Comments on: Dear Dr. Kate: My G-Spot Is Not an Ecstasy Button http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:21:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: christina http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-38204 christina Tue, 10 Jan 2012 05:51:14 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-38204 Hi, I am newly married girl. I am very concern about my sex life. I had a pain everytime when the penis contract with inner side of my vagina, I think people called it as G-spot. only way to get the feeling or orgasm is by rubbing or using his fingers on my cclitoris. is that how other women get orgasm? pls help me in this to get lil solution. or am i trying so hard? Hi, I am newly married girl. I am very concern about my sex life. I had a pain everytime when the penis contract with inner side of my vagina, I think people called it as G-spot. only way to get the feeling or orgasm is by rubbing or using his fingers on my cclitoris. is that how other women get orgasm? pls help me in this to get lil solution. or am i trying so hard?

]]> By: GraceE http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-27797 GraceE Tue, 25 Jan 2011 23:09:16 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-27797 I'm 40+ years old, married 15 years, and I don't think I've EVER had a g-spot orgasm. I've tried: "letting go", relaxing...all I've felt is the sensation that I have to pee and more recently, pain - to the point that I started crying and having to say "STOP"! I've had my OB-GYN look into my vagina, and there isn't anything wrong. Recently, while stimulating my g-spot not only did I have to cry stop, the the pain after was TERRIBLE!! Waves of cramping for the next few hours that had me on the brink of tears. (BTW - I can suck up alot of pain, so being weenie is not an issue). Does working through the pain work? I'm feeling like there is something wrong with me. Thanks...anyone. I’m 40+ years old, married 15 years, and I don’t think I’ve EVER had a g-spot orgasm. I’ve tried: “letting go”, relaxing…all I’ve felt is the sensation that I have to pee and more recently, pain – to the point that I started crying and having to say “STOP”!

I’ve had my OB-GYN look into my vagina, and there isn’t anything wrong.

Recently, while stimulating my g-spot not only did I have to cry stop, the the pain after was TERRIBLE!! Waves of cramping for the next few hours that had me on the brink of tears. (BTW – I can suck up alot of pain, so being weenie is not an issue).

Does working through the pain work? I’m feeling like there is something wrong with me.

Thanks…anyone.

]]> By: Kożuchy Ekologiczne http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-8693 Kożuchy Ekologiczne Tue, 26 Jan 2010 10:42:04 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-8693 To be honourable I fully concord with Your opinion. To be honourable I fully concord with Your opinion.

]]> By: Purple T http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-5476 Purple T Wed, 07 Oct 2009 16:38:45 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-5476 Holey smokes! After reading much of this blog, I decided that you need to know about Thanks for Coming, One Young Woman's Quest for an Orgasm, written by Mara Altman. It's a book you've gotta read. It is a funny and honest story of her experiences while seeking an orgasm. It's a great gift! I'm the proud aunt of the author.:). You can get it here. http://tinyurl.com/ycc58bv Holey smokes! After reading much of this blog, I decided that you need to know about Thanks for Coming, One Young Woman’s Quest for an Orgasm, written by Mara Altman. It’s a book you’ve gotta read. It is a funny and honest story of her experiences while seeking an orgasm. It’s a great gift! I’m the proud aunt of the author.:). You can get it here.
http://tinyurl.com/ycc58bv

]]> By: LMP http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-5453 LMP Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:44:38 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-5453 I enjoy clitoral and g-spot orgasms and have ejaculated on occasion. Lately though when my husband even starts touching my g-spot, it starts to burn and then increases as he continues. It only lasts while he is doing it and shortly after. Could it just be vaginal friction? There seems to a period in the middle of my menstrual cycle when I'm not as prone to it. We generally use lube if there gets to be too much friction. We are intimate just about every day and have been married 10 months. This problem started about a month ago. Any ideas? Thanks I enjoy clitoral and g-spot orgasms and have ejaculated on occasion. Lately though when my husband even starts touching my g-spot, it starts to burn and then increases as he continues. It only lasts while he is doing it and shortly after. Could it just be vaginal friction? There seems to a period in the middle of my menstrual cycle when I’m not as prone to it. We generally use lube if there gets to be too much friction. We are intimate just about every day and have been married 10 months. This problem started about a month ago. Any ideas? Thanks

