Comments on: Wise Guys: Do Men Really Love Bitches?

By: Madamoiselle L

Madamoiselle L — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:05:53 +0000

I think the word “Bitch” means different things to different people. For some it means “whore?” (really?) Others a “zilla” whatever that is (sorry, I don’t watch Reality TV. I am assuming the term is from that particular vomitus of programming?)

For some a “bitch” is a woman who simply makes them feel insecure about themselves, for others, she’s a self absorbed woman, intent on her own desires, for others ANY woman who stands up for and voices her own opinions, uses her God Given gifts for the best, and doesn’t back down, has no problem pointing out errors, and doesn’t crumble at the slightest “insult” to her reputation is one. For others, it’s simply a word to substitute for “woman.”

Without a proper definition, it’s hard to comment.

By: Arturas

Arturas — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 15:24:40 +0000

oh yeahh bitches rules forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Loverbitch

Loverbitch — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 03:18:52 +0000

I am a female bitch and lover. I think a man needs both in a relationship. When I am a bitch my husband of 27 years respects me as an independent woman, he knows that I can do things without him, I feel it makes him appreciates me more. I am also a lover I show my husband that I appreicate him as well. I respect him as a MAN, and I let him wear the pants when needed. He cooks ,cleans and caters to me all the time. I also take turns catering to him as well, The bottom line is in any relationship you need a balance. A man will get bored with a good girl and tired of the bitch. So keep it excited, and be both. The bitch will keep him from boredom and the good girl will keep him there.

By: Johnny

Johnny — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 22:44:39 +0000

Crystal, I don’t think Lucy’s talking about needing men to accomplish tasks that she can’t complete on her own. Yin and yang baby – women need real men, and men need real women.

She put it harshly, but she’s right. Americans are unattractively genderless – men act like pussies around women for fear of being labled sexist, women have an underdeveloped sense of femininity and grace… it’s not good. The genders are equal in terms of human value… but they’re different. We’ve created this sexless grey area in gender relations that harms us all.

By: crystal

crystal — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 00:13:16 +0000

to lucys post *cause real woman need a real
man in their lives for suport.*
a real woman or as some think * bitches* DONT need a man for anything, thats part of the allure to men i believe, she says she dont NEED us..we will prove her wrong ( whether its money, sex, cars, diamonds) . i grew up in a strong female house, i do what needs to be done , with or with out a mans help! most times with out..so i guess that makes me a bitch..but ill gladly take that title becuase i know at the end of the day i can trust only one person…ME

By: james

james — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 04:10:43 +0000

Well, this depends on your definition of bitch. What the word bitch brings to mind in my case is not a dominating woman, but a whore of a woman.

A whore and a dominating woman are 2 different things.

By: lucy

lucy — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 22:46:19 +0000

well letting a woman control you
dont not make you a real man..cause real woman need a real
man in their lives for suport.but if you yourself as a man
acting like a pussy then what would you expect from the woman
im a woman myself all women are B!tChEz no matter who you and no matter where you from we stil B!TcHeZ

By: Johnny

Johnny — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 17:25:11 +0000

Here’s some dude-language translation:

“I love bitches” = “My girlfriend is a bitch, and being a total pussy myself, I’m scared to stick up for myself or dump her”

“I love a challenge” = “I get shot down or walked all over more often than not; I frame these interactions as ‘challenges’ rather than ‘failures’ to protect my ego”

By: james

james — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 16:45:39 +0000

I think we guys like bad girls in the same way women like the bad guys.
It is like a challenge need our egos have.Women and men go for that kind of person because it is different, it is like an amusement ride, new expectations, new situations, surrounded by an aura of sensuality.
Problem is that those adventures always end up with a wrong, because those qualities and behavior that we find alluring, are exactly those qualities and behavior we consider undesireable for ourselves and our loved ones, and soon, like a pitbull dog turning against its master, this relationship bites at us and ends up hurting us.
Then we go back to our senses and look for a wothy person for company.

By: HM

HM — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 08:41:10 +0000

I think good guys don’t stay with “zillas” for very long. If they’re drawn in by some kind of excitement, it will wear off after a while.

On another topic – does anyone know if there is some kind of sister site where women answer questions like these from men?