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Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me

Wed, Jun 17, 2009

Advice, Dear Em & Lo

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Dear Em & Lo,
About six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months and have recently met someone new. The other day the new boy and I were engaging in some hands-on action which led me to discover that he nowhere near measured up to my ex. The new boy was around 4-6″. My problem is that I’m really worried about having sex with him because my ex was over 8″. I feel really disappointed and I know that 8″ is a high bar that’s been set. Am I bad person or should I go looking for something more? Why can’t good-looking men come with the measurements of their penis tattooed onto their wrist or something? The problems and surprises that would solve..
–Sizeist

Dear Sizeist,

We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere. It’s the secret fear that everyone — male and female — experiences at some point in their hook-up life: Am I being compared to their ex(es)? And if so, am I failing to measure up?

But on behalf of all the average-sized men out there, i.e. the vast majority of men, we think you should give Mr. 4-6″ a chance. It’s not like you’ve dated a string of 8″ men and have discovered that only a super-sized schlong can satisfy you. (In fact, you need to understand that, statistically speaking, 8 inches is freakishly long). No, you just had one great experience with one 8″ penis. And this is by no means a guarantee that sex with a 4-6″ penis will feel only 50-75% as great.

For a start, men with big swinging dicks can get lazy in the sack, assuming that size is the only thing that matters. They may also assume that intercourse is the only thing that matters — and we all know how few women climax from intercourse alone; remember, orgasm achieved through non-penile means still counts as sex! Not to mention, you may suddenly discover new penetration positions that you really enjoy — positions that perhaps were not so comfortable with a larger specimen. Oh, and don’t forget that, when it comes to size, most women agree that girth is a lot more important than length, since the majority of sensation is felt in the outer third of the vagina, thanks to the extensions of the clitoris, the g-spot, and the pelvic floor muscles around the lower part of the vaginal canal (and also since a lot of women don’t enjoy having their cervix rammed).

On a final note: Maybe he was nervous and not fully inflated, as it were. Basically, you have no idea what sex is going to be like with this man. So if you dig him (and we surely hope the handwork you exchanged means that you do), why not find out whether the motion of his ocean can get the job done?

Of course, we can’t discount the fact that you may simply be less attracted to him (or not attracted to him at all) now that you’ve scoped out his unit — you like what you like.¬† This doesn’t make you a bad person, though you are severely limiting your dating options — at least until your tattoo idea catches on. We suppose you could post a personal ad specifying that only 8″-penis-owners need reply, but something tells us that’s not exactly the way to find the next Boyfriend of the Year. Here’s a better idea: Why not just spend some quality time with an average-sized penis and see if the experience converts you?

Here for the little people,

Em & Lo

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704 Responses to “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me”

  1. DJ Says:

    Im 4-5 inches and wish I had an extra inch or two. Ive been with about 25 girls and about 5 said I was the best they ever had and about there were about 5 that I couldn’t do anything for. I noticed a patter than girls with small wrists seem to like smaller dicks. The best 3 girls all told me they were scared of big dicks and didnt like them cuz they hurt. They were all petite 110 lb girls with small wrists and loved me. My girl I’m with now is always horney for me. We have more sex than with anyone shes been with before because I am always hard and always want it and she is flattered. She has told me that I am the smallest she has been with and the only one that makes or orgasm every time. She wants to marry me and we have sex everyday if not twice or three times a day. That said I still wish I had an extra inch or two just for ego sake and to expand the amount of women I could please, but I figure if you have a smaller dick just find a smaller girl with a small frame. I even had one small asian girl that said I hurt her and she couldnt take all my 5 inches…lol

  2. MissWise Says:

    Well, i’m old enough to be quite experienced on this topic. Though certainly not proud of it, i’ve had 9 partners. Their sizes have been scattered. I would say about 1-3″, 1-4″, 2-5″, 1-6″, 2-7″ and 2-8/9″. I’ve also always been very tight, 1 finger is all I need to feel something. 3/4 of the big guys were very painful due to girth. I would say only 2 of the 9 knew what they were doing. None of them have ever gotten me off. Except my current boyfriend actually gets me so close that i’m just as exhausted as if I had climaxed. He is also about 5″.

