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Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me

Wed, Jun 17, 2009

Advice, Dear Em & Lo

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Dear Em & Lo,
About six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months and have recently met someone new. The other day the new boy and I were engaging in some hands-on action which led me to discover that he nowhere near measured up to my ex. The new boy was around 4-6″. My problem is that I’m really worried about having sex with him because my ex was over 8″. I feel really disappointed and I know that 8″ is a high bar that’s been set. Am I bad person or should I go looking for something more? Why can’t good-looking men come with the measurements of their penis tattooed onto their wrist or something? The problems and surprises that would solve..

Dear Sizeist,

We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere. It’s the secret fear that everyone — male and female — experiences at some point in their hook-up life: Am I being compared to their ex(es)? And if so, am I failing to measure up?

But on behalf of all the average-sized men out there, i.e. the vast majority of men, we think you should give Mr. 4-6″ a chance. It’s not like you’ve dated a string of 8″ men and have discovered that only a super-sized schlong can satisfy you. (In fact, you need to understand that, statistically speaking, 8 inches is freakishly long). No, you just had one great experience with one 8″ penis. And this is by no means a guarantee that sex with a 4-6″ penis will feel only 50-75% as great.

For a start, men with big swinging dicks can get lazy in the sack, assuming that size is the only thing that matters. They may also assume that intercourse is the only thing that matters — and we all know how few women climax from intercourse alone; remember, orgasm achieved through non-penile means still counts as sex! Not to mention, you may suddenly discover new penetration positions that you really enjoy — positions that perhaps were not so comfortable with a larger specimen. Oh, and don’t forget that, when it comes to size, most women agree that girth is a lot more important than length, since the majority of sensation is felt in the outer third of the vagina, thanks to the extensions of the clitoris, the g-spot, and the pelvic floor muscles around the lower part of the vaginal canal (and also since a lot of women don’t enjoy having their cervix rammed).

On a final note: Maybe he was nervous and not fully inflated, as it were. Basically, you have no idea what sex is going to be like with this man. So if you dig him (and we surely hope the handwork you exchanged means that you do), why not find out whether the motion of his ocean can get the job done?

Of course, we can’t discount the fact that you may simply be less attracted to him (or not attracted to him at all) now that you’ve scoped out his unit — you like what you like.¬† This doesn’t make you a bad person, though you are severely limiting your dating options — at least until your tattoo idea catches on. We suppose you could post a personal ad specifying that only 8″-penis-owners need reply, but something tells us that’s not exactly the way to find the next Boyfriend of the Year. Here’s a better idea: Why not just spend some quality time with an average-sized penis and see if the experience converts you?

Here for the little people,

Em & Lo

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716 Responses to “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me”

  1. tj Says:

    “In truth I knew only 3 guys who were under the 7‚Ä≤ mark. Two were 16, one was 17. ”

    LOL, I’m always hearing this kind of shit. And yet, I have never once had a girl take a ruler to my dick.

  2. Crystal Says:

    Ugh! Hate having this problem, honestly the only guy I’ve been with who’s penis is smaller than my hand (wrist to tip which is 6 1/2 inches.. We dont nees a ruler TJ^^^) but hes perfect! Head is amazing tho… :/

  3. Itsaperspectivething Says:

    Isn’t all about attraction? Can’t women be attracted to a snall penis? I mean its bigger than their clit and lesbian kovers don’t even have a penis involved in their. lovemaking..right?

  4. xyzzy Says:

    For folks that didn’t catch on at some point in young adulthood: claiming that >7″ is virtually all she’s ever seen means, to be blunt, that she’s either horrible at ‘eyeballing’ measurements, has had very few partners, or has had few (if any) partners and is making BS claims based on porn (or what friends into porn have told her) in order to seem experienced.

