Comments on: Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:49:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mzk http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-11/#comment-42022 mzk Tue, 07 Feb 2012 08:33:49 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-42022 If we concetrate on the size we won't enjoy sex, as a man I do meet females wth huge hole but I try my best to make sure they also enjoy, same as their sizes of boobs n arse coz it does matter to some of us but we do try to settle for less. So nan u women out there stop descriminating the shorter guys out there, instead find a way to make use wat they have If we concetrate on the size we won’t enjoy sex, as a man I do meet females wth huge hole but I try my best to make sure they also enjoy, same as their sizes of boobs n arse coz it does matter to some of us but we do try to settle for less. So nan u women out there stop descriminating the shorter guys out there, instead find a way to make use wat they have

]]> By: MissWise http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-11/#comment-40543 MissWise Thu, 26 Jan 2012 21:36:44 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-40543 *own bodies. I wish there was a way to fix this for all those "average" or below sized guys. And as for my experiences, bigger guys almost always are lazy in bed! The ones i've been with also don't last as long... talking literally 15 seconds to 2 minutes. It's also a preference thing though, just like some guys like loose women or flat chests. But it is annoying that females have preferences when then haven't tried all the flavors, they just think they prefer a certain size. *own bodies. I wish there was a way to fix this for all those “average” or below sized guys. And as for my experiences, bigger guys almost always are lazy in bed! The ones i’ve been with also don’t last as long… talking literally 15 seconds to 2 minutes. It’s also a preference thing though, just like some guys like loose women or flat chests. But it is annoying that females have preferences when then haven’t tried all the flavors, they just think they prefer a certain size.

]]> By: MissWise http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-11/#comment-40542 MissWise Thu, 26 Jan 2012 21:30:49 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-40542 Well, i'm old enough to be quite experienced on this topic. Though certainly not proud of it, i've had 9 partners. Their sizes have been scattered. I would say about 1-3", 1-4", 2-5", 1-6", 2-7" and 2-8/9". I've also always been very tight, 1 finger is all I need to feel something. 3/4 of the big guys were very painful due to girth. I would say only 2 of the 9 knew what they were doing. None of them have ever gotten me off. Except my current boyfriend actually gets me so close that i'm just as exhausted as if I had climaxed. He is also about 5". I would have to say size does matter, but not in the typical way everyone thinks it does. If women could be less judgmental and more accepting, they would be able to experience what I have in that there's always a perfect fit, you just have to be willing to try it on. It's ridiculous that some females have a preference when they don't even know much about, their Well, i’m old enough to be quite experienced on this topic. Though certainly not proud of it, i’ve had 9 partners. Their sizes have been scattered. I would say about 1-3″, 1-4″, 2-5″, 1-6″, 2-7″ and 2-8/9″. I’ve also always been very tight, 1 finger is all I need to feel something. 3/4 of the big guys were very painful due to girth. I would say only 2 of the 9 knew what they were doing. None of them have ever gotten me off. Except my current boyfriend actually gets me so close that i’m just as exhausted as if I had climaxed. He is also about 5″.

I would have to say size does matter, but not in the typical way everyone thinks it does. If women could be less judgmental and more accepting, they would be able to experience what I have in that there’s always a perfect fit, you just have to be willing to try it on. It’s ridiculous that some females have a preference when they don’t even know much about, their

]]> By: DJ http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-11/#comment-39265 DJ Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:55:03 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-39265 Im 4-5 inches and wish I had an extra inch or two. Ive been with about 25 girls and about 5 said I was the best they ever had and about there were about 5 that I couldn't do anything for. I noticed a patter than girls with small wrists seem to like smaller dicks. The best 3 girls all told me they were scared of big dicks and didnt like them cuz they hurt. They were all petite 110 lb girls with small wrists and loved me. My girl I'm with now is always horney for me. We have more sex than with anyone shes been with before because I am always hard and always want it and she is flattered. She has told me that I am the smallest she has been with and the only one that makes or orgasm every time. She wants to marry me and we have sex everyday if not twice or three times a day. That said I still wish I had an extra inch or two just for ego sake and to expand the amount of women I could please, but I figure if you have a smaller dick just find a smaller girl with a small frame. I even had one small asian girl that said I hurt her and she couldnt take all my 5 inches...lol Im 4-5 inches and wish I had an extra inch or two. Ive been with about 25 girls and about 5 said I was the best they ever had and about there were about 5 that I couldn’t do anything for. I noticed a patter than girls with small wrists seem to like smaller dicks. The best 3 girls all told me they were scared of big dicks and didnt like them cuz they hurt. They were all petite 110 lb girls with small wrists and loved me. My girl I’m with now is always horney for me. We have more sex than with anyone shes been with before because I am always hard and always want it and she is flattered. She has told me that I am the smallest she has been with and the only one that makes or orgasm every time. She wants to marry me and we have sex everyday if not twice or three times a day. That said I still wish I had an extra inch or two just for ego sake and to expand the amount of women I could please, but I figure if you have a smaller dick just find a smaller girl with a small frame. I even had one small asian girl that said I hurt her and she couldnt take all my 5 inches…lol

