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Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me

Wed, Jun 17, 2009

Advice, Dear Em & Lo

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Dear Em & Lo,
About six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months and have recently met someone new. The other day the new boy and I were engaging in some hands-on action which led me to discover that he nowhere near measured up to my ex. The new boy was around 4-6″. My problem is that I’m really worried about having sex with him because my ex was over 8″. I feel really disappointed and I know that 8″ is a high bar that’s been set. Am I bad person or should I go looking for something more? Why can’t good-looking men come with the measurements of their penis tattooed onto their wrist or something? The problems and surprises that would solve..
–Sizeist

Dear Sizeist,

We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere. It’s the secret fear that everyone — male and female — experiences at some point in their hook-up life: Am I being compared to their ex(es)? And if so, am I failing to measure up?

But on behalf of all the average-sized men out there, i.e. the vast majority of men, we think you should give Mr. 4-6″ a chance. It’s not like you’ve dated a string of 8″ men and have discovered that only a super-sized schlong can satisfy you. (In fact, you need to understand that, statistically speaking, 8 inches is freakishly long). No, you just had one great experience with one 8″ penis. And this is by no means a guarantee that sex with a 4-6″ penis will feel only 50-75% as great.

For a start, men with big swinging dicks can get lazy in the sack, assuming that size is the only thing that matters. They may also assume that intercourse is the only thing that matters — and we all know how few women climax from intercourse alone; remember, orgasm achieved through non-penile means still counts as sex! Not to mention, you may suddenly discover new penetration positions that you really enjoy — positions that perhaps were not so comfortable with a larger specimen. Oh, and don’t forget that, when it comes to size, most women agree that girth is a lot more important than length, since the majority of sensation is felt in the outer third of the vagina, thanks to the extensions of the clitoris, the g-spot, and the pelvic floor muscles around the lower part of the vaginal canal (and also since a lot of women don’t enjoy having their cervix rammed).

On a final note: Maybe he was nervous and not fully inflated, as it were. Basically, you have no idea what sex is going to be like with this man. So if you dig him (and we surely hope the handwork you exchanged means that you do), why not find out whether the motion of his ocean can get the job done?

Of course, we can’t discount the fact that you may simply be less attracted to him (or not attracted to him at all) now that you’ve scoped out his unit — you like what you like.¬† This doesn’t make you a bad person, though you are severely limiting your dating options — at least until your tattoo idea catches on. We suppose you could post a personal ad specifying that only 8″-penis-owners need reply, but something tells us that’s not exactly the way to find the next Boyfriend of the Year. Here’s a better idea: Why not just spend some quality time with an average-sized penis and see if the experience converts you?

Here for the little people,

Em & Lo

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702 Responses to “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me”

  1. postman Says:

    it dosent matter about the size its whats in the heart if the love is there then thats all that should matter im 46 and my wife is 45 we married at the age of 16 and 15 and beleve me are love life is no drage and id be safe to say that im around 4-5 so if you need more then that i think you need to tighten it up becouse its to loose or just plaine wore out

  2. big buck Says:

    I measure almost 9 in I wish I was only 4 or 5 inchesches women do not like big cocks I don’t use it all anyways so if you’re taken it then you definitely need to get it tightened up there might be something wrong with you

  3. Shawn Says:

    this women should have how shallow she is printed in her wrist

  4. Amber Says:

    They say 6″ is the average, but most guys are over 6″. Anything under 6″ is pretty small. Most guys know that and are usually accepting of it, most you can even tease about it. Just talk to him, if he doesnt have a sense of humor or of himself, look for something bigger.

  5. Johnny Says:

    ^You tease guys about their small dicks!?Either you’re horribly cruel or you date guys with GREAT senses of humor.

  6. bill Says:

    Hand some men
    with tactile skill
    know how to explore
    where sensations start
    and
    finger those places
    to
    extend the thrill

  7. Steve Smith Says:

    I only have four inches. This is a real small penis, but there are girls out there who will ‘accept’ it. It really is whast a man can do with his equiptment that matters most, but, God gave most men around 6 for a reason.

  8. john Says:

    Having a micropenis is no joke its a birthdefect. But its laughed at like a joke. 6 out of 1000 males are born this way. Its very sad. Men born with not much of dick are basically enuchs. And having a normal sex life forget. Shunned laughed at ridiculed. Rather be a dwarf with a big dick. Oh Dwarfs are a joke also.