    It’s similar to the way a lot of teenagers get the impression that “everyone” is having sex, and thus make statements suggesting that they’re sexually active in order to not seem like a “loser.” I’ve known a few people that still tried to make themselves sound more active than in reality as adults, but they’re always the ones whose self-esteem comes from attracting others sexually…

    Keep that kind of thing in mind if some gal claims that under 6.5″ is tiny… Or envision the story my mother periodically likes to recount from her hippie days: a guy-friend that spent the night post-party at the house she & friends rented climbed naked into one of the girl’s beds in hope of some nookie, and she was willing until she noticed how big he was (I think it was like 10″) — at which point the entire house heard her screaming in horror “get that giant THING away from me!!” So you might only be average in size, but at least chances are that no woman will scream in horror upon sight. :-)

  5. Mustlovedogs Says:

    I agree that size princess may be a little insensitive but I don’t think she’s completely out of line here. I too am somebody who knows what I want, and after years of not getting it, I will now only settle for a man that I have decided to be the most compatible with me. There are a lot of mysogynists in this thread. Men who boast about how they are the perfect gentlemen, handsome, so great to their partner yet due to their average penis, and being rejected as a result, are jaded, not so nice Mr Nice Guys. Yet these same men will slut-shame women for being confident and sexual even accusing them of being disposable toys in essence. Threatened by confident, albeit maybe arrogant women that they believe to be deserving of being worn down to nothing. We’re all on different paths in life here. Instead of cutting down somebody who doesn’t share your views or even personality, maybe we should spend our energy finding somebody who does whether that be a girl with DD breasts, bubble butt; a man with a 10 inch penis; etc. Or the humble girl next door. This thread is so full of hate it is disturbing.

  6. yannick Says:

    To size princess- read your first comment- THATS A RANT – but tp bring out facts 2-3 yr raltionship is not sucessful relationships- u said u broke up over immaturity- U ATTRACT WHO U ARE, WHY WOULD a confident woman date an immature person?see sweetheart u can be confident and give your consent to date a guy who is immature, if hes immature all the.signs were there u didnt see it, why?very uncharacteristic of a confident woman, dont u think?but i do agree that people are attacking u, but what u say doesnt make sense,want proof, do u know what a paradigm is? Read about it, you will see what i mean

  7. yannick Says:

    hi size princess, i gotta to say, you toned it down quite a bit, looks like i humbled u down…thank you for humbling down, u said “u broke up with your boyfriend over immaturity” remember that you cannot see flaws in other people THAT YOU DON’T HAVE FOR YOURSELF”, read about a PARADIGM, PARADIGM CONTROLS YOUR LOGIC, THE AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU MAKE, YOUR PERCEPTION OF SITUATIONS AND EVEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, so if U SEE IMMATURITY IN THAT GUY THAT U DATED, THEN IT MEANS THAR YOUR PARADIGM CONTAINS IMMATURITY, ITS THE SAD TRUTH,paradigm is a subconcious conditionning or programming that happens to us mainly in the first 6 yrs of our life, so everything i said had some truths, that’s why u humbled down, but the problem is its subconcious, so u are unaware of it, so if u have 2 successful break-ups, not successful relationships, your paradigm decided that, not u sweetheart, you are only concious only 5% of the time, you are unconcious 95% OF THE TIme, u still think all i said was bullshit,YOUR PARADIGM DICTATES THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE, and your paradigm is a subconcious condionning that you got from other people/family,media, friends, so you are not having the relationship you desire, you are in the relationship that you have been programmed by your peers to be in…so much for being confident when u have no free will in the relationships you’ve been in….and if u dont change your paradigm, then you will continue to have break-ups, STOP LOOKING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF FOR THE RESULTS THAT YOU ARE HAVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS/STOP BLAMING THAT GUY FOR WHY U BROKE UP WITH HIM.u didn’t break up with him, you paradigm dictated that.so when i mentioned all this things in my previous comment, well its true,your paradigm have your beliefs whether limiting or empowering, if u have 2 breaks ups in your relationships, then YOU have limiting beliefs, has nothing to do with your ex bf. conciously you might say your confident, but sub-conciously the other limiting beliefs about who you are and how you perceive yourself will control u.so i have 2 break-ups in your relationship, u MUST CHANGE YOUR PARADIGM, I Hope u understand what im taking about ….confident women have breaks ups….especially not 2 and other small relationships in between.hope this is not too much of a shock to u right now, u prolly thought that u used your free-will and confidence to make the decisions that you made but sorry , the paradigm controls the beliefs which controls the feelings which dictates the actions which then creates the results you are getting in your life but U DONT NOTICE IT because its’s subconcious, meaning below-conciousness, develop yourself, u lack confidence due to your limiting beliefs lurking in your paradigm, u cant be confident and have limiting beliefs, ask yourself are u living your dream life, have your dream car, dream, house ,dream relationship, dream body, dream, social life, if not , limiting beliefs in your paradigm exists causing a lack of self confidence….. sorry to break it to you….here’s some advice for you take on your journey…

