Comments on: Your Call: How Do I Find Out If My Co-Worker Digs Me? http://www.emandlo.com/2009/07/your-call-how-do-i-find-out-if-my-co-worker-digs-me/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 07:40:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Praialover http://www.emandlo.com/2009/07/your-call-how-do-i-find-out-if-my-co-worker-digs-me/comment-page-1/#comment-5957 Praialover Sat, 24 Oct 2009 19:44:09 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4068#comment-5957 I don't get it. How did you get over to HIS place ... by magic? He must have asked you over, in which case, he ain't a shy guy! Otherwise he might have perceived that you "forced" yourself on him ... or come on a bit strong? And you got TOPLESS? And lay in his bed? With him? Why? How did that happen? You're definitely not shy. I can't imagine that you both silently took your tops off and climbed in that bed together. Someone said something. Who initiated it ... you or him? If he did, he's into you. If you did, and he didn't bang your brains out ... he's either gay, or he wasn't that into you, or he just likes you as a friend. Listen, if I was a guy and a woman came over to my place, took her top off and got in my bed ... it's blindingly obvious that she's into me. And if I was into her, she definitely wouldn't have had the chance to leave that bed without a "hot test drive". Or let's suppose the timing just wasn't right, you can bet your bottom dollar that a couple months would not be me passing by without me trying to get her back into my bed to do her. Read the tea leaves baby. He's already told you where you stand with him ... he's gay and he wants you as a friend. And while I'm at it, why do women fall for some of the BS lines guys give them ... "he doesn't speak to many females and he plays dumb so he won't get hurt." Yeah, right! I don’t get it. How did you get over to HIS place … by magic? He must have asked you over, in which case, he ain’t a shy guy! Otherwise he might have perceived that you “forced” yourself on him … or come on a bit strong?

And you got TOPLESS? And lay in his bed? With him? Why? How did that happen? You’re definitely not shy. I can’t imagine that you both silently took your tops off and climbed in that bed together. Someone said something. Who initiated it … you or him? If he did, he’s into you. If you did, and he didn’t bang your brains out … he’s either gay, or he wasn’t that into you, or he just likes you as a friend.

Listen, if I was a guy and a woman came over to my place, took her top off and got in my bed … it’s blindingly obvious that she’s into me. And if I was into her, she definitely wouldn’t have had the chance to leave that bed without a “hot test drive”.

Or let’s suppose the timing just wasn’t right, you can bet your bottom dollar that a couple months would not be me passing by without me trying to get her back into my bed to do her.

Read the tea leaves baby. He’s already told you where you stand with him … he’s gay and he wants you as a friend. And while I’m at it, why do women fall for some of the BS lines guys give them … “he doesn’t speak to many females and he plays dumb so he won’t get hurt.” Yeah, right!

]]> By: chris http://www.emandlo.com/2009/07/your-call-how-do-i-find-out-if-my-co-worker-digs-me/comment-page-1/#comment-5954 chris Sat, 24 Oct 2009 17:09:29 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4068#comment-5954 I'm a shy guy myself.The best thing you could do is to be direct with him.Either ask him or have him over for diner [it can be take out you dont have to cook] dont make his favorite meal either.BE DIRECT!!! He probly is much like me and can't tell the diff' between just flirting and being honestly into him.But for godsake don't have sex the first few dates.However,be a flirt not a prude I’m a shy guy myself.The best thing you could do is to be direct with him.Either ask him or have him over for diner [it can be take out you dont have to cook] dont make his favorite meal either.BE DIRECT!!! He probly is much like me and can’t tell the diff’ between just flirting and being honestly into him.But for godsake don’t have sex the first few dates.However,be a flirt not a prude

]]> By: nick http://www.emandlo.com/2009/07/your-call-how-do-i-find-out-if-my-co-worker-digs-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3367 nick Thu, 09 Jul 2009 07:04:50 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4068#comment-3367 I am another shy guy. Every woman I've dated has made the moves on me. I can also say that his actions show that he is into you. Let him know that you are into him. Be as obvious as possible. I am another shy guy. Every woman I’ve dated has made the moves on me. I can also say that his actions show that he is into you.

Let him know that you are into him. Be as obvious as possible.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.emandlo.com/2009/07/your-call-how-do-i-find-out-if-my-co-worker-digs-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3301 Jennifer Tue, 07 Jul 2009 20:09:10 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4068#comment-3301 Didn't know what to decide on the poll (any of the first three), but (a) he sounds like one of those guys you are going to have to make the first move on, (b) when his mom is NOT around working with you, and (c) if y'all got TOPLESS, I think he likes you. Didn’t know what to decide on the poll (any of the first three), but (a) he sounds like one of those guys you are going to have to make the first move on, (b) when his mom is NOT around working with you, and (c) if y’all got TOPLESS, I think he likes you.

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