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		<title>By: Will Gotoo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Will Gotoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 22:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, I&#039;ll throw my two cents in.  A number of years ago a woman told me that the reason that guys enjoy watching videos of girls going down on dick is because psychologically, the guy imagines himself &lt;i&gt;being that girl&lt;/i&gt;, not because they identify with the guy. 

I became determined that I would try to suck a cock and see if she was right.  She was wrong, I had no desire to suck a cock and in my experimenting, I found out that I had &lt;i&gt;no sexual desire watsoever&lt;/i&gt; to be in physical contact with a man.  The act of touching and being touched by a man was physically repulsive to me.  Now that being said, I had a very interesting expeince with a man who was gay.  I had gotten naked with him and nothing exicting had happened and we both gave up.  I was getting ready to get dressed and he came into his bedroom with a solid brass bottle-opener that had been made from a mold of a man&#039;s erect cock.  It was seven inches long, solid brass and heavy.  I forget the exact conversation, but he wanted to fuck me with it.  The whole thing was so bizarre, I was so stunned by the turn of events that I agreed for some reason.  I lie back on the bed and begin to masturbate as he sits there and greases this thing up and starts putting the tip against my anus.  Now, I had never been involved in anal play before, so this whole process was a good 40 minutes of the tip of this thing slowly opening me up, sometimes touches of pain and sometimes a bizarre thrill of the unknown. He knew enough to never thrust it into me, he just waited while my hole started to open and accept.  I was masturbating and slowly fucking myself onto this metal cock.  Writhing, pulling back, moaning until after a long time i felt its head pop in and its length slid deep into me.  Then slowly but surely he began to fuck me with the brass cock. I was moaning and sighing with each stroke touching me in places nothing had ever touched me before. I&#039;m not sure how long the fucking lasted, maybe 15 minutes.  It was absolutely amazing and I came screaming as this thing pounded me and pounded me.

Over time, I met with this man dozens of times and was thoroughly fucked.  Eventually we drifted appart (more me just having other involvements than anything else).  It&#039;s been a few years since the last time.  Never in that period of time have I had a desire to have gay sex with a man.  

Being opened up anally and fucked with a toy was a great experience, I&#039;m glad I did it, and my friend enjoyed doing it to me.  But I also learned that I had no attraction to men.  So I wouldnt worry about being turned gay by a strapon boning or two.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I&#8217;ll throw my two cents in.  A number of years ago a woman told me that the reason that guys enjoy watching videos of girls going down on dick is because psychologically, the guy imagines himself <i>being that girl</i>, not because they identify with the guy. </p>
<p>I became determined that I would try to suck a cock and see if she was right.  She was wrong, I had no desire to suck a cock and in my experimenting, I found out that I had <i>no sexual desire watsoever</i> to be in physical contact with a man.  The act of touching and being touched by a man was physically repulsive to me.  Now that being said, I had a very interesting expeince with a man who was gay.  I had gotten naked with him and nothing exicting had happened and we both gave up.  I was getting ready to get dressed and he came into his bedroom with a solid brass bottle-opener that had been made from a mold of a man&#8217;s erect cock.  It was seven inches long, solid brass and heavy.  I forget the exact conversation, but he wanted to fuck me with it.  The whole thing was so bizarre, I was so stunned by the turn of events that I agreed for some reason.  I lie back on the bed and begin to masturbate as he sits there and greases this thing up and starts putting the tip against my anus.  Now, I had never been involved in anal play before, so this whole process was a good 40 minutes of the tip of this thing slowly opening me up, sometimes touches of pain and sometimes a bizarre thrill of the unknown. He knew enough to never thrust it into me, he just waited while my hole started to open and accept.  I was masturbating and slowly fucking myself onto this metal cock.  Writhing, pulling back, moaning until after a long time i felt its head pop in and its length slid deep into me.  Then slowly but surely he began to fuck me with the brass cock. I was moaning and sighing with each stroke touching me in places nothing had ever touched me before. I&#8217;m not sure how long the fucking lasted, maybe 15 minutes.  It was absolutely amazing and I came screaming as this thing pounded me and pounded me.</p>
<p>Over time, I met with this man dozens of times and was thoroughly fucked.  Eventually we drifted appart (more me just having other involvements than anything else).  It&#8217;s been a few years since the last time.  Never in that period of time have I had a desire to have gay sex with a man.  </p>
<p>Being opened up anally and fucked with a toy was a great experience, I&#8217;m glad I did it, and my friend enjoyed doing it to me.  But I also learned that I had no attraction to men.  So I wouldnt worry about being turned gay by a strapon boning or two.</p>
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		<title>By: casey</title>
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		<dc:creator>casey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 17:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, so I came on here to figure something out, and some of the posts have really helped me but last night, this guy that I have been seeing for a while were hooking up and I slid a finger in his butthole, only because he had told me when I first met him that he owns a strap on and butt plugs, so I thought I should try penetrate him with my finger. He totally loved it. I then went ahead and slid in a vibrator and he went NUTS! Now, two things, he works at a his family owned gay bar as a manager and he is way too sexy and manly to be gay. But all my girlfriends and guys are convincing me that he is totally gay. I wouldnt have any issues with him being gay at all but I am just curious, he gets so turned on by me, we have like AMAZING sex, but he takes a while to cum, could that be because he isnt that turned on by a woman?? This is all so new to me, and I really like him. I dont mind kinky sex, but what if hes being bent over at work, and then coming home to me? But I am just so nervous that he might be gay, should I ask him?? Or do some men  just maybe enjoy the penetration???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, so I came on here to figure something out, and some of the posts have really helped me but last night, this guy that I have been seeing for a while were hooking up and I slid a finger in his butthole, only because he had told me when I first met him that he owns a strap on and butt plugs, so I thought I should try penetrate him with my finger. He totally loved it. I then went ahead and slid in a vibrator and he went NUTS! Now, two things, he works at a his family owned gay bar as a manager and he is way too sexy and manly to be gay. But all my girlfriends and guys are convincing me that he is totally gay. I wouldnt have any issues with him being gay at all but I am just curious, he gets so turned on by me, we have like AMAZING sex, but he takes a while to cum, could that be because he isnt that turned on by a woman?? This is all so new to me, and I really like him. I dont mind kinky sex, but what if hes being bent over at work, and then coming home to me? But I am just so nervous that he might be gay, should I ask him?? Or do some men  just maybe enjoy the penetration???</p>
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		<title>By: guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2011 07:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>he made a lot of good points and yet u pass it off as some kind of lunatic&#039;s rant. instead of disproving anything he said u poked fun at him and gave ur OPINIONS on the matter. 