    I would have to say size does matter, but not in the typical way everyone thinks it does. If women could be less judgmental and more accepting, they would be able to experience what I have in that there’s always a perfect fit, you just have to be willing to try it on. It’s ridiculous that some females have a preference when they don’t even know much about, their

  3. MissWise Says:

    *own bodies. I wish there was a way to fix this for all those “average” or below sized guys. And as for my experiences, bigger guys almost always are lazy in bed! The ones i’ve been with also don’t last as long… talking literally 15 seconds to 2 minutes. It’s also a preference thing though, just like some guys like loose women or flat chests. But it is annoying that females have preferences when then haven’t tried all the flavors, they just think they prefer a certain size.

  4. mzk Says:

    If we concetrate on the size we won’t enjoy sex, as a man I do meet females wth huge hole but I try my best to make sure they also enjoy, same as their sizes of boobs n arse coz it does matter to some of us but we do try to settle for less. So nan u women out there stop descriminating the shorter guys out there, instead find a way to make use wat they have

  5. Maxamillian Says:

    This letter just screams inexperience to me. Sex isn’t about how big someones penis is, not even close. Not only is the vagina actually only 4 or 5 inches deep, most women only orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Size matters to an extent, but bigger doesn’t always equal better. Thanks for setting her straight Em and Lo.

  6. Lester Says:

    This is crazy… A woman’s vagina is the size of a softball. I’ve never seen a penis with this kind of girth. why are we not questioning this issue. It’s all psychological. I’m 8″ and about 5″.25 girth and guess what? I want to be bigger. It’s all male ego, period. If your girlfriend tells you that you have a small penis, get rid of her. If you want to work it out, tell her to do keagles and in a short time she’ll be tighter.

  7. Kas Says:

    I’ve lived through a similar situation but with girth (apparently it’s more important in pleasure for us girls).
    My current boyfriend and my ex are exact in length but my current is half the size in girth. One is the biggest I’ve ever been with and the other is the smallest (coincidence, one right after the other..)

    But I’ve now been longer with my current than I ever was with my ex. Even I’m surprised. =)

    What I can tell you is that it’s HARD to get used to, and I think you only go through with it if you really love that person. For now I am content, even though I can’t help missing that feeling of fullness every once in a while..but then we play in bed and i get over it.;)

    I don’t think it makes you a bad person at all, I think your reaction and questioning is absolutely normal(I went through the same ones!) I would say to try him out if you like him, you never know.

    Good luck!

  8. chris Says:

    Look the whole 4-5 in guys cant hit the cervics is bs the average length of the vagina is 4-6 inches and the openening of the cervics moves month to month its all abt angling to hit it. I hate that some girls bash the average guy cuz he dont have a penis like a porn start like they think theyre better then the average guy. When women bash the average size guyband say i want huge dick the 1st thing ppl think of u is that ur a whore. Learn how to have sex its not just stick it in and thats it no ots skill that gets the job done.

  9. junior Says:

    only true hoes say this.

  10. ajs Says:

    I must say, I feel much better after reading this thread. I was kidded in high school because I matured late, and when soft my dick just doesn’t look impressive. But when hard, it’s 5.75. So even today, I have issues with it, even though I have literally had over 100 women in my life. I have had many tell me I was the best ever (I LOVE to eat pussy), I even had an Asian hooker in a foreign country come back a 3rd night, FOR FREE. And I have the cutest and thinnest 50 year old wife of anyone I know. Moral of the story: get it over it (myself included), and learn some new techniques. If you are an attentive lover with an average size, you’ll be just fine.

  11. ladieslove Says:

    Although I am pretty well endowed (8″) I think these women have it mixed up. First of all, I would say 70% of women find my penis hard to take and then the anxiety of taking it can make it even worse and the sex can sometimes suffer, although if they relax I always ‘whips that pussy’ and get them off. We’d all like bigger for ego sake but most women can’t take them.
    Anyway, for the OP, have you girls ever considered it’s not the average mans fault for being average but your fault for being a dime store hooker who’s had a truck load of cock and a vagina like a wizards sleeve?Let me tell you, confident and experienced guys mock girls with huge pussys so just think about that….