]]> By: lisa http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-11/#comment-39128 lisa Mon, 16 Jan 2012 16:54:21 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-39128 I'm a young woman 26 years old. I have only had three boyfriends. My boyfriend right now is alittle short. I am a woman that enjoys getting my cervix stimulated during sex and a 4-5inch penis honestly doesn't cut it. His thickness is fine but some women like their cervix stimulated and I get amazing orgasums from it. The way I feel is if u not hitting it I can't have a cervical orgasm during sex so what's the point of having a penis in me. Clitoral orgasms are the easy ones and can be achieved easy. For people that say most of a women feeling is three inches in is wrong not all women are the same . I’m a young woman 26 years old. I have only had three boyfriends. My boyfriend right now is alittle short. I am a woman that enjoys getting my cervix stimulated during sex and a 4-5inch penis honestly doesn’t cut it. His thickness is fine but some women like their cervix stimulated and I get amazing orgasums from it. The way I feel is if u not hitting it I can’t have a cervical orgasm during sex so what’s the point of having a penis in me. Clitoral orgasms are the easy ones and can be achieved easy. For people that say most of a women feeling is three inches in is wrong not all women are the same .

]]> By: brooklyn http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-10/#comment-39097 brooklyn Mon, 16 Jan 2012 11:47:36 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-39097 I am having the same problem, only a little different! My new boyfriend may be 5 inches, not a problem, my ex yes he was a solid 9 and amazing in bed! Im very adventurous in bed and the new guy.. not so much! He's said 100 times he's more worried about me and gets the greatest pleasure when I have a smile on my face in bed.. I am absolutely crazy over this guy and told him lastnight, no more of my crazy sex fetishes until he becomes more comfortable with me. I've asked him 100 times what he likes when it comes to sex and he just gives me very vague answers.. he keeps saying he's scared that he can't satisfy me.. but he does because I have such an amazing emotional attachment to him.. so im more of a freak and he's Sooooo far from it.. its getting old.. I really can't deal with a boring sex life.. no matter the size! I am having the same problem, only a little different! My new boyfriend may be 5 inches, not a problem, my ex yes he was a solid 9 and amazing in bed! Im very adventurous in bed and the new guy.. not so much! He’s said 100 times he’s more worried about me and gets the greatest pleasure when I have a smile on my face in bed.. I am absolutely crazy over this guy and told him lastnight, no more of my crazy sex fetishes until he becomes more comfortable with me. I’ve asked him 100 times what he likes when it comes to sex and he just gives me very vague answers.. he keeps saying he’s scared that he can’t satisfy me.. but he does because I have such an amazing emotional attachment to him.. so im more of a freak and he’s Sooooo far from it.. its getting old.. I really can’t deal with a boring sex life.. no matter the size!

]]> By: Mandi http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-10/#comment-39095 Mandi Mon, 16 Jan 2012 11:31:09 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-39095 Ive just started dating someone that is awesome in foreplay, drove me wild, then pulled out a 2inch stump... dont know what to say to it so just cuddled up and changed subject. Ive just started dating someone that is awesome in foreplay, drove me wild, then pulled out a 2inch stump… dont know what to say to it so just cuddled up and changed subject.