  9. john Says:

    Oh and another thing the averager vagina is only 3-4 inches long so more dick than that is a waste.

  10. Shit in the gene pool Says:

    Well this confirms most if my suspicions about women in general. Only unattractive, fat, lonely women say “size doesn’t matter” or “they can make up for it”. Those seem poor rationalizations at best. Additionally, all the self proclaimed women here say they have had smaller ones give them great sex, but none of those downgrades have been a significant jump. No one has gone from an 8in man to a someone like me, 4in long and two fingers in diameter. That big a jump will assuredly suck every paticle of sexual arousal from all parties. Seems my chances are nil.

    Attractive women, desirable women, have made up their minds. Size matters. In fact, size is fundamentally paramount to the future of any relationship with a decently attractive female. So being 4in long and two fingers thick makes my chances of a relationship with any woman deemed marginally attractive mathematically insignificant. And since there exists no method of enlargement that produces consistent, guaranteed results it would seem my future in romance has been well decided.

    And people have the audacity to believe in a “God”. Fuck my life when will it just end?

  11. PasserBy Says:

    This one has some of the most misandrist comment threads ive ever seen online.This is really low and pathetic especially for a site who claims to be ‘sex positive’.Time to archive this one and lock it down already.SMH

  12. Jeff Says:

    There are a lot of mis leading statements above.
    Fact: the average penis size (mean) is 5.5 inches in length, 4.75 inches circumference
    The average vagina 5.75 inch length.
    So basically average is perfect match. Some women prefer larger penis sizes but the ones who prefer or only mention length are mis understanding their own bodies. About 95% of the nerves stimulated during intercourse are within the first 3 inches.
    So basically for the vast majority of women and men 3 in length is good as long as they both are willing to work the positions.

    I am average at about 6 and 4.6circ, I take a woman saying that that is small as a challenge. I make it my goal to find her climax limits and pass them. I may not have a large penis but I make up in stamina and generosity.

    All in all if both partners are accepting of the other and generous with the entire experience (ie fore play, oral, and everything in between) then size doesn’t matter. If you care for the other person then put that passion in to love making and you will find what works, if you’re just in it for sex then
    It doesn’t matter any way, go all out with no inhibitions, it’s not like you are planning on sticking around any way.

    Do what makes you happy, but to judge a person based solely on the size of their parts is ignorant.

  13. Johnny Says:

    Based on what I’ve seen and heard, including here, dick preference seems to go by thirds: about 1/3 of women prefer big guys; about 1/3 subscribe to, “it’s not the size that counts, it’s how you use what yo’ve got”. And about 1/3 are built for smaller guys.

    I’ve actually noticed the same thing about mens’ preferences regarding womens’ weight. About 1/3 only like thin women. About 1/3 aren’t hung up about it either way; and about 1/3 prefer a woman with more to love.

    I don’t see why people get so pissed about it. I see it as a real “something for everyone” situation, and i find that reassuring.

  14. J Says:

    I have a 4in penis and im 18, im not proud of it but i dont hate it. It is what it is learn to love your little monster.

  15. jon Says:

    nobody is talking about how you can be a guy with a non gerthy 4 1/2 inches (like me) and have a girlfriend that loves you and will “accept” you and love you for the way you are…

    but you still wanna blow your f*&#ing brains out because she was honest and told you she prefers bigger guys. what do you do? break up with someone that loves you? because you know you can only satisfy her with your mouth, and basically that makes you a male lesbian.
    fml.

  16. Diana Says:

    Man! This topic will last forever and ever! In this society everything MUST be big! Everyone is influenced by what they see in porn, what they “hear” from girlfriends other from other dudes, but God forbid a little bit to read about human anatomy, about vaginas and about penises! Guys with big dicks think they are good in bed, but these guys usually have no idea what sex is really about, men with smaller dicks, have so low self-esteem that don’t even try to be good in bed, and as a result, most them are not good because they are inhibited.

    So what I am saying is this, when a girl is so stupid that she laughs at you just because you don’t have Anacoda as a penis, she is too stupid to fuck, practically she has no idea where her G-point is. When they prefer bigger penises, they are also with low self-esteem, and need a big one to show off to their “girlfriends”.
    Guys, the biggest sex organ is the brain, use it when you want to pleasure a woman.