wat i find funny bout this is ur clearly being 1 sided and closed minded as well as most of the ppl replying. kinda odd coming from a group like this. but i guess if his ideas dont match up with urs its straght ludicay huh

seems to me ur just promoting ur lifestyle and couldnt care less bout anything that could make ppl think twice about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>he made a lot of good points and yet u pass it off as some kind of lunatic&#8217;s rant. instead of disproving anything he said u poked fun at him and gave ur OPINIONS on the matter. </p>
<p>wat i find funny bout this is ur clearly being 1 sided and closed minded as well as most of the ppl replying. kinda odd coming from a group like this. but i guess if his ideas dont match up with urs its straght ludicay huh</p>
<p>seems to me ur just promoting ur lifestyle and couldnt care less bout anything that could make ppl think twice about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Kali</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 15:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Turning all against one is an art that&#039;s hard to teach. -- Offspring

Somehow, this fits.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Turning all against one is an art that&#8217;s hard to teach. &#8212; Offspring</p>
<p>Somehow, this fits.</p>
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		<title>By: collegestudent19</title>
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		<dc:creator>collegestudent19</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 09:07:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to say, reading the posts that you all had left entertained me for hours (but not really. more like minutes). Im not going to voice my opinion on the subject matter, but I will say that for anyone (including James) trying to argue their point, the low-blows and stabs take all credibility from the entire post. Also, I have noticed that the longer posts also try to use big words to make a better argument when, really, the misspelling of simple words pretty much steals the attention.

James, you make good points and you make bad points. The same goes for anyone on the opposite side. What you all have severe issues with is keeping it to a civilized exchange of information, key points, etc. Seriously? Insults only make you sound like an insecure person who uses big words to sound important. On top of that, it makes it so you all have no idea what you&#039;re trying to say. With the exception of the personal experience posts.

So I guess what I&#039;ve been trying to say is that attacking is immature and cannot be taken seriously. Next time, try to make a good argument instead of bitch-slapping each other.