  12. Anonymous Says:

    I’m 5.5 inches and I’ve been with 4 girls in my life. Three of which I’ve given multiple orgasms to. Hell, I even had one who was a Caucasian screaming in spanish(I’m Spanish). Bottom line is, it depends on two things. 1 the motion of the ocean and 2 the emotional bond between both parties.
    As an experiment I bought my wife a big dildo to see if I’m inadequate because of my insecurity of my penis some days. Turns out she doesn’t like the dildo because it hurts. My motto is “If it ain’t broke don’t fix it.” If you love the guy who cares what size his member is?

  13. ThikThok Says:

    Try Mine.

  14. paul salt Says:

    ok.. dont worry about it.
    am a 30yr old guy an ive been with my girlfriend for about 4yrs now.
    when we first had sex i was really wored as my manhood when hard is about 4 and half inches and i dint think she would be ok with it…
    as the yrs have gone by i now no when we have sex sometimes she gets of on it and sometimes she dont.
    even though my dick maybe on the small side she will always love me and sex is not always a big deal

  15. W T F Says:

    What a bunch of misandry and propaganda…way to stir up some good ol fashion male bashing,judgements and sex negativity ladies!!

  16. Johnny Says:

    ^ Assuming you’re a dude, you doubt you have preferences regarding the female form. Do those make you a misogynist and a propagandist?

  17. Liz Says:

    When will men and women realize it’s not size that matters? And I mean all kinds of sizes, not just penis.

    I’d like to weight in my two cents though. My husband has a 9 inch penis, very thick. Is he fantastic in bed? Yes, after a lot of trial and error. Has it made me looser down there? No, it still hurts when he penetrates me.

    My previous boyfriends has had around 5-6-7 inches. Were they fantastic in bed? Yes.

    Both have their advantages and disadvantages. So relax men, enjoy your penises no matter the size, most girls do!! Now I just wish someone would put us small chested women to rest ;P

  18. LA Confidential Says:

    One of the best lovers I ever experienced was small. He knew exactly what to do and how to do it. Intercourse is not the only sex act in the world. There are lots of other things couples can do to have fun and have explosive orgasms. Size is not everything.

  19. Michael Says:

    I am 44yrs old and have not been with many women becuase I was married for 20yrs. She died in car accident while I was in Iraq. I am 8.25in long and almost 6in around but have always thought of myself as small due to comments my mother made while molesting me as a child. She luaghed and told me that being so small I have to eat pussy real well or be alone all my life. I don’t think women understand how comments regarding size can damage. Size does not matter when you love someone. Love has a way of blinding you and you just want to be with your love always.

  20. Sandeep Singh Says:

    A 4′ inch dick is average for asian region. Even here in Asian region prefer that size, becaze it doesn’t hurt them.

    DickSize

  21. luke Says:

    well i have an 7 inches long for 5.4 girth and my current GF cant reach an orgams with it so yah i feel like shit with this crap, i have to do oral, and i feel fucking small, i hate this world cause of this
    fuck this all

    why aint we all 8 inches long with 6 inches girth this shit fucking sucks -.-

  22. Man Says:

    ^
    So you’re 7 inches long and you feel shit that you’re not 8 inches cos you think your GF would have no probs orgasming, with an extra inch?
    Oh and this is the world’s fault?

  23. luke Says:

    Dude is not the lengh well ate least some is more the girth, im not blaming the world byt it self, just seems unfair, we could all be 8 inches long by 6 girth

    like that threads like this wont appear in the internet and none of us would suffer like some of us do

    thats why i hate this world

  24. Adri Says:

    I have been with my share men *7*…don’t judge, but I have come to the conclusion that size does not necessarily matter. I am tired of the hype about the bigger the better. I have been with men who are large but can not work it or make it painful or uncomfortable for me. My current boyfriend is around 4″ and he is honestly the best (in the sex department) I have had, not only in the size department but those men who do feel that they are “small” excel in other areas (Cunnilingus)….so yes you should feel bad because god knows its not the size of the penis that makes the man!

  25. Dee Says:

    My current boyfriend is about 5 inches. And yes he probably does have the smallest penis of all the men I’ve ever slept with, but I still have the most fabulous orgasms with him. He makes sure I’m taken care of before, during and after. He’s amazing. Of course maybe it’s just that we love one another.

