Comments on: Wise Guys: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?

By: sean

sean — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:43:42 +0000

Be honest about the size thing if he asks, but as long as you also tell him that what he does with it works and makes you very happy then all will be fine. Been there done that!

By: George

George — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 13:39:07 +0000

Don’t tell him he’s small because that would just make him sad/nervous probably (I know thats how it’d make me)

I’m a male, 19yrs old, i won’t lie like most men do online and say i have a “9 inch dick, 6 inch girth with a side of gravy”
Honestly my penis is only 5 1/3 inches long normally, and like 5 inches in girth. When i’m really aroused i can reach pretty close to 6 inches long. 5-6 inches is average so i guess i’m average, and I’ve never heard any complaints.
My girlfriend and I are pretty open about things, and i don’t doubt she’d say something if she was unhappy, and she really enjoys having sex.

By: shannonsteview

shannonsteview — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 12:35:04 +0000

Well i dated a man that did nothing but tell me he had a 8 inch cock. Well when the clothes came off well i think he added 5 inches my hand is wider and i have small hands. I want to tell him not to be mean but why do men lir about it. You would have better luck just saying it not big.

By: Genevieve

Genevieve — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 03:41:28 +0000

@Lola, a big LOL. You do sound like you’ve been around. Telling us all about your scars, stretchmarks, and how ‘flippin’ hot’ you are in bed tells me alot about you. You’re very insecure about your body so you’ll do anything in bed just to get a guy to look past your flaws. Sad. You should value your body more than to throw it around. It catches up with you, it really does.

By: Veronica

Veronica — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 23:30:45 +0000

OOPS SORRY, I forgot to say something
Just to inform anyone who doesn’t know this already, A girl’s G-Spot is only 3″ up the front wall of her vagina. You can guess where I’m going with this. A guy with a 3-4 inch dick and some really good positions can make a girl have a more intense orgasms compared to a guy who has a 12″ inch dick. SO yeah.

By: Veronica

Veronica — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 23:26:45 +0000

My boyfriend is 18 and his dick is roughly 7 inches. To tell you the truth, I don’t mind! Sure it might feel good to have a 12 inch cock shoved inside you, but there is nothing that turns me on more than my loving boyfriend trying his hardest to make me happy(even though he gets the job done with minimal effort!). I’ve been with him for 2 years now, and I love him to death! What I’m trying to say is that you shouldn’t mind how long a guys’ dick is, just the fact that he wants to make you as happy as possible.

By: nubbins

nubbins — Thu, 23 Dec 2010 09:33:22 +0000

As a woman, I have encountered this awkwardness before — I said almost exactly what Straight Single Guy Chris suggested, and it seemed to be a good choice. I can be very bad at lying even to spare someones feelings (I’m pretty hard on myself, and when I ask for the truth, I actually want it — I often make the mistake of doing unto others as I would have them do unto me). So saying, “You’re the biggest I’ve had” would not just be a lie, but an unconvincing one, and would definitely cause more insecurity than resolve.

Like someone else said, if he’s small down there, he probably already knows it. If he’s AVERAGE down there, he may think of himself as small or large depending on his mood, confidence and personality. In most cases, he’s really just looking for an affirmation that he’s a prime specimen of raw male virility capable of providing orgasmic bliss to the ladies while inciting a healthy amount of envy from the inferior males. So give him the affirmation.

I can say that my partner and I have mind-blowing sex. He’s about 4 inches, and boy, does he know what he’s doing — with ALL of his tools! I’ve had 9 inches before, and that was just too big for me. I like to have sex frequently, and that’s just something I was not as keen on doing when there was such a layover of soreness and sometimes some “interior chafing”, if lube wasn’t available. Not comfortable! I think there’s a Jack for every Jill in this regard… Larger/smaller vaginas, different heights, different tastes…

Chemistry, trust, emotional connection, confidence, a compatible libido/ sense of adventure, and the genuine desire to please your partner are the things that really make or break sex.

By: uhohspaggetiohs

uhohspaggetiohs — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 16:30:04 +0000

What if your 4′ long and 2 1\2 wide, kill ya self?

By: Ninja

Ninja — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 19:34:17 +0000

I’ve heard plenty of women talk about penises to their friends etc, I’ve even heard a girl say how disappointed she was with a guy once she saw how small his package was. But it’s funny, every girl I’ve ever been with usually don’t say anything to me prior to sex, afterwards the general reaction I get is, “wow, I was expecting that to be a lot worse because of your size” and generally I’m told that I am either the best or one of the best they’ve ever had.

I think that it really boils down to the fact that from what I’ve heard from most women that most guys don’t even know how to kiss good, let alone knowing how to have sex, I can attest 100% that big or small as long as you know what women truly want and like sex will be good for them nearly every time!

By: oohlookasquirrel

oohlookasquirrel — Sun, 05 Dec 2010 06:31:57 +0000

oh god, isn’t it lovely how guys on the internet always want to tell you exactly how big their cocks are?

I’ve only been with guys who were too big for me. If I could change my boyfriend’s, I might shorten it by an inch, and he falls within what is normally considered average. The cervix-banging really is a mood killer. Thick guys, too, aren’t much fun for me. If sex leaves me sore, we’re not going to have as much. There’s nothing quite as disappointing as having to give up on your own orgasm because you’re too sore from a thick cock, and the pain is killing your orgasm potential (yes, even with plenty of lube and foreplay and all that good stuff).

Of course size matters. I’ve got my favorite size and shape. But it’s definitely not “the bigger the better.” Honesty has never been a problem in my current relationship, because my honest response is that he’s too big for me, and I think he can live with that.