]]> By: phatbootycutie http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-4049 phatbootycutie Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:46:58 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-4049 OMG. I think you should exmpirament more with yourself in this area. I have been doing it for years now, and I find it exillerating. I orgasmn so drastically that I tire my own self out! Ladiez, learn what pleases YOU before expecting a man to take on the job solely. Did I mention how great it is???? :) OMG. I think you should exmpirament more with yourself in this area. I have been doing it for years now, and I find it exillerating. I orgasmn so drastically that I tire my own self out! Ladiez, learn what pleases YOU before expecting a man to take on the job solely.

Did I mention how great it is???? :)

]]> By: Amber http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-4046 Amber Wed, 12 Aug 2009 08:23:22 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-4046 sounds like you need to squirt to me. Go to femaleejaculation101.com and it will answer all questions you may have about the act. Stimulating the g spot and clit causes an intense feeling of needing to urinate but we naturally hold that feeling back cause we think its a need to urinate. But if instead you relax and go with it you will squirt and the I have to pee feeling won't stay with you all day. If you stimulate that and hold back you won't be able to just pee it out later. Just as a man wouldn't be able to urinate out his cum neither can a woman. I wouldn't say this unless it were true cause I to had this same problem before learning about female ejaculation. It has changed my sex life drastically. sounds like you need to squirt to me. Go to femaleejaculation101.com and it will answer all questions you may have about the act. Stimulating the g spot and clit causes an intense feeling of needing to urinate but we naturally hold that feeling back cause we think its a need to urinate. But if instead you relax and go with it you will squirt and the I have to pee feeling won’t stay with you all day. If you stimulate that and hold back you won’t be able to just pee it out later. Just as a man wouldn’t be able to urinate out his cum neither can a woman. I wouldn’t say this unless it were true cause I to had this same problem before learning about female ejaculation. It has changed my sex life drastically.

]]> By: Dr. Kate http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-2369 Dr. Kate Mon, 11 May 2009 20:36:42 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-2369 Lamha, there are a lot of reasons for pain with sex - but pain is never normal. Check out my article (link below), then see your gyno to help you find the answer (and the solution): http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2008/11/better-sex-for-women Lamha, there are a lot of reasons for pain with sex – but pain is never normal. Check out my article (link below), then see your gyno to help you find the answer (and the solution):
http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2008/11/better-sex-for-women

]]> By: lamha http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-2357 lamha Sat, 09 May 2009 14:16:34 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-2357 i am married my sex life is gud till yesterday..yesterday i have pain after sex n it remain till.tt pains lot in my ass ,stomach n even g-spot.n its pain much at the time of sex, n couldnt do sex.. pls help me, is there any thing wrong.. i am married my sex life is gud till yesterday..yesterday i have pain after sex n it remain till.tt pains lot in my ass ,stomach n even g-spot.n its pain much at the time of sex, n couldnt do sex.. pls help me, is there any thing wrong..

]]> By: Erin http://www.emandlo.com/2009/05/dear-dr-kate-my-g-spot-is-not-an-ecstasy-button/comment-page-1/#comment-2350 Erin Fri, 08 May 2009 21:20:07 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3018#comment-2350 I have that problem when I go running too soon after sex, it forever feels like i have to pee! That is that last thing you want to feel when your running or doing anything. I soon learned to sooth my UTI fears by drinking lots of cranberry juice and call sexy time my work out time! I have that problem when I go running too soon after sex, it forever feels like i have to pee! That is that last thing you want to feel when your running or doing anything. I soon learned to sooth my UTI fears by drinking lots of cranberry juice and call sexy time my work out time!

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