  26. G Says:

    Size matters. I feel bad for men under 5’10″ with a small penis. I’m quite petite, but my preference is always for taller men with a larger penis. I think this is true for most women.

  27. D Says:

    Okay, first off, 85% of women FAKE orgasms, meaning that MOST men, big and small really have no clue what they’re doing when it comes to bringing a woman to orgasm, let alone multiple orgasms or even squirting. If you’re ok with 1-2 orgasms MAX if any at all (as this is what MOST women tell me their average amount of orgasms during a session are and MOST women have to play with their clits during sex to even get a single orgasm) then go ahead and stick with satisfactory. If you want to give your girl mind-blowing orgasms then regardless of your size, you need to know what you’re doing. I’m 5″ with a…2.5″ girth? not big by any standard but I’ve been with approximately 90 women with almost every single one of them telling me that I am the best they’ve ever had or one of the best always giving them an average of 5-10 orgasms per session (and that does not include foreplay or oral sex). Most women tell me I am the “perfect” size, or that they were “surprised” because when they first saw my penis they were worried that sex was going to be awful and that it ended up being a very pleasant and shocking surprise to them and that I changed their opinions about penis size :D Another trick, women can use Ben-Wa Kegel balls…like lifting weights with your vagina, it will make you tighter, girls I know who use them can’t take anything larger than 4-5″ without causing them pain. So it is equally as important for you women to learn your anatomies and what you can do to improve your own sex-life without leaving it ALL up to the man to do everything (sex is give and take after-all). So I promise, you guys are worrying entirely too much about this, do some research, learn the human anatomies, learn your partner…everyone is different and certain things turn people on differently, so take them time, explore each other’s bodies and I PROMISE you if you do this you will be the BEST sex partners either you have ever had, period…hope this helps :-)

  28. D Says:

    Oh and I’ve NEVER had a one-night stand with a woman ever in my life…so in other words, they’ve ALWAYS come back for more, most women I’ve slept with at once was 2, most in a single day was 3 (Not really proud, I was pretty depressed over my divorce and had severely low self-esteem issues haha).

  29. D Says:

    And what the girl at the top said about achieving orgasm from her cervix being stimulated is an idiot, the cervix doesn’t have pleasure nerves therefore it cannot feel pleasure, it can feel pressure. The first 2/3 of the vagina has the MOST pleasure receptors, the further back into the vagina you go, the less amount of nerves there are, and considering the clit has more nerve endings than in an entire man’s penis, that should be your MAIN focus! A shorter penis allows not only entire penetration for the man but also you can use your pelvis to stimulate her clit at the SAME time while doing other things with your hands so you can actually give her a clitoral AND g-spot orgasm at the SAME time which is even more intense than either on their own :p Damn, I need to write a book haha

  30. Johnny Says:

    ^ So the lady with a cervix is an idiot, and I should listen to you? Makes sense. I mean, you’ve brought over 90 women to the best climaxes of their lives. Cough… bullshit… cough cough…

  31. lofl Says:

    @ “G” you don’t speak for most women anymore then i or anyone else can speak for most guys.You can prefer what YOU wish but your post comes off as arrogant and condescending…i feel sorry for judgemental twats like you who judge someone on something they cannot change: their size and height.What goes around comes around,karma is unforgiving b-tch.

  32. tiny Says:

    I might be 6 feet tall, had 2 kids vaginally, and been with 10 guys, but I’m so tight I can’t take anything bigger than about 5-6 inches or it just plain hurts.

  33. Kat Says:

    I was with a guy who was about 7; and he was great. Then I started dating a guy who was a little bigger than he was and he was ok, didn’t orgasm with either. sex was enjoyable and fun, but I just couldn’t- than I started sleeping with a guy who the first time he pulled his pants down I though oh great- this is a bad ideas. Well let me tell you it has been the best sex ever; I actually learned what it felt to orgasm, we tried diff positions that with the other guys would hurt me and with this guy were amazing, and he wasn’t lazy- bigger guys have this idea that they don’t have to work at it; by far the best sex I’ve had has been with this smaller dude- after taking a break I started dating someone else and this guy is huge, sex hurts its not always pleasant. I miss my smaller guy! :( so give the little guy a break he might just be amazing! society tells us dicks have to be big, that’s not always true, try it!

