Comments on: Dear Em & Lo: A Very Contemporary Love Story http://www.emandlo.com/2009/08/dear-em-lo-a-very-contemporary-love-story/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:49:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jay http://www.emandlo.com/2009/08/dear-em-lo-a-very-contemporary-love-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4010 Jay Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:54:24 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4789#comment-4010 I'm sorry buy allow my Neanderthal response to override my thinking for a moment: WTF? He's complaining that his chick constantly allows him to engage in threesomes??? Now that's out of my system (yes, I AM jealous), Im glad that he found a way to make it work. I’m sorry buy allow my Neanderthal response to override my thinking for a moment: WTF? He’s complaining that his chick constantly allows him to engage in threesomes???

Now that’s out of my system (yes, I AM jealous), Im glad that he found a way to make it work.

]]> By: Dave W http://www.emandlo.com/2009/08/dear-em-lo-a-very-contemporary-love-story/comment-page-1/#comment-3962 Dave W Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:04:18 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4789#comment-3962 Em&Lo, This is a rare question where I think you guys missed the point. I believe his main concern is not whether she could be happy in a lesbian marriage, or even whom she finds attractive. It is, as the question states, whether he could ever "be ALL and fulfill all" for her. I'm guessing that somewhere in their soul-searching, they understood that if all possibility of threeways went away tomorrow, that she would still be very happy and fulfilled. The resolution of his insecurities on this issue probably cleared the way for them to have hot threeway sex again. Em&Lo,

This is a rare question where I think you guys missed the point. I believe his main concern is not whether she could be happy in a lesbian marriage, or even whom she finds attractive. It is, as the question states, whether he could ever “be ALL and fulfill all” for her. I’m guessing that somewhere in their soul-searching, they understood that if all possibility of threeways went away tomorrow, that she would still be very happy and fulfilled. The resolution of his insecurities on this issue probably cleared the way for them to have hot threeway sex again.

]]> By: Rolando http://www.emandlo.com/2009/08/dear-em-lo-a-very-contemporary-love-story/comment-page-1/#comment-3958 Rolando Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:51:50 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=4789#comment-3958 I smiled when Zac referred to himself as a "thinking man." He's actually what I usually think of as an over-thinking man. I await Friday's Q&A with baited breath. I smiled when Zac referred to himself as a “thinking man.” He’s actually what I usually think of as an over-thinking man. I await Friday’s Q&A with baited breath.

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