    have a good life
    lots of love

    cheers look forr

  8. yannick Says:

    to Mustlovedogs-u said u haven’t had the relationshio you wanted for a long time-well that’s because you lacked confidence for a long time just like sizeprincess,u don’t have the necessary qualities to have the relationship of your dream, if u want a partner that’s hones, open, adventurous, humurous, and who is good in bed, then you need to develop these QUALITIES IN YOURSELF , YOU HAVE TO BECOME THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU DREAM OF, not blame the partner that you dated that didn’t measure to your standards of deservingness, u prolly want the perfect man yet you are so imperfect yourself, if you yourself possesss all the qualities that you would want in your partner, you would be in that TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP, if you are not in the type of relationship that you DREAM OF, then you don’t have THE QUALITIES AT LEAST YET TO BE IN THAT TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP, It’s that simple….stop looking outside of yourself and changing the result, the result is outside of you, look inside of you, you are holding YOURSELF BACK….ITS TIME YOU TAKE RESPONSABILITY FOR YOUR POOR CHOICES

  9. yannick Says:

    To size princess, hope u take my advice, u want basically the pefect man, a perfect man the way u described would never be single, a man who is single is someone who lacks those qualities and those are the men available to u…u claim to be a confident womem who doesnt settle, then why settle to.date a guy who is immature, where are ur options? U want a well-endowed man, what if he was a great lover but average in the sack, why is it a necessity to have a guy with a big dick, also shows that u must be loose dowm there,whyuwould a well-ENDOWED man want that?

  10. yannick Says:

    Be serious size princess, u cant fool me and give me advice n confidence- a woman like u with such.mediocre results in her love life shouldnt give advice on confidence, the same way i wouldnt take nutrition advice from a fat person at macdonalds


  11. yannick Says:

    Keep.pursuing that man, ull never get him that way…u are a generic woman with low self confidence and an inflated ego with vanity..u need to develop the qualities you want in ur partner in YOU first.u need to become the woman that perfect man would want If you don’t have that relationship with the perfect man then you don’t have the necessary qualities yet to have that type of relationship..its quite simple…stop looking OUTSIDE OF U ,ITS time U TAKE RESPONSABILITY FOR URSELF LIKE THE
    have ur dream relationship it means u
    settled in ur past 2 relationships.stop
    contradicting urself. like I said before
    success not something you can pursue
    its only something you can attract to you
    based on the person that you become

    So ask yourself why would the perfect man be interested in you I mean after all based on the results to getting it clearly shows that your woman with low self confidence with vanity with no options or else you wouldn’t have to successful
    breakup yet you believe that the perfect
    man should be interested in a woman
    like you and yet you don’t have the
    necessary qualities to have the perfect
    relationships because you haven’t
    developed the necessary qualities that u want in.ur partner in URSELF YET,so thats why u were in 2 flawed relationshil and it.led to 2 successful breakups, again very uncharacteristic of a confident woman, but again u still young u can change, if u dont develop these qualities,u might be lucky to find the perfect man,but
    the perfect man will soon realize that he wont settle for U since u lack the qualities that he wants ….so then he will sat “lets be friends”and u can add another breakup to ur failed relationshil while u look around and see all these confident women in their dream relationships wondering why u dont have it…..Start developing urself….coz the perfect man has developed himself
    So should u or else say goodbye to the manof UR DREAMS…..CHEERS

  12. Emmett Says:

    I do not know whether it’s just me or if perhaps everyone else experiencing issues with your blog. It appears like some of the written text within your posts are running off the screen. Can somebody else please provide feedback and let me know if this is happening to them too? This might be a issue with my web browser because I’ve had this
    happen before. Thank you