  34. Jim Says:

    I have a smaller one, 4 3/4″ X 5″ thick, most of my women have always been larger, they have all liked it, even my now ex liked it for a long time, tell she started cheating on me with a few guys that were well hung, then she got streched out, and couldn’t feel it any more. My new girl friend is a lot thinner, and smaller, and she feels great, she is so tight, and it feels great, can feel it all the way in. We have great sex, some of the best we have ever had, and we are close to fourty. So does size matter, I guess if you have a big ass, and it has been getting pounded by hung males, I know like the smaller women, much easier!

  35. Joe Average Says:

    I have about 6.5-7.0 when I’ve measured and depending on how hard I am. I’ve hit rock bottom to the point of causing my wife pain. So to those guys claiming 8 inch + dicks, literally go fuck yourselves. No woman likes to be penetrated by a fucking baseball bat. It only goes so far. And as for your ego, a big dick doesn’t mean shit. Its not about being more masculine or about pleasing a woman. It’s a joke. I have a friend who has a 9 inch cock and he complains that it is too high to the point of his partners complaining.

  36. Frank Anonymous Says:

    It all depends on the chick,and that’s the bottom line. I’m like 6″ pencil di*k and it’s been okay with some chicks and a total disaster with others.

  37. Sophia Says:

    Hi,my husband is a bit on the small side but we’ve always had great sex. Married for 8 yrs, i sometimes miss my more well-endowed exes, but i love my husband and can’t imagine life without him. My problem is that aftr giving birth, i feel i might not be as tight. How can i make sure i still please him? :( are there positions,exercises,etc that i can do?

  38. mr.gemini Says:

    Size doesnt matter ..if you love the man who has small penis just be contented….ok

  39. mr.gemini Says:

    Try the normal position…dont try the dog style becoz ur partner has small penis…

  40. lisa Says:

    I restumbled on this article and seen that D called me a idiot. LoL I guess he knows my body better than I do. Yes D I have cervical orgasms!. I can also have clitoral and g spot orgasms. I know my body and for u to call me a idiot makes u look ignorant. Please dont write a book not all women are the same! Having my cervix stimulated during sex is extreamly pleasurable for me. yes u are right The first 2/3 of the vagina has the MOST pleasure receptors, the further back into the vagina you go, the less amount of nerves there are, and considering the clit has more nerve endings than in an entire man’s penis, that should be your MAIN focus! yes that is very true but the cervix can give great pleasure too and I can have a orgasm with it alone being stimulated. And I do not find penetration to be worth it if my cervix cant be stimulated along with my g spot and clit. Please dont tell me I dont know what I feel during sex! some women find it very painful for their cervix to be hit during sex we are all different.

  41. james Says:

    Once a girl told me that crap. She had the nerve to tell me I have a small penis. I looked at her. She was a brunette with black eyes and dark curly hair. She was short and petite.
    I found her attractive although my dream girl is red head, green eyes with freckles and tall/slender. The complete opposite.

    I thought,man, do I have to tell her how far she is from being the woman I desire? or should I treat her with respect, like I did so far?

    I told her, I feel I am fine, and this is how I came to theworld. She insisted, you are the smallest guy I have been with. It occured to me this woman was on a trip to humilliate me, a weird power game in which she self appoints herself as the superior being,k while I was the poor soul. Undeserving of her majesty.

    I told her how dissappointed I was of her, and after the experience, I told her it was not my cock that was small ( 5.75 in ) but her pussy was large, always ajar, and dark ( I prefer pink pussies ). In life you have to be accepting and look at the bright side of things. This woman was in my view a monster, a hatemonger, a disgrace as a human being.

  42. Mystery_exhibitionist10 Says:

    Just enjoy if…I love my tiny dick. I always have and always will. Married many years and now divorced. I do wonder if she enjoyed it or not. However as I said I have no hang ups over it size‚Ķjust love it. I would love to get an email from a friend or workmate anonymous with a link that they found to my naked pictures showing how small I am‚Ķwouldn‚Äôt that me fun‚Ķ

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/80467862@N06/

  43. whoa hold on Says:

    HIPPO HOLES require HIPPO POLES! Nuff’said

  44. james Says:

    i have a small penis ever in this world 3.5 when erect. i sometime avoid gals’ sex offer coz of smallest dick. it real disappoint me and i feel losing my manhood whenever i think having sex with large pussed women. however one day i decided to have a sex with a university lady with a very large puss. i managed to spend more than 45 minutes before ejaculating. she real appreciated and invited me the other day. so guys the size doesn’t matter it is yo technique and the way you position yourself.