  17. Roman Says:

    This is an issue of huge insecurity for small guys like myself since we have to live a life of constant compensation. The pain of fearing every sexual encounter is awful. At the end of the day, anatomy means that size does matter. Of course it’s not all that matters, but it truly does matter.

    I try everyday to accept myself the way I am and it’s an ongoing battle. My options are accept myself and face the inevitable rejections until a girl will settle for it, or live alone as monk or some one who avoids sex. It’s so shitty to be given a desire to please women, and to also be made pretty inadequate for it. God damn you universe!!!!! I hope reincarnation is real and that I can chose my next life and body.

  18. Simon Says:

    I definitely prefer women with bigger breasts, so about schlong size, girls probably prefer bigger too. Ladies, get implants if you feel insecure about it. Guys, not sure what you can do. Bummer. Bring on the silicon!

  19. Tom Says:

    Alot of my friends have relationship problems because they have small penises as in small I mean like 1.2 inch I laugh at them because I have never had that problem as my penis 3 girth an my length is 8inchies

  20. Greg Says:

    Alright….what a joke this is! Let me tell you the truth….any woman who thinks that size is the important part hasn’t spent any time experiencing the best part of sex….foreplay, probably because she’s lazy! I am in my late 40′s, have literally been with hundreds of women. I have had many women tell me I was the best lover EVER, and my cock is definately no more than 5 inches hard. likes…it’s all about finding out what she likes, exploring her senses and realizing it’s not just about filling filling her up…how shallow.

  21. Billy bobs Says:

    I want to die!!! My small 4″x1″ penis has affected my entire life. I have to look at it every day. Girls turn away after checking out my package. I have no self confidence. Why even try to find love just to be laughed at. It cuts deep… Why go on living? I’ll never ever satisfy a woman.

  22. dudeman Says:

    ive struggled with such insecurity in the past but i developed a way to overcome it…i got a decent job… support yourself… fill your life with good habit and hygiene and hobby. Be smart and have self worth and confidence…WOMEN WILL WANT TO BE WITH YOU!!!
    then just be a freak, i mean be a f@#$ing crazy animal in bed who cares what ya got just use it like its the last time you’ll ever be able to. give her something to consider…there are many different ways to be stimulated and many different people with many fetishes. just please dont kill yourself…invent a cure for cancer…sheesh.

  23. crazychick Says:

    Well some people went to the extreme with this topic. Me on the other hand would say I am an attractive girl that says size doesnt matter. Im currently with a man with a small penis and iv never been that impressed! That man can do things that hello wares me out haha before him I was with someone who was way bigger but a selfish lover…. Not exciting at all plus it hurt. My current man can hit spots and rub me all over in areas I didnt even know would excite me. Yeah I questioned it before but now I know id much rather prefer smaller. So in the end size does matter! Six and up can be very painful! Five and smaller is all kinds of fun

  24. Jay Perry Says:

    As a relationship expert, I agree totally with the reply – you are limiting yourself if you think big is all that matters… I know a lot of women have said that how a man uses it is what really matters… Good points above and remember that it’s the whole experience you should be basing your decision on not just his dong size! The girl above has not even bedded the guy yet? Do that first a few times and then decide!

  25. sitimaan Says:

    I’m a little above average about 6 and half kinda thick..I’m told…but it not average to my woman I can make her orgasm by touch by tounges..but I’m disappointed I have not made her orgasm by penis..I know where to put it too..but to no avail ..shes tends to not even want chubs unless its the 3or4days before her period…leaving feeling dejected and shame..I guess I am just like the previous poster said …being a male lesbian..I actually thought of buying a fulfil and strap for her LOL…I’m totally fucked

  26. dirk Says:

    It only takes 3/4 of an inch to penetrate the average woman. I have twice that!

  27. Evan Says:

    Don’t be a greedy whore. Problem solved.

  28. Chris Says:

    The age old question that won’t die.

    Why do women continue to lie about this I will never know. Then again, I don’t know why certain women do a lot of things. Facts are facts. Size matters. Otherwise the question would not be continually asked.

    That doesn’t mean you need a fire hose. It doesn’t mean there aren’t other things you should do but if you are small you are already behind. The other “skills” can be learned over time with a willing partner. Size can’t. You will always be behind the other guy. You will never be “that” guy. You will never be the fantasy just the guy she’s stuck with for the time being. Nice, kind and communicative only go so far. For most men that will be the best you will ever achieve. Learn to live with it because it will be a long life.