  13. Itsaperspectivething Says:

    Emmett it is not occurring as I browse this blog.
    And as far as women being flawed in charachter just becausd they prefer a thick meatier lengthier than most sized dick….I think that is simply personal preference and to attack a woman simply due to her preference seems a tad malicious. Yes she needs to give the little man proper respect and yes she needs to find out why her genitals do not respond to small dicks attempted stimulation but that doesn’t make her flawed…just unaware and/or narrowminded..cheers

  14. bob Says:

    She has a hugh vagina, that’s the problem, as soon as your new boyfriend finds out he will dump you for sure….lol

  15. itchy Says:

    I would turn him into a cuckold if I were you.

  16. Joe Says:

    So women want all men to tattoo there penis size on their body huh! Okay, I think all women should get a tattoo that lists the projected number of pounds they plan to gain once married. Fair is fair. This way if a guy sees a three digit number he can run away.

  17. dallas Says:

    Hold on Joe. Just because the woman who wrote this letter wants men to tattoo their penis size on their wrist, don’t generalize and include the rest of us in that category. I’ll tell you what women want. Women want a man who is HONEST, who doesn’t play games, who can love them for WHO THEY ARE, and who happens to be passionate in bed. A man doesn’t have to have a massive donkey dick to be passionate, just how a woman doesn’t have to be stick thin or “fit” to know exactly what she’s doing in bed. I would much, much rather have men come with “LIAR” or “PLAYER” tattooed on their foreheads instead, so that women would know to stay away.

  18. al schroeder Says:

    What strange responses to her question! Four to six- inch penises are NORMAL size, while the over seven-incher was above average. Not only should “size queen” know that, but everyone else should too. Sex articles and stories with pictures almost always have guys with large cocks as models, mostly because the average-sized guys don’t volunteer to be shown in them. Consider this: Millions of women have had sex with men having penises UNDER six inches long and most probably had orgasms–or didn’t make it a topic of discussion. furthermore, oral sex only became widely practiced in the last 40 years or so, which meant many women must have gone unsatisfied in history while depending only on penis size to gain pleasure.

  19. Jose Antonio Lozano Says:

    All i can say is that you dont have to have a large penis i am chubby and my pennis is 6or7 but all the girls ive been whith have told me that they enjoyed the sex the trick is. On the shape of your pennis. Mine is curved girls love curved pennis i and you need to know how to ejaculate a girl she will love it truth

  20. Rebekah Says:

    I’ve had a small penis so small that I ran…and never talked to the guy again. Boy did I feel awful but what can you do? I’ve had average penises that were too narrow and could barely feel anything. I’ve had great penises that were perfect and fantastic, would love to have made a dildo out of a couple. I’ve also had a really large penis that wasn’t pleasant. I’ve had one that cornfed, not fun. Had one that was smaller at the top than the base…eh. For all that, what im really looking for is a kind man, a gentle man, a thoughtful man, one who loves animals, could live without having kids, and who is God thinking. And for that, I’m negotiable. But the great ones I’ll never forget and there are some that no matter how great the man is I can’t handle. Will I ever find the right match? Maybe, maybe not. I don’t mind either way. Just am ok with what life brings or doesn’t.

  21. Rebekah Says:

    I meant to say curved, not cornfed. Stupid autocorrect lol

  22. Esoteric Says:

    @Rebekah: Thanks for the laugh, that was pretty funny! You know, for a moment there, I was thinking, “Wow, I feel so inexperienced … I have no idea what a ‘cornfed’ penis is, let alone why it’s not any fun!” hahaha

  23. uknown Says:

    You know I’ve had the opportunity to read this whole thread and was highly disappointed. I’m actually putting together a thesis on how women and men relate sexually to each other.

    I thought men could be mean toward woman but I’ve found women to be a lot worse in the category of cruelty.I wonder if American women in particular understand the pressure they put on men? They want a wide girth, above average length, circumcised, penis from a guy who gives good oral sex, not lazy in the bed and can go all night long. This is a perfect man to most American women and they should shoot for this if they so desire – but I ask what if the man require the same of a woman?

