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Do It Tonight! Have Shower Sex, Not Shower Intercourse

Wed, Mar 18, 2009

Advice, Do It Tonight

shower_headphoto by turydddu

We don’t recommend attempting intercourse in the shower — there are just too many possibilities for water-related injuries! Plus, you could be setting yourself up for failure — it’s often impossible to get in the right positions for pleasurable penetration, considering the cramped spaces and slippery surfaces. But we do understand that for some people, sex in the shower is the ultimate in good clean dirty fun. So instead, why not just focus on manual sex and oral sex? For the former, you could use soap, but that can be drying — and since water can wash away your natural lubricant, you might try adding some manmade silicone-based lubricant like Eros Pjur (since silicone won’t wash away, unlike standard water-based lubes). And remember, you don’t have to wait until you’ve both been satisfied and are head-to-toe prunes before you leave the shower: there’s something kind of sexy about rolling around on a towel together with wet hair and damp skin. And just think how comfortable you’ll be exploring each other’s nooks and crannies when you’re squeaky clean and you can lie down.

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12 Responses to “Do It Tonight! Have Shower Sex, Not Shower Intercourse”

  1. Chelsea B Says:

    I never thought about having sex right when you get out of the shower! But that does sound like an intriguing idea….thanks!

  2. Tyler Says:

    I love shower sex – it gives the illusion of being in a steamy romance scene from a movie, or being under a waterfall in Jamaica. A few suggested positions for cramped shower space:

    Standing doggy style, hands on each side of the shower head.
    Facing eachother, one leg help up my the guy. (My Fav)

  3. Kristine Says:

    I personally love giving and receiving oral in the shower! It feels good, and best of all, neither you nor your partner have to worry about smelling less-than-fresh down there.

  4. arod Says:

    after shower sex is the best..clean each other in the shower…then rush to the bed to get dirty all over again

  5. searchingwithin Says:

    What will really get those juices flowing is lathering each other up and the rubbing, and slipping and sliding your bodies against each other, as you wash each other. mmmm

  6. Crystal Says:

    Wow, shower sex sounds great. It gives you a relaxing mood and isn’t that what every couple wants when they have sex…not disturbances? I am thinking of trying it out wiht my fiance. Wish me luck!

  7. cylia Says:

    i never tried it but i think its hot.looking 4ward 2 it soon.wish me luck

  8. Maggie Says:

    me and my bf tried having sex in the shower a couple times, but it didnt work to well, but it definitely got us ready for some great sex after the shower. it cant get any hotter than cleaning each other up, just to get back in bed to be REALLY dirty.

  9. Paris Says:

    It is an excellent way to get close to your partner as you can lather him with soap and he can the same to you but dont start with the genetial areas start with the head and work your way down the back then 2 the buttocks and the thigs the the back of your knees and finallay your feet… Then ask your partner to turn around and massage their shoulder and showly move your hands to her breasts and pay extra attention on the nipples, you can even suck them. Then move your way down the stomach and then use your fingers in her vagina. Then wash away all the soap and carry her out of the shower and onto the bed while she is still wet and you can have sexual intercourse

  10. ladyredlocks Says:

    Depending on if you shower in the bathtub, and if your guy is taller than you, stand on the ledge of the tub to get some height and he can thrust into you much easier!

  11. e-lo Says:

    I tried this last night..
    liked it!
    but a few new things to do:
    don’t be shy with the shampoo and conditioner bottles, they can be used as temporary toys.
    also, conditioner makes for a great lube for him in mannual sex because of its softness.
    also, you can utilize the shower knobs as masturbating materials.
    then, with a razor..shave eachothers…heads. bald. its oh so sexy

  12. Madamoiselle L Says:

    Please don’t use shampoo or conditioner as lubricant. They contain detergents and SLS and other chemicals which can irritate sensitive tissue. Use a water proof lube such as silicone based lubricant, as long as you aren’t using silicone toys, and keep the bottles away from your mouth, anus, vagina etc. The PETE plastic most bottles are made from is not body safe, like good sex toys are.

    Silicone based lubes have to be washed off after use, with soap and warm water, but they don’t wash away in plain water, like water based lubes.

    “e-lo” is NOT the proprietor of this site. Em and Lo, the actual owners, are smart ladies and know enough about sex to not post something like this.

    Shower play or bath play can be fun, but please stay safe and watch things which can result in discomfort or pain or even infection later. Shampoo bottles are for shampoo. Sex toys are for sex. :)


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