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Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On

Wed, Mar 11, 2009

Confessions, Personal Post

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Our contributor, a woman who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make.

My boyfriend’s butt is beautiful. It’s pretty. It’s plump. It fits in the palm of my hand. I can’t keep my hands off it, and simply touching it turns me on. I’ve spanked it, kissed it, rubbed it, grabbed it, bit it — and now I want to stick something in it.  A strap-on dildo to be exact. I want to bend that boy over, face down, bum up, and do him in the most dirty of ways. I want to make his prostate gland giddy with anal afternoon delight.

So last November I said to him, “I want to do you in the butt with a strap-on. I think it’s only fair.” He’s not only put his peen in my vajayjay, he’s poked me in the tush too.

“Um, no.”  He laughed nervously and changed the subject. Needless to say, this no-bullshit approach did not work.

Unwavering in my attempt to stick my strap-on where the sun don’t shine, I approached him again in December with a more sensitive strategy:  “Just because I want to pack your fudge and you let me doesn’t mean you are a fudge packer, baby.”  I thought assuring him I wouldn’t think he was gay, but rather a try-anything-sexual would work for sure. Sadly, this simply wasn’t the case.

“I know,” he replied, “I just don’t want a dick in my butt.  It’s not going to feel good.”

With this important information, I devised a more detailed put-it-in-the-pooper plan.  In January, sounding oh so scientific (and as cute as can be), I spouted off some knowledge gleaned from this very site:

“The prostate gland is similar in size and shape to a walnut. It is located at the base of the bladder and surrounds the ejaculatory ducts and urethra. It is essentially the equivalent of the female G-spot, hence it’s called the P-spot.  When stimulated during anal sex, it can produce orgasms. The P-spot is your best friend and you’re ignoring him. That’s not very nice, now is it?  From what I hear he is very fun to hang out with.  Perhaps you should make a play date.”

Silence…more silence…then finally, what my pretty little ears have always wanted to hear.  “Maybe…”

After a month of many talks about how to travel the brown brick road, we agreed that purchasing a vibrating anal plug would be the best way to get things started. February arrived and with it a text message from my boyfriend that read, “I’m really excited for you to do me in the butt. Wanna buy a butt plug today?”  Hell yes I do.  Butt plug today, strap-on tomorrow!

Last week we went to Fascinations, a local sex shop, and purchased our very first 4-inch blue butt plug.  We rushed home, stripped off our clothes and jumped into bed.  He looked a bit uneasy.

“Are you sure you want to do this?” I asked him. “I only want to do this if you’re comfortable with it.”

“It’s probably going to feel like a turd,” he laughed. Not the response I was hoping for, but he bent over, face down, bum up, just as I’d imagined, and after applying a little lube I eased that blue puppy in.

I started slow and soft, in and out, in and out, then applied a bit more pressure. After a few minutes I turned on the vibrator located inside the butt plug.  It was loud.  Very loud. The longer I sat there on my knees behind him, the more I felt like I should be wearing latex gloves and a lab coat; perhaps throw in a clipboard and stethoscope as well. Probing is the word that came to mind.  It felt far too formal for my liking, and I could tell by his silence and his face in the mirror behind our bed that he was not enjoying the ride.

“Okay,” I said. “Let’s try a different approach.” We sat for a few minutes and discussed what would feel good.  We agreed that foreplay first without the butt plug was a good idea.

Some plug-free fondling led to some plug-free fellatio. And when he was good and ready, I popped the plug back in. He liked this combination of front and back attention much better, as did I. But after a while my mouth and hands needed a break, so we resumed the prostate exploration in the spooning position. I inserted the butt plug half-way in and angled it up towards his belly button to start. “That feels really good. It’s vibrating my balls.”  Then I pushed the plug all the way in and started feeling around left to right.  “That doesn’t feel so good,” he said.  So I started making soft, slow circles inside.  He liked that a lot.

After about an hour our anal endeavor was over and the search for his prostate gland was called off.  He didn’t orgasm and he was strangely quiet as we lay there. It occurred to me that maybe I was asking too much. Maybe expecting amazing orgasms from just the push of a button was unrealistic. Maybe we should have thought of the plug as a side dish rather than the main course. Maybe P-spot stimulation just doesn’t work for some guys, just like some ladies hate having their G-spot touched…

Then he turned to me, smiling, and said, “Practice makes perfect, baby. I’m ready for round two.  What about you?”