    A man wants a circumcised woman (women get stigma as well and vagina stinks horribly bad just like an uncut penis when not clean properly) – because of that women should get circumcised (don’t say its not the same because it is actually – but women have more skin depending on the size of the Labia or the clit and hood). A man wants good oral sex, not lazy in the bed (most women are – horribly selfish but men don’t say it unless you ask them in secret), natural DD’s, small vagina with a normal size clitoris. Not all of the excess meat hanging off the vagina. Women don’t like the extra skin from an uncut penis – why should a man like all of the extra skin on a woman?

    I find it extremely interesting that the very things a woman don’t like in a man – she has the same issues. When I see threads dealing with women complaining about a man size – you must ask does he complain about the size of your vagina? Women want these 8′s and women want small vaginas. I wish I could go into the details of my book – but I’m more upset with the women post because we don’t understand our selfishness. We don’t understand that men have the same rights to have the same request of us.

    The things we hate about men – we must make sure that we don’t carry that problem or we are hypocrites and that includes circumcision as well. If it seems to painful, absurd and foolish to suggest a woman have circumcision – if you think its foolish for a woman to cut off some of her most sensitive part of her vagina just like a man is required by women to cut of 20 thousand sensitive nerves then you should reconsider what you ask of a man and ask yourself – am I willing to do the same for him?

    We have become a selfish gender and we demand what we are not willing to give of ourselves. Think and if your not a sexist you will see that we have been programmed with a gender based idea that sadly needs to be fixed. Why are women forced and could go to jail if they don’t wear a shirt but the very thing that attracts women to men when is a nice chest and able – men have exposed. Or better yet would you be comfortable if a woman with great breast walk around your husband exposed? How does that make men feel when a man with great abs and chest walk around his wife or girlfriend exposed; daily?

  24. Johnny Says:

    ^ A thesis on gender relations, from a guy who thinks that men prefer female circumcision? Which doctoral program are you in, exactly?

  25. Paddy Says:

    I often hear men and women say that penis size matters it’s got to big blah blah blah WELL LET ME TELL YOU I have been happily married to my lovely wife for 28 years we have a fully enjoyable sex life we have never strayed either of us and my penis is only 41/2 “long we have two children and both me and my wife have a very good and enjoyable sex life no regrets no problems so for those of out there who think just because your penis is not massive don’t worry

  26. Rebekah Says:

    @Paddy I’m really happy for you that you found a wife that has been so great a partner to you for so many years. A woman is fully capable of making the best out of a situation. When she loves a man enough, she wouldn’t stray nor would she ever share that she’s ever disappointed in her sex life with a mate of below average size. She accepts her man for who he is and if that means never being completely satisfied, she’ll do that out of love. But that doesn’t mean she might not have a dildo somewhere.

  27. Shah Says:

    Trust and believe me, Paddy…she has a couple of dildos stashed in the house, somewhere. Please believe that.

  28. Smack the Shah Says:

    Trust and believe me, Shah … you’re a jackass of the highest order. Please believe that.

  29. JackbNimble Says:

    Topics like this make men of any endowment feel insecure. I won’t go into details but I’m one of those lucky ” ” guys with an above average endowment more so in length than in girth. The message that women send out when they make posts like this easily send feelings of insecurity. As a person, you’ll never be good enough. The reasoning behind this is no matter who you date there is always someone bigger or better out there or both. What does it take to satisfy you? There are tons of ways to “get off” and being realistic having an open relationship or an open sex life is key. I personally do not see the size of a penis as an issue, We have other tools to satisfy our partners. There are toys, stimulating lubricants,aphrodisiacs… I mean there are a plethora of things at our disposal. Reading things like this really make me feel like some women are super shallow and I live in a world where princess penistoosmall thinks no one is good enough. Because somewhere out there Mr 15″ is waiting to pick you up and drill away. Well all I got to say is, good luck.

  30. Wow Says:

    Women are by far and wide the more shallow sex. I have never seen a man dump a woman or run away from them for having a weird looking vagina or nipples, looser vagina, smaller breasts, no ass, etc…despite those things making sex less pleasurable for the man.

    Anyhow, if you need an 8″ inch penis to feel pleasure chances are excellent that you have much larger/looser vagina than average. The fault is not with your average-sized man here.

