Comments on: Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Too Much Cleavage?

By: A

Thu, 08 Jul 2010 16:21:37 +0000

For the person who said “if you get mad at guys for staring then you are showing too much” your theory doesn’t stand up. I have natural 32F breasts and any slight dip in the neckline of my shirts and my cleavage pops out. Girls with big breasts cannot hide cleavage unless they wear a t-shirt of turtleneck. I guess by your books I am always showing too much. Staring is not a problem, but leering is and it’s my right to get mad – if men can leer, I can get upset – we all have our own rights

By: Greg

Greg — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 12:29:43 +0000

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I believe God meant for women’s breasts to be a sexual attraction. But, personal control is a definite help. I’ve been married to a large breasted woman since the 80′s. She is never upset with my personal enjoyment but is justifiably angry with men who gauk. So guys, please use controlled actions when observing. Be kind.

By: james

james — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 21:44:39 +0000

I have no issue with women having a lot of cleavage, it is all good.
At the same time, I hope women can exercise good judgemrnt and understand their limitations.
There is a point where cleavage means style, beautty, but there is a threshold where it becomes tacky, where it becomes exhibitionism, where it becomes plain vanity.
If a woman wants men to appreciate her beautty, that is ok, but there are some women that sport cleavage, and at the same time act like uptight brats, giving evil eyes or acting snoby at men that look at them.
If you do not want to attention, do not ask for it. Some women are hard to understand, they dress up as if they want all men to look at them, but once the bee is laid down and the bear comes out to get it, you can not get mad at the bear for liking honey.
Also, beware of this game , you might attract a bear you will not be able to handle.

By: dave

dave — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:30:45 +0000

I agree with a previous post. If you don’t want guys to look, cover it up. The most unattractive thing is trying to be too sexy, and always tugging at something. Wear what you are and chill out.

By: js

js — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 03:08:52 +0000

yeppers. ya were. get over yourselves and get back to talking about connection things. this is degenerating into a baby bottle fest in more ways than one.

By: Lucidus

Lucidus — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:57:05 +0000

Panzer is either trying to be delibrately annoying or is just out and out sexist (neither very edifying). I’m mad that guys are looking because you know what? I am not a piece of meat for you to drool at and really it should be you modifying your behaviour rather than the other way round.

Why? We’re not trying to modify your behavior.

By: Trouble

Trouble — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 16:40:27 +0000

Bit disappointed that none of the guys even went near ‘well, it’s your body it’s up to you’ as a viewpoint. For me its a balance between your own comfort and having the right to do with your body what you want and respecting others (such as what I wear to someone’s Sunday dinner with their family may not be what I wear the previous Sat night) and that is what I mainly go by.

By: KJ

KJ — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 23:35:11 +0000

Ouch Nawny. Someone struck a nerve with you?

That’s not what he said at all. Not even close. Implanted breasts can be more hideous than natural breasts. I think this was touched on awhile back. The fake breasts with an area you could land a 747 in between come to mind. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being natural or fake for that matter. Just realize that people have their own tastes and just because they don’t like yours doesn’t mean they are shallow. I for one love huge areolas and he doesn’t. Does that make me disgusting? No it just means we have different tastes.

By: nawny

nawny — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 17:45:18 +0000

Rei, so according to your guy friends, implant breasts are beautiful, while real human breasts are ugly?

Yikes.

Wonder if those guys have bods that measure up to the standards they use for women…

By: figleaf

figleaf — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:00:46 +0000

Although I don’t think it’s about who else you’re with I’m with Matt that context matters. Whether your parents were there or not cleavage in a choir robe would seem out of place. Meanwhile cleavage in a two-piece bathing suit would be par for the course. And cleavage in a sauna… wouldn’t even be cleavage!

But here’s the deal: wearing a choir robe in a sauna would be just as out of place as a wearing a bikini in a choir loft. It would be *wrong* — not in the sense one should be ashamed of one’s self. But unless there was prior agreement with other participants (e.g. “For our next challenge we all have to wear choir robes in the sauna”) it would be out of place.

figleaf