Like I said, butt plug today, strap-on tomorrow.

 
 
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525 Responses to “Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On”

  1. david Says:

    Im a fella and the wife and i do this. I must admit i felt a bit ‘gay’ at first but after a while them feelings stopped. My wife says she really enjoys doing it coz it makes her feel in control, and i love the feeling, theres no way to really describe it! We started off with a finger at first, leading to me trying her dildos, then eventually i bought her a strap on. We dont do it that often, maybe once a month but when we do its fantastic!!!
    Most guys who are comfortable with their sexuality want to explore new experiences and, although at first, may feel a bit awkward doing this, will soon end up loving it!
    Next time your down there giving him a blowjob start rubbing his balls and gradually get lower and lower to the ass entrance. if by the time your gentally rubbing his there he doesnt complain just very slowly and softly ease it in, he will love it, just give it a go!

  2. Mark Says:

    well i wish my gf wud strap up more often! I love feeling her in control and inside me for a change.

    Sometimes it can be sore, but then we just do something else and put the toy away for another time!

  3. Tigger Says:

    Me and my fella were talking about dildos and butt plugs the other day. then he mentioned getting a strap on. I said “you really want one?” and he replied saying yes, then you would have some control. I think we maybe getting a strap on soon!

  4. curiousvers Says:

    i’ll start off saying that i am a man, and i have had a few experiences. I’ll never forget the first time a friend of mine I slept with slipped her finger in my ass, we went from her finger to some beads to her trying to put a dildo she had but it was way to big. She then put the idea of a strap on in my head but we stopped fooling around before we could act because i found a steady girl to date. after moving in with her i found a strap on in the closet and i started thinking how great it would be if she wanted to use it on me. After a couple weeks i finally said something and she said that it was a gag gift someone got her at a party then one day she had a much smaller and curved one to hit my prostate it was only about 5 inches long and pretty thin she would fuck me so hard with that little thing but it always left me wanting more but we broke up before she wanted to get a bigger one and the one i found was way to big for me. after i broke up with her i had an older sugar moma and she would always tell me how nice my ass is and how she never liked a guys ass so much and then she asked if she bought a strap on if she could bend me over and wow i can’t even begin to explain how happy i was it had been such a long time and a couple g/f’s later since my ex used to fuck me. we went to the sex toy store and she had me pick one out i picked out the thin 7 inch one and we went home and tried it out she warmed me up with a blow job and a thin vibrator and then put it on and had me on my belly and it felt like she was really going to town on me but she said that she wasn’t going that hard or fast so i was amazed. I had to cut that off because she ended up messing with a bunch of other people and i wasn’t going to risk getting an STD. Then i meet another girl and she was really dominant and i kind of hinted things to her and one day i was on my hands and knees trying to plug something in behind the bed and she grabbed me by the hips and started “dry humping me” if you will. I got so hard feeling her slam her pelvis into my ass and i couldn’t hide it. she said she just wanted to see how it felt to be me and then saw my erection and said wow you really liked that hugh? and then came the anal play she got so into playing with my ass she used to tie me up face down and put toys in me and then finally one day she got a strap on and tried to fuck me but the one she got was to long and hurt so she had to hold her hand around the base and couldn’t pound me like she did when she wasn’t wearing one. She ended up leaving to finish her masters out of state and i havn’t had any since. I am trying to get my current girl into it but she has barely licked or fingered my ass. she has never experimented before and i got her into being tied up choking me and tying me up. I’m still trying to figure out how i’m gona get her to fuck me with a strap on but i’ll figure it out. any women out there have any advice on how to get her into it?

  5. missy Says:

    After telling my boyfriend about the idea of sticking a finger in his ass for about the first three months of us dating here and there by the fourth month i was in the kitchen and he was sitting across from me he has basketball shorts on and my feet were feeling on his dick all the way down to his ass..later that day he said that felt good and asked me to lick and finger his ass…honsestly it was a little akward when i did it but i love fingering his ass actually i was able to stick two fingers in his ass last week…..i would love to put on a strap on and just fuck him

  6. Blue Says:

    Hi Boston jock going to college in Boston here. I am frightened to death if i ask a girl to finger me or do me with a strapon everyone will think i am gay. Where do i find these awesome girls?

