Comments on: Confession: My Top 5 Pornos for Us Ladies http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/confession-my-top-10-pornos-for-us-ladies/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:49:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Tony Comstock http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/confession-my-top-10-pornos-for-us-ladies/comment-page-1/#comment-2762 Tony Comstock Thu, 04 Jun 2009 21:37:53 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3318#comment-2762 Oh, I absolutely take it as a compliment, and I understand she's conflating "graphic" with "confrontational" But it doesn't have to be that way. I think the details of lovemaking are beautiful, but we're so accustomed to seeing them filmed badly it's as if we've come to believe there's something inherently off-putting or unbeautiful about it. But believe me, just like food photography can be beautiful, just like lovers kissing can be sensuous, frank depictions of lovemaking can be every bit as visually appealing, so long as their presented with the same eye for detail, both visual and emotional! Oh, I absolutely take it as a compliment, and I understand she’s conflating “graphic” with “confrontational” But it doesn’t have to be that way.

I think the details of lovemaking are beautiful, but we’re so accustomed to seeing them filmed badly it’s as if we’ve come to believe there’s something inherently off-putting or unbeautiful about it.

But believe me, just like food photography can be beautiful, just like lovers kissing can be sensuous, frank depictions of lovemaking can be every bit as visually appealing, so long as their presented with the same eye for detail, both visual and emotional!

]]> By: emandlo http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/confession-my-top-10-pornos-for-us-ladies/comment-page-1/#comment-2756 emandlo Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:36:39 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3318#comment-2756 Hey Tony, great to hear from you! We guess that "graphic" is a pretty subjective concept (kind of like "porn"!). We asked our friend to rate the different titles on terms of how graphic she thinks they are (to give newbies a bit of a heads up), and obviously she's the type who finds something less graphic when the production values are higher -- so take it as a compliment! Thanks for the added tips. Hey Tony, great to hear from you! We guess that “graphic” is a pretty subjective concept (kind of like “porn”!). We asked our friend to rate the different titles on terms of how graphic she thinks they are (to give newbies a bit of a heads up), and obviously she’s the type who finds something less graphic when the production values are higher — so take it as a compliment! Thanks for the added tips.

]]> By: ell http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/confession-my-top-10-pornos-for-us-ladies/comment-page-1/#comment-2755 ell Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:13:32 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3318#comment-2755 Tony and Peggy's films are gorgeously sexy and fun as well. Feels like I've been banging out about them for years! I'm not the only one though - take a look at some of the fabulous reviews at Amazon - http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=comstock+films&x=0&y=0 Yay for real sex and real love! Tony and Peggy’s films are gorgeously sexy and fun as well. Feels like I’ve been banging out about them for years! I’m not the only one though – take a look at some of the fabulous reviews at Amazon – http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=comstock+films&x=0&y=0
Yay for real sex and real love!

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Thanks for the list — I’ll definitely check out the other titles. I’m always on the lookout for good couple-friendly porn.

]]> By: Tony Comstock http://www.emandlo.com/2009/06/confession-my-top-10-pornos-for-us-ladies/comment-page-1/#comment-2752 Tony Comstock Thu, 04 Jun 2009 11:28:58 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=3318#comment-2752 Hello Em&Lo and thanks for the shout out. RE: "Less Graphic" I chuckled when I read this, because we've been hearing this for years, about MARIE AND JACK and the rest of our films. Our films are quite explicit, and certainly as explicit as any of the films on this list. According to Wikipedia, MARIE AND JACK is the most sexually explicit film ever granted an NC-17 by the MPAA. If our film *feel* less explicit, it's because while the camera never turns away from the erotic details, neither does it linger on them fetishistically. Mouths kissing are every bit as important as genitals colliding; and when it's all over, people remember the sensuous eye contact as much as the naked bodies. The lasting impression of our films is of warm emotions rather than of depersonalized and interminable close-ups. Also, while I'm still very proud of MARIE AND JACK and think it's a great little film, it was our first film, and I think subsequent efforts make an even better introduction to our erotic documentary style of movie making. My personal recommend for a "first date" with us would be a coin-toss between MATT AND KHYM: BETTER THAN EVER or XANA AND DAX: WHEN OPPOSITES ATTRACT. Both are available directly from us, or on Amazon, or from retailers like Blowfish, Good Vibrations, and Babeland. Cheers! TC Hello Em&Lo and thanks for the shout out.

RE: “Less Graphic”

I chuckled when I read this, because we’ve been hearing this for years, about MARIE AND JACK and the rest of our films.

Our films are quite explicit, and certainly as explicit as any of the films on this list. According to Wikipedia, MARIE AND JACK is the most sexually explicit film ever granted an NC-17 by the MPAA.

If our film *feel* less explicit, it’s because while the camera never turns away from the erotic details, neither does it linger on them fetishistically. Mouths kissing are every bit as important as genitals colliding; and when it’s all over, people remember the sensuous eye contact as much as the naked bodies. The lasting impression of our films is of warm emotions rather than of depersonalized and interminable close-ups.

Also, while I’m still very proud of MARIE AND JACK and think it’s a great little film, it was our first film, and I think subsequent efforts make an even better introduction to our erotic documentary style of movie making. My personal recommend for a “first date” with us would be a coin-toss between MATT AND KHYM: BETTER THAN EVER or XANA AND DAX: WHEN OPPOSITES ATTRACT. Both are available directly from us, or on Amazon, or from retailers like Blowfish, Good Vibrations, and Babeland.

Cheers!
TC

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