    It’s partly the reason why I don’t bother with women. Why look for someone who doesn’t exist? It’s a waste of time and energy and you will only feel worse about yourself afterwords anyway.

    To the OP, leave the relationship now. Spare yourself the disappointment. He already knows. Trust me. He knows.

  29. Dan Says:

    your going to have to have to make a decision.. either settle with the fact that your man isnt as big as others are or move on. i am only 4.5 which isnt that big.. but it shouldnt be alot about penis size, infact that should be such a small part of it.. see how sex is with this guy, and if its not great i suggest you try giving some tips on how it could be better. by the way the dude may just be a bit put off or possibily intimidated by the size of your previous mate.. if you let him know you dont care about it at all the chances are he will grow to his full peak erection.. u gotta make him feel comfortable to really get him to give u all hes got

  30. Nick Says:

    The worldwide average is like 5.0-6.9…so perhaps she is the one with the anatomy problem.If yoy want more than that buy a dildo thats why they make them fool.

  31. D.J Says:

    If you know what to do you can be 9 inch- 4 it doesn’t matter that much but smaller guys better know what they r doing to be great big bois just fire away and she will NEVER leave you

  32. alice Says:

    do u know what, do not waste ur time dat u are in arelationship where ur are not going to be satisfied in bed ti beter u quite and get some one whom u will not cheat on coz u will need to satisfy ur dires

  33. cody Says:

    Man I have to say after reading thread I feel way better about my self I have about 6.5 and almost three fingers wide when hard I thought it was small. The biggest thing is if your girl can’t be happy with what you got she is either lazy and doesn’t care enough about herself to tighten it up or she is just shallow and follows the media crowd that says you need a monster to feel good. I say be happy with what you got cause it ain’t gonna change

  34. Mike Says:

    I don’t take issue with women that prefer big dicks. But then they can’t complain when a guy dumps their ass for a chick who’s younger, hotter, skinnier, or has bigger tits.

    You can’t have it both ways and demand a big dick but also get pissed off when you’re passed over for being fat, flat, or ugly.

  35. C2k Says:

    Size does make a difference to a man. I used to be 4inches in length and 3 inches in girth. This were the bad times, I couldnt even look a beautiful women in the eye cause i knew i couldnt satisfy her, cause my stamina was ridiculous…call me the 5 minutes guy.

    I decided i had enough, it was time to grow my package. did some research on the internet on how to grow a penis….I am now 5.5.inches in length and 5.3 inches in grith. am trying to get my package to 6 inches in length. I dont really know if it matters cause I am a virgin anyway.

    But having a bigger dick has made a big difference. am more confident in everything I do…It feels good going out to a club and looking a beautiful women in the eye cause i know i can hit that ass so F$¬£king good. I know this cause jerking off takes an hour now.

    anyway this is just a tip to anyone how feels let down by their manhood, something can be done to make it bigger so its not the end of the world i guess

  36. Kelly Says:

    I really have no wide range of experience to pull from because I’ve only been with one man. But I can tell you, my husband is probably about 5.5″ and that is about a half inch too long. He has to be careful in some positions because its a bit too long and it really hurts to be poked like that. I can’t imagine ending up with someone who had 6″ and turning sex into a round of “that bloody hurts, stop moving”. It would make things rather tense and unenjoyable.

    Not all women have the same dimensions obviously.

  37. Annie Says:

    This girl has issues. I am a good looking, professional 42y old single mother of a 19y old boy and 16y daughter. I’ve had many lovers and today I tell you this – I’d rather have a sensitive 4 than a 8who doesnt give a shit or is totaly obsessed with his hugeness. Size is a mindset. Writer of this degrading post – you are emotionaly immature. May God help the man who marries you and may He help you ’cause unless you are perfect (there aint such thing as perfect btw) you should rather keep out of relationships. May my son never encounter a cold hearted bitch such as you and may my daughter grow up to be a soft lady who judge men not on the size of their penis, but for who they are.