  7. Cindy Says:

    Im a teenager, and me and my boyfriend are just beginiing to experiment with anal play. it is a bit messy at times, if you finger as far as his prostate (poop on the condom) so I’d say you might want to get a douche. its a little thing that squirts water to clean the insides for cleaner play. if he has a hairy ass ( my boyfriend does)then you need to get him to wipe incase he isnt so clean there, sometimes they cant help it if there hairy. My boyfriend likes it when I ever so gently play with his bum hole when were having sex, it really gets him going when I do that. at first, just try playing with his bum through his boxers, then progress to a condom on the fingers with a little lube (or latex gloves) and play with it whilst giving him head. then when your comfortable with that try one ort two fingers and massage his prostate, the moans reeeaally turn me on and it makes me feel in control. only after your this far do I suggest you try toys and strap ons. Were not that far yet, but anal play is ALWAYS in statges and you cant rush it. good luck ;)

  8. James Says:

    So how can I get my wife to go for it…Have tried several times to get her to perform anal intercourse…Maybe time to new playmate?

  9. mark Says:

    One day I was at home and doing some things. I came up in the bed room and see a strap on in my wife night stand. I can not think about what she want me to do. She came home and I ask her about the sexy strap on. My wife say to me was one day see want me to do anal sex on me and I say to her o yes I love to do it with you and so my wife want to her bed room and put the strap on on and get sexy up for me. Then she call me to the bed room and I want in and You grils and guys can think about what we did in the bed room.

  10. Ashleyyy Says:

    OMGgggg im 18 and my bf is 18 and i LOVE his butt lol idk what it is but i always play with it and he lets me play because he knows i love it but he doesnt let me go in he thinks to much…what should i do!

  11. dave Says:

    wife as a joke dressed me too… OMG outta this world!! :)

  12. BigJohn Says:

    I would let my wife use a strap-on on me. She has already fingered me in the butt while we are in a 69 and I am eating her out. I really enjoy the finger and think I wouldn’t mind a strap-on at all.

  13. james Says:

    I really have been wanting my girl to do this it is my ultimate fantasy, but she says she is uncorfortable with the idea i use to talk dirty to her about doin this roleplay but not so much anymore even thoughi think about it all the time wish their was a girl out there that could fullfill my fantasy heres being hopeful.

  14. Bgirl Says:

    OMG! I REALLY want to do my husband with a strap-on! But he has already warned me to never go near his ass! How can I convince him to at least TRY! Not saying to start off with a strap-on, but maybe a finger! When I give him head I like to lick and suck on his balls but he gets all wiggly if I get to “low”! Help, I just want to try but have no idea how!?!

  15. Gaz Says:

    hey, im a 20 year old guy and ive just started using a butt plug but have explored the area before, im trying to tempt my girlfriend into strapons etc but shes having NONE of it!!! ive explained its normal and even shown her some forums like this but all i get is “its not in my comfort zone” which is fine but if she could at least try it once!!!

  16. Scott Says:

    I’ve always had an interest in this happening to my but have never found the right woman.

  17. Tim Says:

    Had a woman do me with a strap on a few years ago and had the best orgasm of my life.

    I’d love for my wife to do it, but when I ask her to do it, she replies with a “you really want me to do THAT?” and I end up feeling odd and dropping the subject.

    Any ladies around Boston interested.

  18. Ashley Says:

    Someoneeeeee HELP IDK WHAT TO DO.
    ANY SUGGESTIONS PLEASE LET ME KNOW.
    I like my boyfriends ass sooooo much and hes not for it at all. He lets my play outside but inside he gets way to uncomfortable and just isnt for it. I like neeed to go in atleast with a finger. HELP PLZ

  19. Clay Says:

    Autoandrophilia:
    “Clair talked about her own sexual fantasies of sometimes wanting to play out the role of being a man in bed. She enjoyed having sex as a woman with men but also particularly enjoyed living out her sexual fantasy of being male with a penis. She particularly enjoyed the fantasy of raping someone else. This was generally… played out with female sex workers who would be accommodating and compliant with the fantasy to her satisfaction.
    Clair was quite clear that although she might run these fantasies in her mind they were just sexual fantasies. She had never wanted to become a man in any way whatsoever outside of the specific living out of the sexual fantasy. She was a very feminine woman, well coiffed and manicured and very proud of her female body. Any idea of ever becoming a man in life was completely ludicrous and laughable to her and she made it quite plain that she was all woman, apart from her sexual fantasy of raping as a man.”

