assitance? No, women do!

    Misandry is widely accepted. Ever see a shirt, “Boys do it better than girls” or “Beat the girls”, ”Man Power”…No… of course not. However the same cannot be said for girls. If a child starts off with hatred or contempt for the opposite gender then how do you think they will act as an adult? Shouldn’t we be working as a team instead of competing against each other.

    The fact of you being a feminist just shows how corrupt and illogical your way of thinking is. Your leadership is in no way natural.

  20. Dannie Says:

    Lol at Jared. Best satire written after A Modest Proposal.

  21. hmmm Says:

    All this site is about is male bashing,that would explain all the penis size articles here and all the hurtful misandric comments all over this site.You folks are NOT very clever you know d!mn well that you feminist types throw the size thing around as fodder to slam men.You must think everyone is stupid or something? Its sad that these so called feminists who constantly rail about the lack of equality everywhere are usually the ones who engage in the most destructive,hurtful propaganda and slander themselves.

  22. Bobby Says:

    Where do you live?

  23. craig Says:

    Maybe if you spent more time doing it rather than blabbering on about it you’d see it in its most simplest form, kinky sex, nothing more nothing less.
    And for everybody thats going on and on about reproduction, jesus, im surprised we’re not already extinct.
    All talk little action.

  24. Ace Card Says:

    Girls, Don’t expect your guys to orgasm from anal stimulation alone. If done right, it does feel extremely good but not the orgasm kind of good for most. If you combine it with stimulation of the penis then you might give him an amazing orgasm!

  25. Dee Says:

    I’m fascinated by all posts in this thread and love all of you.

  26. Sarah Says:

    What a beautiful description! I enjoyed reading this story and it really made me horny as this is one of dreams, hopefully one day it will come true as it did for you.

  27. Alex Says:

    Good for you Emma .. you have no idea how tiring it is as a man to be expected to “always be on top” in so many areas of life & relationships … I actually thought your comments where honest & open exploration of your ego and I applaud you for them ..

    There are certainly times were I would like to surrender and be on the receiving end .. but that is simply not ok …

    I think humanity would be well served to move beyond the idea of Gender, race, colour or sexual preference. We are all beings exploring what it is to have a body and if you relationship is working for you then power to you.

  28. Stevo Says:

    Feminism contradicts anthropology and evolution in all kinds of ways. They blame everything on “society.” I see what Joe was trying to say, but I don’t think it was articulated very well. Sex is a product of evolution, typical women view the penis as a symbol of power because they are hardwired to think that those with penises (men) have authority. In tribal society the men provided security, women would typically gain “power” through relationships with the men. Which is why women are so interested in movies and books about relationships. Notice emma said “I prefer to believe that he is proud because society prizes this attribute”

    She BELIEVES…. oh OK. Feminism is just another religion.

  29. Dannie Says:

    Stevo, again, beautiful satire. A Modest Proposal has nothing on you.

  30. feel this Says:

    Emma, have you seen the feeldoe or it’s new relative the realdoe. If you are going to do all that work, you deserve to get a lot of stimulation back from it, and an easy way to get started.

  31. Matt Says:

    i wish i was dating you, my life would be complete

  32. Petri Says:

    Love it, Stevo. But all that banter amounts to “I can’t get the wimmenz so they have the power.” There are so hard facts, no real world examples of things like rights violations, being denied education, being denied equal pay and opportunities, (because you MIGHT take a year off to raise a child) being denied the sovereignty over your own body when it comes to pregnancy, being looked on in general as someone who SHOULD conform to another’s standards and desires because if you don’t then we get a huge mess of buttfrustration as evidenced by YOU and the sentiment of countless others.

  33. - Says:

    @ Emma, there is nothing wrong with what your doing. From your story, I get the impression that both of you enjoy it.
    It’s so sad to see how people are reacting just because for once, a woman dared to do what she enjoys rather than submitting to a mans requirements.

  34. jack Says:

    Emma i am in such a relationship as yours, and i am very lucky to have found the one Woman whom i want to submit to for the rest of my life.

  35. Jim Hartford Says:

    Well isn’t it strange that everyone who was angry at Emma while all of the males wanted to be her husband.

  36. Jim Hartford Says:

    p.s. I agree that her husband should leave her….. so I can take his place!

  37. LLoyd M Says:

    Your boyfriend is just that ass play is going to make him gay. That is so unfortunate. He has NO idea how lucky he is and I’m sure by now you have found another guy who is more than willing to let you explore these places as well as his prostate. My current lady friend is so open minded and I told her my ultmate fantasy, which I call the ultimate domination, was to be dealt with a strap on, and she immediately fell in love with the idea. I know she’s going to make my fantasy come true, and I can’t wait.

    Sorry your boyfriend was being so lame about it, some guys are just too close minded. He just hasn’t crossed that line yet, luckily ass play is becoming less of a taboo and more normal nowadays.