  38. Me Says:

    Hey

    Just to say something. Size doesn’t matter, period. Every human is different in their own unique and beautiful way. Maybe one man has a big one, so that’s the thing about him. The other man may be touching you in all the right places. Third one may be the best kisser. I’ve had different ‘size’ experiences, and even today its not size that turns me on.
    Sex is different with every person, so its about the entire package, not just one body part.
    For guys who feel bad about their size, don’t be. There is a woman who will love and respect you the way you are. And she may be smart, intelligent and sexy. You better believe it.

  39. sean Says:

    Well I am only a 4 incher but have been sleeping with a woman whose ex-husband is large but not satisfying. She cannot get enough of me and we have had sex at least twice a day for over 4 years now. I have never had a complaint from a sex partner about size, in fact I get only compliments. Its what you do with it baby, and if the woman thinks its important that you have a large one then piss her off cause she is not worth it.

  40. wow Says:

    …this thread is troll city,and its getting old.Just stop it already people.

  41. Kat Says:

    Sorry wow but I’ve only just seen this post and feel the urge to reply.

    As someone who has been through something similar, I understand what Sizeist is saying.

    I had a f buddy who was huge and could pleasure me in other ways as well like nobody else had. I was afraid I was never going to get that level of pleasure again with a bar that had been set too high.

    However, although this arrangement suited us both fine, somewhere deep down I wasn’t happy to have things stay on a plateau. Although not with him, I wanted to find a relationship where it would go somewhere and we could grow as people and have other parts of me entertained, including just feeling loved and not like a blow up doll.

    Then I met the love of my life. Although he is smaller, it was actually his inexperience that was a bit of an issue at first but I didn’t care because I knew he cared for me and lovingly, I taught him how to pleasure me and guided him to watch a few things. Also, I knew we are in it for the long term. There’s no rush.

    After we got over that, let me tell you that no feeling is better than lovemaking because it’s about being lost in the moment, not worrying about size.

    Best of all, he respects me and adores me. We have great sex but that’s just one part of our relationship.

    The question you need to ask yourself is what you want and proceed from there. Are you looking for a relationship or flings? Don’t be too quick to judge but I think it’s a bit late now.

    I really do understand how you feel but your thoughts are enough damage and just let the guy go.

    If you’re going to judge a book by it’s cover, then don’t try to make a relationship out of it because it will never work.

    Guys already have enough hang ups about their member size but it’s our job to not laugh, maim and judge them about it just like if you were flat chested or too busty or your vagina was a different shape, you wouldn’t like men to mock you for it.

    With a little love and patience, my man learnt to pleasure me just how I like it, with that his confidence grew and he has the unique (well unique because I’ve never come across it before) that after he orgasms, he’s soon up & ready for another round. It actually hypes him up rather than send him to sleep.

    So go ahead, judge him by his size and good luck in finding another one just as big. Spare him from your thoughts and he can find someone more worthy.

    I dislike the impression you and some other female posters are giving out. Not all women base their partner choice on penis size.

  42. Dedalus Says:

    I have one that is 4 1/2 inches. I’ve had 4 sexual partners before. Two of the have had way bigger guys before me. Both claim to have never achieved orgasm most of the time with any of them until I came along. Out of the 4 there was only one girl that couldn’t orgasm, but she could rarely get one with other people anyway.

    My current girlfriend (hopefully last =D) has had a well-endowed ex, but prefers my size because there is less pain and more pleasure. I can make her orgasm before I do every time we have sex! We have the best sex when we’re on vacation or alone. Perhaps our chemistry is about perfect….

    Knowing that I can make a girl (or at least my girl) climax 90% of the time is HUGE ego boost for me and my little dude.

    So, I’m convinced that even a small to average guy can is able to pleasure any girl…Just be be confident, truly love your woman, and find your groove.

  43. Dedalus Says:

    By the way, I’ve make my girlfriend orgasm with my 4 1/2 inch penis almost every time we have sex (not just oral or touching)… =]

    She even gets one before I do. I hate to brag, but if this helps bring out confidence in other guys, then I shall brag.

  44. Ashleigh Says:

    Might i just add, that women aren’t “shallow” for choosing a man with a bigger dick over a smaller one, men are on the same level for choosing a woman with bigger boobs over one who has smaller boobs! And as far as mocking someone over their penis size goes, pretty sure most girls who have smaller breasts get mocked by guys too! i know i have!