  31. Byron Says:

    I belong to a s. California nudist resort and at 5-8, 150 lbs. with a good tanned build. I enjoy some nice looks from women, single and married. I’m blessed with a curved 7 incher when hard and I’ve been told that my nickname should be “Mr. Well-Hungo”–sometimes I have to be careful about not growing a nice hard on when in conversation with a hot woman.

  32. Mike Says:

    my penis is 3 1/2″. i’ve never had any complaints to my face. shallow question. if a man wrote a letter about dating large breasted women it would be blasted by feminists.

  33. R ison Says:

    well each to their own ,but to all these woman who say size isn’t important bla blah well I hope u have had lots of different sizes to back up your statement.If u have only had a few dicks in your life u have no right to comment,,

    Ive had many and do prefer something over 6 for sure,,giving head to a 4 is so not a turn on the 8 inch yum yum lol each to there own if your happy with a 4 inch good for u ,,if you want a big boy go for it I can understand,,men like skinny women men like fat women,,some girls like boig dick some don’t care,,there is no right or wrong answer here its personal choice..

    and yes I have not had a second date because of a small penis,,

  34. R ison on u Says:

    so to the poster of the question,,keep looking u will find in time,,good luck

  35. The Schlong Goodbye Says:

    If you know the penis size after the first date, maybe penis size isn’t the reason you’re still dating. Just sayin’.

  36. N Says:

    fellas with 3 inch dicks can be blissful at sex
    they can be awful
    8 inch can be mindblowing
    they can be hideously painful
    any can be growers or showers or respond to different things, different positions
    i read recently vaginas are only about 4′
    we can accomodate
    it’s not about dick size!
    it’s about chemistry, relationship, being in the mood! compromise with toys or finishing with different activities if you like him. both do pelvic floor exercises and shake it up. different guys root differently and diff positions might feel just as great, you just have gotten used to sex being a specific way

    you might be unable to root your soulmate when you’re 90 anyways so why not go for someone you just enjoy hanging out with hey

    love from a young chick who does not speak for all women just as any dude doesn’t speak for all dudes

  37. A Says:

    It’s quiet distressing to read how some women can really be quiet, might I say “perdantic” about the size of a penis.. I have an extremely average 5.1/2 – 6 inch penis and from a majority of what I’ve read average is not good enough these days. Just a word to the ladies look for your average guy because let me tell you he’s willing to go further to please you. I really enjoy reading this though I feel for men who are rejected for size too me it just seems shallow.. I think things like this should be kept to to ones self because it seems like another one of those bigger is better generalisations. This aggravates me I’m sure women could address some more important issues in a relationship foremost. Rather then what his sporting under his draws.. Perhaps im ranting..

    It just looks grim when people are so shallow.. Urgh, go eat some makeup so you can be beautiful on the inside.. No. I don’t mean that’… That’s just mean, maybe some women should just be patient and give there smaller bloke a chance that’s all I’m saying…


  38. Terry Says:

    I’ m boarderline 7′ in length,5.2 circumferance and I still feel inadequate,guys this is what women do to us!!!We should not tolerate their pigish ways any longer.And for the people who say:”size doesn’t matter”,k it does.Cause whats happens if a well-endowed man is also good at love making?He’ll beat out the smaller man every time…just a fact.And for the under average guys who will say:”Dude you’re above average,why are you complaining?”Fisrtly above average does not in fact necessarily mean “big” I’m sure most women hold average or a little above to be small.I just can’t see myself wanting to be someone,knowing that if she did get a taste of “big cock” I would be of very little (pun intended) desire for her.Now I just want to be alone,maybe have a one night stand here and there,leave and never look back.Love is a dead dream anyways…idk.I actually don’t have a desire to go out and meet women anymore,and as a result I don’t care to have sex anymore…I just masturbate alot now.Assisted suicide should be legalized,for people like me who don’t have the guts to pull the trigger I just want that perfect peace,no emotions,no worries or fears,no standards or expectation to live up to.Just nothing,hehe it seems so nice when I think about it,and I do…alot.No one would care anyway,just one less undesirable in world I guess.In fact I wouldn’t care…not at all.