  45. Donald Says:

    I am just a tad shy of 8 inches and am happily married. My wife loves my cock and finds sex very satisfying. She is not a big person either, under 5’5″ and less than 120 lbs. I know that I am the biggest she has ever had and think that if you are lucky enough to have better than average equipment that it helps a relationship work.

  46. Lauren Says:

    Every woman is different, I’m a medium built woman and I have pretty tight and short vagina. My husband is about “6″ with 2inch girth, I can’t take all of it. We are very in tune with each other, you have to know thy self…

  47. Bambie Says:

    Due to my job I have traveled the country far and wide and have been with well over 100 men in my life, ( I life variety) but I have never had any man that hung over a good 7 inches. So personally for all you guys who are bragging about 8 inch and up, you might just want to re-measure that little fellow, and this time measure from the top side and not the bottom since measuring the extra 4 inches of pelvic bone that extends to your butt hole does not count for weenie size, only the part that you can put inside your woman while you are making love to her.

    As for Ms. Sizest, I can think of a few other reasons why he may have appeared small to you. Have you ever considered it just might be you and that he was not totally erect because you did not turn him on? Or maybe he found out he was competing with your ex? I can see that as being a real turn off for any man, big or small. As for penis size in general, unless you are a very large woman I find that anything over 5 inches is more than enough to satisfy me and keep me exploding in continuous squirting orgasms all night long. Yes I learned how to squirt when I was with a man who barely topped 5 inches on the boner scale.

    Honestly, it is not the size of the dick that does the trick, but the way it is used and the throb of the knob that does the job! So I say give your new boyfriend a chance and forget about the guy who said he had a big shlong, Besides, did you measure this unique piece of equipment, or are you going by what your ex is telling you since I can not think of a man out there who would not add a few inches on to their fish story. I mean it is no different than the stereotype myth that black men have larger shlongs. Um I have been with few black men myself and comparatively, most of them were smaller than average and the biggest black man I was with was a mere 5 inches if that.

  48. Harper Says:

    I am SOOOO tired of people saying size does NOT matter… It’s usually MEN or women who are tight… I have NEVER had a small man in my life 10 partners(NOT proud), NONE of which were lazy. Girth is ALWAYS important for most women I know…maybe it is a cultural thing, idk… If you’re shorter it’s not a big deal but if you short AND skinny…man, you may need a small made woman…

    I’m in love with a tiny guy…NOT SMALL…TINY! If I cup his penis at the base it is SLIM, and barely sticks out of the top of my hand…:( What is worse is the head is larger than the base and it’s angled UP! SEX EFFING SUCKS! His orals are the best I have ever had, and I know why he got that great, but Oral sex and masturbation ONLY make me crave sex…I crave girth…So, he’s always pleased when we’re done and I have a gaping hollow pit in my chest and I just want to cry b/c I NEVER get my itch scratched, and he can’t even hit it from the back (my FAVE)… if he makes a normal pump motion it falls-no comes out…So, he has to make these ultra fast/ultra tiny motions what the HELL MAN! Just typing this makes me wanna puke…So I usually close my eyes and turn my head the other way and just let him pump till he busts, and I try to engage by making noises to please him and not hurt his feelings. I even refuse the orals b/c I need to be ravished after that, and he can’t ravish me…(smack my butt, thrusts, pull my hair, flip me over, yank me closer)…I don’t want plastic…I want a grown ass man! real talk! UGH!

    I’m sure if you’re reading this you’re wondering, “why the hell are you with him then?” Well, he started off as my best friend, he fell in love, pursued me, and then I fell in love…NOW, he wants me to marry him, and all I can think about is living the rest of my life pleasing someone who can’t please me back… I don’t blv in cheating…What the heck should I do!?

    Oh, and before any of you angry men attack, it’s NOT man bashing, it’s stating FACTs! I mean what would you do if the girl you fell in love with had the MOST horrific Vaginal ODOR or was EXTREMELY DRY or sensitive?? Im quite sure you’d question if you could commit to it for life!?