Yes, I realize I call out James a few times, but this whole forum is about his article, and there are too many names for me to put into this post. I don&#039;t mean to offend anyone, I just wanted to give advice to the people who really want to debate and not fight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say, reading the posts that you all had left entertained me for hours (but not really. more like minutes). Im not going to voice my opinion on the subject matter, but I will say that for anyone (including James) trying to argue their point, the low-blows and stabs take all credibility from the entire post. Also, I have noticed that the longer posts also try to use big words to make a better argument when, really, the misspelling of simple words pretty much steals the attention.</p>
<p>James, you make good points and you make bad points. The same goes for anyone on the opposite side. What you all have severe issues with is keeping it to a civilized exchange of information, key points, etc. Seriously? Insults only make you sound like an insecure person who uses big words to sound important. On top of that, it makes it so you all have no idea what you&#8217;re trying to say. With the exception of the personal experience posts.</p>
<p>So I guess what I&#8217;ve been trying to say is that attacking is immature and cannot be taken seriously. Next time, try to make a good argument instead of bitch-slapping each other.</p>
<p>Yes, I realize I call out James a few times, but this whole forum is about his article, and there are too many names for me to put into this post. I don&#8217;t mean to offend anyone, I just wanted to give advice to the people who really want to debate and not fight.</p>
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		<title>By: bennybutton</title>
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		<dc:creator>bennybutton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 03:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok I&#039;ve read through most of the discussions. I often fantasize and have even tried to push my member off to the size and tried to have strap on intercourse with my g/f.  she wont allow it.  i tell her all i want her to do is have it her way and to really get into it with out me finishing first. and of course to try something new.  has anyone else tried this or am i just weird?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok I&#8217;ve read through most of the discussions. I often fantasize and have even tried to push my member off to the size and tried to have strap on intercourse with my g/f.  she wont allow it.  i tell her all i want her to do is have it her way and to really get into it with out me finishing first. and of course to try something new.  has anyone else tried this or am i just weird?</p>
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		<title>By: bim</title>
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		<dc:creator>bim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 10:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nb,

I partially agree with you.  Strapon sex for a man has different reasons.  (1) It could be just for the pleasure received through the nerves.  (2) It could also be for submissive reasons.  (3) It could also be because he internally is bisexual but society forbids him from knowing this.  In case 3, he would most likely find out that he is bisexual or gay.  

Even in cases 1 and 2 he might be bisexual too, but he still does not know so.  He might be looking for a woman just because she is feminine (not because she has a pussy).  That is, a feminine man or a transgendered woman may turn him on the same as a genetic woman.  That happened with me.  I had some flirting once with a TG and it was a big turn on for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nb,</p>
<p>I partially agree with you.  Strapon sex for a man has different reasons.  (1) It could be just for the pleasure received through the nerves.  (2) It could also be for submissive reasons.  (3) It could also be because he internally is bisexual but society forbids him from knowing this.  In case 3, he would most likely find out that he is bisexual or gay.  </p>
<p>Even in cases 1 and 2 he might be bisexual too, but he still does not know so.  He might be looking for a woman just because she is feminine (not because she has a pussy).  That is, a feminine man or a transgendered woman may turn him on the same as a genetic woman.  That happened with me.  I had some flirting once with a TG and it was a big turn on for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Jimi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jimi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 12:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been crossdressing and masterbating anally since I was 11 years old. My last two girl friends, and I think possibly my next girl friend to be, all loved wearing strap ons. I tried being with a man once in my life and it was such a big turn off I have never tried again. I wonder how James would explain that phenomenah.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been crossdressing and masterbating anally since I was 11 years old. My last two girl friends, and I think possibly my next girl friend to be, all loved wearing strap ons. I tried being with a man once in my life and it was such a big turn off I have never tried again. I wonder how James would explain that phenomenah.</p>
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		<title>By: Lotte</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 12:59:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my boyfriend loves bumplay, and he&#039;s all man ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my boyfriend loves bumplay, and he&#8217;s all man <img src='http://www.emandlo.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dixie Normous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dixie Normous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 07:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theres a difference between finding a man attractive and taking it in the ass and liking it... but either way your still gay! 
Your prostrate is the most sensitive glan in your body, and if stimulating it brings yyou pleasure then so be it, but don&#039;t be open about it unless your ready to be labeled!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theres a difference between finding a man attractive and taking it in the ass and liking it&#8230; but either way your still gay!<br />
Your prostrate is the most sensitive glan in your body, and if stimulating it brings yyou pleasure then so be it, but don&#8217;t be open about it unless your ready to be labeled!</p>
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