  45. Robert Says:

    My ex broke up with me because my 5.5″ couldn’t satisfy her. I know this because she cheated on me twice with a dude who was NO BETTER than me in any way but in the sack, he had a 10″ dong. I’ve had women since then, but none of them compare to what I felt with her.. why’d she have to betray me like that. Just for a dick. His 10″ in no way compensates for my 5 11″ awesomeness.

  46. good guy Says:

    “We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere”…..complete and total BULL! You threw up this topic because you KNEW it would draw a firestorm of misandry and judgements in the comments.This is NOT a sex positive site period Everyone has right to their preferences but you don’t have a right to dig,rip or judge people based on something you damn well know they cannot change.

  47. Linda Says:

    If you’re a chick just looking for dick, then u should have THAT posted on your forehead, and if you’re a guy just looking for a lay, give us the heads up too…same thng (If that’s what you’re REALLY looking for, it’s ok… just be real)
    A real MAN is not defined by the size of his penis… believe you me. Some guys with big penises get SO lazy in the sack because they think that’s all it takes to please and they are SO wrong. I’ve had a big one before, yeah…but it was the worse sex ever; there IS a reason why the term “COCKY” is a negative term in many aspects. A four-inched man gave me my first man-induced orgasm; I had to fake it out of the bigger ones because they lacked in so many ways. I’m tired of chicks bringing down good men out there; men have psyches, egos, virtues, and insecurities like women do…guys with penises and girls with boobs. “I need to have more boobs TO GET A MAN :( ” I guess if you’re talking about Hugh Heffner, because apparently you have absolutely nothing else internally to offer…and DON’T get upset when you wear cleavage-baring tops and guys just stare…you ask? they’ll answer. Just be real ladies. I’m all up for the self-esteem boost; as long as you’re not hurting yourself or anyone else…do it!
    For the men out there; ALL men…I’m tired of the stupid penis-size game. I understand you, but I’m personally tired of it. There’s more to a man than his penis. And no, not all big and not all small are bad… just like boobs; there’s one for everyone. We are NOT all caught up with penis size, and we don’t ALL want big ones, just to let you know.
    And no, I’m not unattractive…by all means I am very sought out for. I’m a very natural, and very happily self-accepted pretty girl with a kim kardashian-meets-jessica biel body, and yeah I got a pretty mug, too. I am HAPPILY pleased in ALL levels with my husband…a 4-5″er!! The best sex and most importantly the best RELATIONSHIP I’ve ever had, EVER. 10 years and counting… I’ve never been treated as good as I have by my man. If you’re looking for cock (not guaranteeing good sex), you look in his pants…if you’re looking for TRUE love & respect you have to look far beyond skin-deep.
    I’m TIRED of my husband telling me that he doesn’t deserve me, because of his penis size that HE isn’t comfortable with, and supposedly that such a “gorgeous” girl like me deserves a big cock. I don’t wanna dick, I want a MAN… and I got MINE now.

  48. Mandi Says:

    Ive just started dating someone that is awesome in foreplay, drove me wild, then pulled out a 2inch stump… dont know what to say to it so just cuddled up and changed subject.

  49. brooklyn Says:

    I am having the same problem, only a little different! My new boyfriend may be 5 inches, not a problem, my ex yes he was a solid 9 and amazing in bed! Im very adventurous in bed and the new guy.. not so much! He’s said 100 times he’s more worried about me and gets the greatest pleasure when I have a smile on my face in bed.. I am absolutely crazy over this guy and told him lastnight, no more of my crazy sex fetishes until he becomes more comfortable with me. I’ve asked him 100 times what he likes when it comes to sex and he just gives me very vague answers.. he keeps saying he’s scared that he can’t satisfy me.. but he does because I have such an amazing emotional attachment to him.. so im more of a freak and he’s Sooooo far from it.. its getting old.. I really can’t deal with a boring sex life.. no matter the size!

  50. lisa Says:

    I’m a young woman 26 years old. I have only had three boyfriends. My boyfriend right now is alittle short. I am a woman that enjoys getting my cervix stimulated during sex and a 4-5inch penis honestly doesn’t cut it. His thickness is fine but some women like their cervix stimulated and I get amazing orgasums from it. The way I feel is if u not hitting it I can’t have a cervical orgasm during sex so what’s the point of having a penis in me. Clitoral orgasms are the easy ones and can be achieved easy. For people that say most of a women feeling is three inches in is wrong not all women are the same .


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