]]> By: Linda http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-10/#comment-39005 Linda Mon, 16 Jan 2012 00:11:05 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-39005 If you're a chick just looking for dick, then u should have THAT posted on your forehead, and if you're a guy just looking for a lay, give us the heads up too...same thng (If that's what you're REALLY looking for, it's ok... just be real) A real MAN is not defined by the size of his penis... believe you me. Some guys with big penises get SO lazy in the sack because they think that's all it takes to please and they are SO wrong. I've had a big one before, yeah...but it was the worse sex ever; there IS a reason why the term "COCKY" is a negative term in many aspects. A four-inched man gave me my first man-induced orgasm; I had to fake it out of the bigger ones because they lacked in so many ways. I'm tired of chicks bringing down good men out there; men have psyches, egos, virtues, and insecurities like women do...guys with penises and girls with boobs. "I need to have more boobs TO GET A MAN :(" I guess if you're talking about Hugh Heffner, because apparently you have absolutely nothing else internally to offer...and DON'T get upset when you wear cleavage-baring tops and guys just stare...you ask? they'll answer. Just be real ladies. I'm all up for the self-esteem boost; as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else...do it! For the men out there; ALL men...I'm tired of the stupid penis-size game. I understand you, but I'm personally tired of it. There's more to a man than his penis. And no, not all big and not all small are bad... just like boobs; there's one for everyone. We are NOT all caught up with penis size, and we don't ALL want big ones, just to let you know. And no, I'm not unattractive...by all means I am very sought out for. I'm a very natural, and very happily self-accepted pretty girl with a kim kardashian-meets-jessica biel body, and yeah I got a pretty mug, too. I am HAPPILY pleased in ALL levels with my husband...a 4-5"er!! The best sex and most importantly the best RELATIONSHIP I've ever had, EVER. 10 years and counting... I've never been treated as good as I have by my man. If you're looking for cock (not guaranteeing good sex), you look in his pants...if you're looking for TRUE love & respect you have to look far beyond skin-deep. I'm TIRED of my husband telling me that he doesn't deserve me, because of his penis size that HE isn't comfortable with, and supposedly that such a "gorgeous" girl like me deserves a big cock. I don't wanna dick, I want a MAN... and I got MINE now. If you’re a chick just looking for dick, then u should have THAT posted on your forehead, and if you’re a guy just looking for a lay, give us the heads up too…same thng (If that’s what you’re REALLY looking for, it’s ok… just be real)
A real MAN is not defined by the size of his penis… believe you me. Some guys with big penises get SO lazy in the sack because they think that’s all it takes to please and they are SO wrong. I’ve had a big one before, yeah…but it was the worse sex ever; there IS a reason why the term “COCKY” is a negative term in many aspects. A four-inched man gave me my first man-induced orgasm; I had to fake it out of the bigger ones because they lacked in so many ways. I’m tired of chicks bringing down good men out there; men have psyches, egos, virtues, and insecurities like women do…guys with penises and girls with boobs. “I need to have more boobs TO GET A MAN :( ” I guess if you’re talking about Hugh Heffner, because apparently you have absolutely nothing else internally to offer…and DON’T get upset when you wear cleavage-baring tops and guys just stare…you ask? they’ll answer. Just be real ladies. I’m all up for the self-esteem boost; as long as you’re not hurting yourself or anyone else…do it!
For the men out there; ALL men…I’m tired of the stupid penis-size game. I understand you, but I’m personally tired of it. There’s more to a man than his penis. And no, not all big and not all small are bad… just like boobs; there’s one for everyone. We are NOT all caught up with penis size, and we don’t ALL want big ones, just to let you know.
And no, I’m not unattractive…by all means I am very sought out for. I’m a very natural, and very happily self-accepted pretty girl with a kim kardashian-meets-jessica biel body, and yeah I got a pretty mug, too. I am HAPPILY pleased in ALL levels with my husband…a 4-5″er!! The best sex and most importantly the best RELATIONSHIP I’ve ever had, EVER. 10 years and counting… I’ve never been treated as good as I have by my man. If you’re looking for cock (not guaranteeing good sex), you look in his pants…if you’re looking for TRUE love & respect you have to look far beyond skin-deep.
I’m TIRED of my husband telling me that he doesn’t deserve me, because of his penis size that HE isn’t comfortable with, and supposedly that such a “gorgeous” girl like me deserves a big cock. I don’t wanna dick, I want a MAN… and I got MINE now.

]]> By: good guy http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-10/#comment-38999 good guy Sun, 15 Jan 2012 23:28:49 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-38999 "We almost didn't print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere".....complete and total BULL! You threw up this topic because you KNEW it would draw a firestorm of misandry and judgements in the comments.This is NOT a sex positive site period Everyone has right to their preferences but you don't have a right to dig,rip or judge people based on something you damn well know they cannot change. “We almost didn’t print your letter because of the emotional damage it might inflict on insecure men everywhere”…..complete and total BULL! You threw up this topic because you KNEW it would draw a firestorm of misandry and judgements in the comments.This is NOT a sex positive site period Everyone has right to their preferences but you don’t have a right to dig,rip or judge people based on something you damn well know they cannot change.

]]> By: Robert http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/advice-my-new-boyfriend-has-a-small-penis/comment-page-10/#comment-38961 Robert Sun, 15 Jan 2012 17:22:33 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3922#comment-38961 My ex broke up with me because my 5.5" couldn't satisfy her. I know this because she cheated on me twice with a dude who was NO BETTER than me in any way but in the sack, he had a 10" dong. I've had women since then, but none of them compare to what I felt with her.. why'd she have to betray me like that. Just for a dick. His 10" in no way compensates for my 5 11" awesomeness. My ex broke up with me because my 5.5″ couldn’t satisfy her. I know this because she cheated on me twice with a dude who was NO BETTER than me in any way but in the sack, he had a 10″ dong. I’ve had women since then, but none of them compare to what I felt with her.. why’d she have to betray me like that. Just for a dick. His 10″ in no way compensates for my 5 11″ awesomeness.

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