  38. mike Says:

    my wife didn’t want to try pegging at 1st. but thankfully a good friend of hers told her how fun it was for her and her man. the 1st. time was a was a bit weird for her. but after we picked up a two headed strap-on now she LOVES it. she told me last night that she wishes that she would have tried this the 1st. day I said something to her about it 3 years ago.

  39. Fun Guy Says:

    Emma, don’t listen to these people. Why is everyone so fixated on the control and manipulation aspect of it. It is simply about pleasure and a fantasy. You guys were just having fun and you opened your boyfriends eyes to an experience that, in the end, he enjoyed. Hopefully these experiences that the two of you have shared will bring you closer together, and the simple and narrow minded individuals who think it is pure evil will relax. Have fun girl :)

  40. SMEG Says:

    Oe word…. Narcisist. Look it up

  41. chase Says:

    I’ve recently has a girl introduce me to this when i asked her how anal felt and she said absolutely amazing but we never did it together. Eventually I gave to on her after asking her multiple times. So I gave up. I felt the feeling the reason she avoided it was beicause she truly uncomfortable with it. So were now not together and I’ve tried to find a girl with this interest but its not that easy of a subject to bring up. Especially with people now a days thinking that if you like another that makes you gay!? But anyways how can I find a girl with this interest? Whats a good why to ask the question?

  42. William Says:

    I wonder if people like Emma view a male penetrating his wife as dominating her. Because that’s a pretty messed up way of looking at one’s relationship.

  43. 1o_o7 Says:

    Not sure how I got sucked into this but after reading through all this id say that I agree with te whole emmas a terrible person thing. Not because of the anal, but her general attitude towards it. There are no ups ir downs just mutual sex in all kinds of forms and positions. Anyways though, anyone else thing the string of obsessed menor following emmas bashings, at least toward te begining, was just emma justifiying herself through varios names? To me of it just kinda sounded like somthing she’d probably say, like the whole satire thing. Her support towards the end of this forum I feel were just porn seeking men googlgggghhheing ‘girl using strap on’ or something, which is morĂ© les where this forum is going. But anyways just wanted ti point that out. Sorry about te spelling, someone ser my tablet to spanish, like wtf

  44. hhhmmmm Says:

    I don’t think that anal is dominating ur partner in any way… nor do I think telling him what to do or expecting him to do what I like. If he likes the way I do things… I’m not a feminist he’s still in control because he’s happy! Our house is still ran the way he likes it! I work when I want to… I get everything I want && need ( so does he!)… our house is pink! I shop til I drop… he pays the bills… && I freak him like a porn star!!! Strap on… other girls… toys… swings… we talk about it… then we do it!!! If he wants me to bend him over that night I do it with a smile && a smack on the ass… feminist shminist (ha!) Its wut ever works for the couple!!! && anal has nothing to do with the argument aspect of ur relationship Emma!!!… I’ve been with my man for yrs now and I’ve never yelled or cursed at him… didn’t have ta bend him over either ta get him not ta argue… we have a healthy balance in our relationship … !!!

  45. Will Anderson Says:

    That Emma person sounds like a terrible human being. I’m so glad my sex life is normal and about having fun with my partner rather than taking out some deep seated rage on another person

  46. Chris Marshall Says:

    My wife and I loved role reversal for a while. It’s fun. It’s different. It feels good, trust me. We haven’t done it in a while for a number of reasons but I still enjoy it. In fact, I often walk around with a butt plug or even a dildo in just for the sensation and the thrill of it. I am not gay. Just enjoy exploring every aspect of my sexuality, which I believe is healthy. A complete person is not male or female, but a little of both.

  47. secretsquirrel Says:

    I have had the fantasy of using a strap-on for a long time now. I have reunited with a lover from the past and he has the same fantasy as I do. Turns out he has been anally pleasuring himself for most of his life. Now we are looking to get a strap-on so I can do him like he does me!

  48. Butterfly Says:

    Some of these comments had me rolling! Are you people for real? My ex was a big scary man & the things we did in the bedroom didn’t make him less of a man! He loved his ass played with in many ways, loved to be called dirty n mean names, talked to like he was worthless, loved being slapped, and chocked! He never did these things to me “well accept butt play ” I wasn’t into it, that was all him! I felt strange at 1st doing it “but” sometimes we do things for the one we love to give them pleasure!

  49. Slim Says:

    i just wanna say that i see nothing wrong with emma pegging her man however i disagree with the method as sex should always be a mutually pleasurable expereince and if he isnt “getting off” then neither should you. If the roles were reversed the same would apply. feminism and masculinity has nothing to do with it. its merely the right thing to do

  50. Secula Says:

    I agree with Emma. I’m a male though, but I like to funk a girl in the butt, and I feel more dominant when I hear her squealing. I guess she can’t have an orgasm that way, but it gives a great pleasure to me. Pure sadism.


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