Not that I haven’t been tempted, when that happens, I remove myself from the situation, and make sure I am not in that situation or around that person again. You may not be able to control WHO you are attracted to, BUT you CAN control the situation and what you do to make sure you remain true to your monogamous lover and relationship promises. I am sure My Man has had similar temptations.
It’s just a part of being a sexual being. The temptation is normal, but the ability to say, “No, I love my lover too much to risk his love and our relationship for a fling.” that makes it work.

I think that justifies a “trial” to find out whether the man is good her. So I would click “yes”.

“Why would you cheat on someone who gives you love everyday, passionate sex, and trust?? I guess to those who said ‘yes’ is in a bad relationship, aren’t happy, or just plane bored and lazy about ending the relationship. Cheaters are weak, unhappy, lazy people.”

I presume for most of those of us who clicked “yes” would do it because of the chance of never getting caught. Yes, I understand that the guilt would most likely get to most of us eventually – but you only live once.

You’ve forgotten to mention in your post those who are in a controlled relationship and those who are in a black-mailed relationship and would do something to have a bit of control for themselves. If you want to go and tell them that they are “weak” and “lazy” – be my guest.

I certainly wouldn’t.

Do to others how you would like to be treated. So, if you want to ‘BE’ cheated on, you should go find filthy cheaters; won’t last long since both of you will cheat on each other, and you have a never ending cycle. Maybe you’ll actually get a conscience, or a heart, and have a mature, worthwhile relationship and never cheat again.

It seems you’re forgetting that there are some who don’t feel guilt, just as some people can’t see the color red.