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10 Comments on "Poll: Is Sex a Bargaining Chip?"


PK
6 years 4 months ago

Lysistrata is about politics, and is explicated through the personalities of the characters. In the play the major tactic of the players is withholding sex to force men to end a war. I’m not advocating it as an answer to the question but merely as an example in the media of this question. I’m not going to claim to be a scholar on translations of Aristophanes. I have heard that there is a new translation that is gaining praise. I’m sure you can find it, if it matters to you.

AlanK
6 years 4 months ago

Lysistrata is about politics, not personalities. And if you’ve ever found a decent translation do let me know.

Back to the subject at hand. Robert Heinlein once wrote that the second it becomes clear in an argument that you are right you should apologize at once. If your relationship isn’t more important than the argument you should KTMFAO.

PK
6 years 4 months ago

And for those looking for a classical perspective, Lysistrata, Aristophanes play about just this topic, is being performed by Synetic at the Rosslyn Spectrum outside of DC.

Dannie
6 years 4 months ago

I agree with Epiphany. If the argument has something directly to do with the sex life, then the sex should be handled accordingly. Sometimes it can fix the problem–other times it can make it worse. I personally feel that open communication is most important, and if sex is necessary for that to happen, then do not ever withhold it.

Nick
6 years 4 months ago

I heard a 70 year old woman give the advice:
“In a relationship, when your fighting, or when you need to talk about something that always leads to a fight. Always have sex first then talk about it. Who can be hostile and angry after great sex. You’ll be able to make your relationship last longer. Besides you need to have as much sex as you can while you’re still young.”

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