  20. jakmo Says:

    MMMMM my ex did me in the ass years ago a couple times.i loved it.her ass was exit only-and she had a fine ass.i want it again,i’ve been in chat rooms and had online Mistresses that would Domme me and cyberly use a strapon on me.now i’m about to meet my current Mistress r/t.she is a young black Mistress and very kinky.i can’t wait to meet and get my booty buggered.we are both switches so i’m gonna do my Mistresses ass too!MMMMMM

  21. Shawn Says:

    My ex and current wife have both pegged me before and it was great but it was hard to ask. It is a very awkward dinner conversation.

  22. Caitlin Says:

    Well I am 18 and my boyfriend wants me to do stuff with his butt. My problem is we have never done anything before like that and I don’t know what to do so we can ease into it. HELP!!!

  23. reallyreally Says:

    This letter / confession ended with some useful information, but ugh, if those were the actual words she used the first time she raised this subject, it’s no wonder her boyfriend wasn’t interested — the way she talked about it was extremely, extremely corny! Fudge-packing? Come on, who talks like that after age 10? So not sexy. Maybe it’s just me, but I think if you’re going to ask a partner to try something new, the best approach is: try to make it sound sexy. Like something two (or more) consenting adults would enjoy, not like a cheesy elementary school joke. And on a related note, ask at an appropriate moment. I hadn’t considered that aspect of it until I read the comment above saying “It is a very awkward dinner conversation.” Umm, yes, it would be — why on earth would you choose to have that conversation over dinner instead of, say, after some good non-pegging sex? If you want something sexy, ask sexy — not while sharing a pizza.

    Oh, and some advice for the Boston commenter above, the guy who says he’s a jock and is afraid to ask the sort of girls he knows to peg him: This is provoking another umm from me. Have you really not noticed that the sort of women who tend to go for jocks do in fact tend to be quite conventional? Compared to, say, the kind of girls who tend to go for hipper guys? Cultivate a more complex personality, one that can’t be summed up as “jock” (or any one other word) and you will find yourself meeting a wider range of people. I don’t mean to say that all girls who date jocks are super-vanilla in bed but . . . uh, actually, yeah, as a woman who has avoided jocks all her life, I do kind of think that about them. They just look and act so traditional and risk-averse. I’m probably wrong (I hope I’m wrong) but still, I think you’ll have an easier time finding women who share your interests if you aren’t the sort of guy everyone looks at and thinks “oh, a jock.” Read some interesting books, go to some arty movies, stop popping your collar, etc. etc. etc.

  24. oliver Says:

    Ashley, why do you enjoy that??

  25. Tom Says:

    I love it, just wish my wife would do it more. I love when she’s in control and she’s really good at it.
    The first time I was about 18 and my girlfriend at the time used her fingers everytime, but she wouldn’t use toys or anything.
    Then when I was in my thirty’s out at the bar ran into that old girlfriend, got talking one thing led to another back to her place we start messin around and she asked ” did you like when I used my fingers on your ass” I said hell yeah. needless to say she went to the bedroom called me in 5 minutes later and she was wearing a strap-on.
    I wasn’t sure I would really like it seeing that it was bigger me, but I did and still do.
    I can’t wait till the next time she’s in me.

  26. Charles Says:

    Do it! We have played with fingers and dildos for years, then we did it … wow! My wife gets an inverted nipple when she gets really turned on and is an occasional (2 x per year) squirter. She put the strapon on, left nipple was inverted. I climbed on top and rode her strapon – she was gushing within 2 minutes! It was fantastic! We don’t do it all the time, usually only special occasions, but it is a great turn on for both of us.

  27. oldkinky Says:

    My wife fucks me with a strap on about once a week. We both love it.

  28. KC Says:

    So I really want to do my husband with a strapon but not sure what to do to get him to let me. We have been together for 5 years and married for 3 and I brought it up once before and he said no. Since we have been married he has let me play around there with my fingers while I’m giving him head, but I really want to take it to another level. I am not sure how to bring it up again :( . A couple weeks ago we went to a local sex shop and he stopped and looked at a strap on and it made me wonder if he was thinking about it. I have made him orgasm while fingering him so I think he would like it but how do I get him let me try toys??? Any suggestions?