  39. Terry Says:

    @ uknown: You’re right women are very very cruel.They are the main reason I’ve been severely depressed almost all my life.

  40. Mark Says:

    Proof that if your a guy and you want to get married marry a girl who is christian and a virgin. I think guys with big ones go around having sex with all the loose women. They are the ones women talk about when they say they want a confident guy. A guy with a big one has confidence and that’s where he gets it so they are the guys who ask girls out. Average guys are shy and so if your average then go to church find a virgin and Marry her. I’m not saying anything bad about non virgins I’m just say don’t marry one unless your hung and if your hung your not going to marry because you get it for free every day.

  41. terry Says:

    Church and religion are fucking retarded!

  42. Gina Says:

    Terry I wish there was a way to contact you. I see your frustration..I felt the same way about men…lol. Honestly i would want your size so please don’t close the door just yet. The problem is we always fall for the wrong lovers. Remember though God is powerful…God also represent the church darling.

  43. Christopher Says:

    I understand this dilemma for a woman. I’m a guy with a small penis only 5 inches. If a woman needs a well endowed man to satisfy her she shouldn’t have to apologize for it. Ladies guys like us we know we’re small & sometimes inadequate. It’s hard but life ain’t fair, so I tell a woman to be brutally honest so she doesn’t resent me, I’ll use a pump (they do work, albeit temporarily) or an extension, but if that don’t work, maybe we’re not compatible, I’ve even let some of my ex gf be with a well endowed men, just so she is pleased, but that never works, my point is if you have a small penis deal with it, I’ve learned to, I’m confident but there are some women I can’t please with my 5 inch penis, that’s life, if she can deal with it she’ll stay, if she can’t she’ll leave, that’s life. Ladies don’t apologize if you need a big penis…

  44. Gina Says:

    Christopher a woman will be honored to have you if she is the right one. I admire you.

  45. B Says:

    This is bull!


    My bf is like 4″ tops- and NO GIRTH.

    I have NEVER EVER had such a terrible time in the bedroom.
    I need SERIOUS help!! I really like him– it’s been about 9 months and I’ve tried so many different things, and I don’t want to hurt his feelings.


  46. B Says:

    I’m reading through the comments and all I’m hearing is about how shallow women are about the size–
    I’m working so hard at this relationship, and it’s great!
    However, 9 months of him being satisfied/me not getting off= waring thin.
    I came here looking for genuine advice not to read about why this makes me a terrible woman.

  47. J Says:

    My husband is 6″ long and 6″ circumference. I think it’s all about the girth. I also think it’s about chemistry and great oral skills help too. I believe we are a very judgemental society and put way too much emphasis on what we want in others instead of concentrating on being a decent human being and finding someone that you can be happy with. Just be yourself and drop the preconceptions :0)

  48. J Says:

    Might I add that I have been with a guy with a small penis but there was great chemistry and great kissing and foreplay and another guy who had a long and of reasonable girth penis and there was great chemistry and kissing, not much foreplay but he could manage a lot of different positions because of his extra length. Sex with my husband is mind blowing because of his girth, great oral skills and always making sure I orgasm first. My point is, you can have great sex with any size penis as long as their are other enjoyable factors. Sex isn’t the same with everyone but it can be great in different ways and if you’ve got a great connection the sex is always going to be great :0)

  49. Christina Says:

    Once you get used to the big ones you can never go back.

  50. frustrated Says:

    I have to say as a man having a small penis is about as frustrated as it gets, 5 1/2 on a good day, what makes it worse is my brother and dad both are bigger than me soft than i am fully erect.(i feel as though I am cursed) I have very low self esteem, I don’t enjoy sex cause I’m to anxious. Cant figure out why any girl would want to be with a guy with low self esteem and a small penis anyway, so I gave up long ago.. Very very frustrated, what makes it worse is I’m 6’2 195lbs blue eyes, and considered a good looking guy,, I have turned down many very attractive girls over the years, cause I’m to ashamed and just feel I will be a disappointment,,, It just sucks, I would really like to know what if feels like to be proud of your penis Instead of feeling like I want to just remove it so I can take that option out of my life and have no reason to even think about it. Its worthless anyway

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