Comments on: Dear Em & Lo: Should I Tell My BF I’ve Been Faking? http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/dear-em-lo-should-i-tell-my-bf-ive-been-faking/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:21:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: laughingtiger http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/dear-em-lo-should-i-tell-my-bf-ive-been-faking/comment-page-1/#comment-6197 laughingtiger Sat, 31 Oct 2009 03:58:48 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=2254#comment-6197 it's not fair to lie to him and make him think he's doing the job when he's not. there's nothing wrong with giving your man a "helping hand" (or finger, or vibe, or whatever feels good, for that matter). if he's a good guy, then he'll want to do just about whatever it takes to get you off. besides, most guys think it's hot when you play with yourself during sex! it’s not fair to lie to him and make him think he’s doing the job when he’s not. there’s nothing wrong with giving your man a “helping hand” (or finger, or vibe, or whatever feels good, for that matter). if he’s a good guy, then he’ll want to do just about whatever it takes to get you off. besides, most guys think it’s hot when you play with yourself during sex!

]]> By: greatbates http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/dear-em-lo-should-i-tell-my-bf-ive-been-faking/comment-page-1/#comment-1754 greatbates Thu, 09 Apr 2009 15:54:39 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=2254#comment-1754 yup yup yup yup

]]> By: hedgehog http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/dear-em-lo-should-i-tell-my-bf-ive-been-faking/comment-page-1/#comment-1709 hedgehog Tue, 07 Apr 2009 10:16:54 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=2254#comment-1709 There's hope for you! I've been in the same situation for years, with various guys. I only had clitorial orgasms, but could never be so cruel to tell my boyfriends about it, so I kept on lying. And in the meantime, I started experiencing by myself, on how I could have orgasm by penetration. And it worked. It literally took months of labour...but no unpleasant labour actually:)...and I've found my G-spot, too, which I thought was some urban legend:). So my advice: don't stop lying, starttrying:) There’s hope for you! I’ve been in the same situation for years, with various guys. I only had clitorial orgasms, but could never be so cruel to tell my boyfriends about it, so I kept on lying. And in the meantime, I started experiencing by myself, on how I could have orgasm by penetration. And it worked. It literally took months of labour…but no unpleasant labour actually:)…and I’ve found my G-spot, too, which I thought was some urban legend:).

So my advice: don’t stop lying, starttrying:)

]]> By: Rei http://www.emandlo.com/2009/04/dear-em-lo-should-i-tell-my-bf-ive-been-faking/comment-page-1/#comment-1627 Rei Thu, 02 Apr 2009 04:09:13 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=2254#comment-1627 Never have a fight with him, when you know that you are the cause of it. You need to tell him how to give you an orgasm, don't think he can read your mind. The best orgasms I have are from telling my fiance how to give them to me. He is amazing at it, and all it took was me speaking up. Never have a fight with him, when you know that you are the cause of it. You need to tell him how to give you an orgasm, don’t think he can read your mind. The best orgasms I have are from telling my fiance how to give them to me. He is amazing at it, and all it took was me speaking up.

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