  29. Charles Says:

    KC do the fingering, then slip him something a little more. Start with something just slightly bigger than your finger and work your way up. If he likes the finger, he will go for the toy. You could always watch some videos together or slip him an email with a link to a nice strapon video.

  30. tim Says:

    my boyfriend does this all the time… it’s GREATTTTTTT

  31. Bill Says:

    I am a guy and my ex-wife use to finger my ass while giving me a blow job. I loved every second of it. I wanted her to get a strap-on and fuck me with it, but I didn’t know how to let her know, I didn’t want her to think I was gay. Well after her, a few girlfriends and another ex-wife, I met another and decided I wasn’t going to get involved with another women without telling her what I wanted. So I told my girlfriend what I wanted her to do and she said, well I have never done anything like that before but ok I’ll try it. So I bought us a strap-on and she tried it. She felt funny at first and so did I, the next few times we got more into and she got more and more into it and now she loves being in control with her strap-on, making me bend over the bed, the couch, the chair, on my back legs up and now she wants to start doing me outside like, bent over the fender of the car, bent over the motorcycle, bent over the ATV and of course, she wants to do it up in the mountains. I think I just may ask her to marry me.

  32. Gaby Says:

    My guy won’t let me use anything other than my finger. I don’t know what it is if he doesn’t feel comfortable enough, what it is. He says he likes it, I don’t get it. I don’t think its gay and what’s to categorize what’s what. I think any guy willing to try new things is just worth being with.

  33. KR Says:

    You guys/gals should be so happy to even have a spouse who enjoys being sexual. Some of guys have wives who pretty much don’t even enjoy sex. Oh my wife loves for me to rub her butt, give her massages, and if everything is ok in her work life, she let me have sex with her… but she thinks she is doing me a favor by laying down and letting me do her. Even though she doesn’t do anything back… it’s like she is a blow up doll.

    I tried to rub her anus once while she was all turned on and she asked me to stop.. so of course I did…

    She wouldn’t even think of fingering me, even though I;ve told her that if you finger a guy while or just before he’s orgasms, it is like 10 times more powerful… but she just sort of shugged, Oh that’s nice…

    So don’t think you have it bad just because your wife won’t do you in the butt. It could be worse.

  34. Valentino Says:

    I am a 25 y/o guy, who’s recently managed to get his gf to let him do her anally. and as time wears on she loves it more and more. I get told all the time I have a great ass. she’s quite timid and the thought of her banging my tight ass makes me hard right away. Great role reversal, but being a bit old fashioned, I don’t know how to bring up the topic? how do I conquer the final frontier!?

  35. R M Says:

    I want my wife of 20 yrs. to do me with a strapon, but she says that she would not get into that kind of thing. How can I convince her to try it.

  36. Bah Says:

    I used to do a bit of solo anal play (mostly fingers and small objects). Initially I felt uncomfortable talking about this with the girls I dated, never mentioned it to them, and didn’t do it too much. Then just after college I was single for a while, a little more curious and started experimenting alone with some explicitly designed sex toys. Over the course of a year, gradually these were larger and larger ones and just could not get enough. I was having very powerful, body rocking orgasms this way. It took some patience and knowledge, figuring out how to be clean about it (some suggestions above work if you’re good about it). Then, I started dating a girl long-term again, and she took to playing around with me this way too. I’m considered a nice looking guy with a great butt, and she seemed to like it. Eventually she got a really large strap-on, and was fisting me few times as well. Well, eventually we broke up for other reasons and I started to lose interest in that kind-of play. I think maybe my libido is just less nowadays, it just doesn’t do as much for me. Now I’m married with kids, and I don’t really do it any more. I don’t really miss it, though there are some memories there that bring a smile to my face.

  37. FriskyWife Says:

    My problem with some of these posts is some of you people saying “My wife wont, any willing ladies?” I think if you are married and what you want to happen to you is out of her comfort zone that cheating is not OKAY! C’Mon, I know it feels good… my hubby loves it and I’ll admit I was a bit putt off by it at first but it is freaking amazing how hard his little buddy throbs. Turns me on knowing that he’s orgasming so hard his legs shake. Guess what, if the person you love can’t do this for you… then find a toy for yourself, wait for her to leave, plug yourself and go to town. It might not be quite the same… but at least you wont be cheating, she doesn’t have to know, and you get your amazing orgasm. Solution for every problem without ruining a marriage.