  49. ChrisAB Says:

    Size means a lot to women and I have been made fun of all my life because of the size of my penis. The woman I was engaged with over 4 years was sticking huge vibrators in her and complaining that I’m not big enough. So I had enough of her and I was the one who paid all the bills so I’m the one who has a home while she had to live with her parents and get a job.

    I was often insulted and would come home from work still physically able to perform but get turned down for sex. I think we all need some form of sexual release and I have done all the foreplay and other oral activities to please any woman I’ve ever been with and to be fair each partner must please each other in some way or they will find somebody else who will. The pills and exercises are total BS! I have to deal with what I’m born with.

    If a woman gives birth to my child and I’m unable to properly please her for however long I would feel bad but still do other things to not only get her off but I want to make her happy in life and know that she has a loyal man who gets the bills paid and can man up to take care of her financially, emotionally and as physically as I am able to.

    I’m about 3 1/4 inches when erect but I can accept what I have and it doesn’t discourage me to continue dating women. I live a healthy life and go to the gym often and am successful with my occupation. The only thing I have been insecure about is my penis size and it’s because most women expect every penis to be large or they won’t give sex a chance.

  50. Giantess Says:

    I agree with some of the girls here who say that size matters. If it’s too short, you have to work with the position much much more. If it’s too skinny then you need to hit it with a mallet and hope it swells up. I think it’s easier to just explain things by length.

    How long does a man have to be?

    If it’s less than 4 inches I’m going to tell him that it’s small. Don’t lie to any man you’re getting intimate with, work with what he has if you’re doing the nasty because you have to be honest with him along with yourself.

    There are plenty of positions in the Kama Sutra that are intended for all sizes and shapes, but he has to be able to perform. If he’s some couch potato with a donkey dick there’s a good chance he can’t even get it up!

    Our bodies are all different so I do agree with the women who admit that they need that extra size to get them off. From my personal history I don’t like the larger guys, if it’s over 6 inches and beefy then I’m gonna be prepared to tell him to stop as soon as it hurts. But that doesn’t mean that those women are the standard because we’re not born with deep holes, they may have just happened to have more sex with men who are more endowed than others.

    One thing that I’ve noticed about men who are under the 6 inch mark is how shy they are when it comes to disrobe. It’s a very fragile thing to talk with them about, if you give them a bit of confidence they are crazy in the sack and tend to do all the work for you and it’s all pleasure instead of pain.

    How small is too small?

    I dated a man who was a bit under 3 inches and sex was frustrating, if I literally moved an inch the wrong way it slipped out. To make matters worse he began to cry after I asked him to stop. I’m sorry but less than 3 inches is my limit with vaginal sex, but I will do other things if it’s a guy I really like.

    It sounds funny but the guys who usually have small penises usually have their priorities in check, are mentally stable and are fun to go out in public with. I personally have a fetish with embarrassing men in the bedroom so unless the guy is scarred for life I get the best of both worlds. It’s not hard to train a man how to eat you out, stimulate other areas and maybe even rim you on special occasions.

    If he has a tiny penis and doesn’t mind what you do to him in the bedroom, jerk him off with your index and thumb. Oral sex is so much easier when you don’t have to have something slide down your throat and choke you. I also like to wake them up with my mouth over their entire genitals, it makes me feel more powerful in the bedroom and they get off as well!

    What about skinny dicks?

    They do nothing for me if they’re similar to the size of my fingers. It’s those idiots who wanted a longer penis and didn’t bother to do any research on their own body. I don’t know if it was some exercise, a penis pump, or they may have gone under the knife and they can’t seem to get it up hard enough.

    It’s not something natural, it’s very creepy because they look and feel wrong. I don’t have fingers 6 inches long but I’d trust my finger over anything so skinny. I’m afraid it would break if I made the wrong move and I don’t want to even touch it.

    Guys, don’t worry about your size. If you can’t make her moan with your penis then try and find other ways to get the job done. Remember that we have sex to share an intimate moment, and yes we should try to please each other but this isn’t prostitution and if any woman holds that against you then you need to find ways to please her or get the hell out of that relationship while you can because some women are friggin’ psycho.


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