  38. Bah Says:

    FriskyWife, I don’t see anybody in this thread talking about cheating on their spouse. Did I miss it? Who said it?

  39. Davidmatayo Says:

    Hey gaby!! Your right, a guy thats willing to try different things is deff worth having!! The girl i was with last wouldnt even put a finger in my ass and ive brought it up serveral times! We need to hook up of ypur looking for someone to peg ;)

  40. Edge Says:

    Bah, look a bit harder. Tim from Boston said his wife wouldn’t do it and asked if there were any ladies around Boston.

    At any rate, on to the topic. My wife does me now and again with the strap on and I love it. Even better (and something I didn’t see addressed) is my wife is willing to fist my ass, knowing how much it gets me off. She has small hands and the feeling of her fist in my ass is indescribably amazing, plus the orgasms are awesome.

  41. sexxtravaganza.com Says:

    me too !!! we have talk about it but he just laughs i think he wants to but dont have the nerves to let me do it hes the kind that acts like hes to much of a man to do that with his wife maybe if i was a lover or a booty call it be different

  42. 123shady.com Says:

    my girlfreind was asking me for agers. and then 1 night at campin we had a drink and was having sex, i was on top n then she stuck her fingers in, it felt so weried at first, but she loves it and it makes her feel in control, it dont mean your gay just because you have a laugh and try new things :)

  43. Roger Says:

    My wife does a strap-on with me about once a month It is weird, but my excitement level is much higher when I am wearing a lacy bra (with falsies) and lace panties. Then, she gets me so excited that I can’t stop trembling for about 5 minute after she stops.

    Her comment is, “I love making you fell like my hot girlfriend”.

  44. Aaron Says:

    I-wish-I-could-find-a-girl-to-try-that-with-me…im-just-to-nervus-to-bring-it-up,,

  45. Annie Says:

    So I’m new to the whole anal thing. The guy I’m seeing now is into anal [him being fucked not me]and I have no idea where to really start. I’m kinda a switcher myself so us going back and forth with dominance is fine by me and me messing with him like that i don’t mind so much either, but I have no idea where to start at all. What should I do?

  46. Chaz Says:

    Best thing my wife ever did! Just seeing her strap it on and walk around drives me crazy. I know what’s coming and I love it. The thought of her bending me over and taking charge is great. Can’t begin to tell you how happy I was that she was willing to try it.
    Ladies try some different ways to introduce it. Try to gauge his reaction. Also talk dirty, couldn’t hurt.
    As for you guys who have yet to try, you don’t know what you are missing. My wife and I made a video with her bending me over the bed. I watch it from time to time. Drives me crazy!

  47. anythinggoes Says:

    You will find that most women will come around to the idea of anal play. Besides they love you just like you love them and all men love to see a woman in ecstacy. The male orgasm is never as intense as it is when anal is involved and your woman will thrive on knowing that she has made you climax harder than ever.

    It can be a difficult thing to bring up with somebody you’ve been with for a while. but Im 24 and ive known about all of my kinks since i was very young. I missed out on so much play because i hadnt told girls about my ideas.

    The girl im with now learned about almost all of my kinks on our very first date. Now im not saying everybody should tell a girl on their first date that they love being fucked up the ass. But it is good to come clean on these things earlier on. Just saves a couple of months of getting to know someone you may not be sexually compatible with. And let me tell you now, if you’re not sexually compatible with your partner, you’ll never be 100% happy with them.

  48. EssexToys Says:

    I’ve often toyed (no pun intended) with the idea of being penetrted by someone but have so far only gotten as far as my own finger while masturbating. I’d love to experience a prostate massage though.

  49. HisOnlyGirl Says:

    I’ve had fantasies about anal play with my boyfriend since I met him, and by fantasies I mean fully fucking him in the ass. It turns me on so much just thinking about it that I’m hot just typing about my experience.
    He and I have a very open relationship, and a very experimental sex life. He has fantasies of wearing my underwear, and going down on me after he’s done his deed. He didn’t tell me this straight away, he’s a timid bloke, but it did help that I have equally as kinky desires. To be honest he was reluctant at first, but I rimmed him one day mid-escapade and we’ve never looked back, progressing to his first experience with a vibrator tonight. Honest to god, his eyes looked ready to pop out of his skull when he came, and I came just as hard knowing I’d given him something nobody else has. I’d recommend anal play to anyone who asked, it’s made us a lot closer :)


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