Comments on: Dear Em & Lo: My Man Orgasmed Without Ejaculating http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:21:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: El Mayimbe http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-14792 El Mayimbe Tue, 03 Aug 2010 16:17:25 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-14792 It happen to me once. I was getting head in the car. And boom I orgasmed, but my girlfriend continued giving me a BJ. I was wondering what she did to the load. Then I ejaculated, I knew because she made the noise that she can taste it. I asked her what happened after the first time and she said nothing ever came out. It happen to me once. I was getting head in the car. And boom I orgasmed, but my girlfriend continued giving me a BJ. I was wondering what she did to the load. Then I ejaculated, I knew because she made the noise that she can taste it. I asked her what happened after the first time and she said nothing ever came out.

]]> By: Helixbill http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-8257 Helixbill Thu, 07 Jan 2010 12:40:29 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-8257 Ejaculation and orgasm are 2 separate things. Men normally think they are the same because of their initial experiences of orgasm being accompanied by ejaculation. With some 're-wiring' men can learn the difference and have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms. The reason they can have multiple orgasms is that the 'refractory' period after ejaculation can take hours before a man can ejaculate again. Once a man learns to orgasm without ejaculating there is little or no refractory period and he can orgasm multiple times. Believe me, each orgasm can be as good and any ejaculatory orgasm can be. Retrograde ejaculation is where the semen goes into the bladder instead of out of the penis and is not an abnormal condition for older men, particularly men who have had prostate surgery or other prostate treatments. There are no harmful effects and the only time retrograde ejaculation is of concern is if a couple is trying to conceive a baby. Men: Do a Google search on "male multiple orgasm" and you can enter into a marvelous new world of pleasure for yourself and your partner. Ejaculation and orgasm are 2 separate things. Men normally think they are the same because of their initial experiences of orgasm being accompanied by ejaculation.

With some ‘re-wiring’ men can learn the difference and have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms.

The reason they can have multiple orgasms is that the ‘refractory’ period after ejaculation can take hours before a man can ejaculate again. Once a man learns to orgasm without ejaculating there is little or no refractory period and he can orgasm multiple times.

Believe me, each orgasm can be as good and any ejaculatory orgasm can be.

Retrograde ejaculation is where the semen goes into the bladder instead of out of the penis and is not an abnormal condition for older men, particularly men who have had prostate surgery or other prostate treatments. There are no harmful effects and the only time retrograde ejaculation is of concern is if a couple is trying to conceive a baby.

Men: Do a Google search on “male multiple orgasm” and you can enter into a marvelous new world of pleasure for yourself and your partner.

]]> By: hand man http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-8250 hand man Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:06:43 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-8250 I am a healthy 29 year old fit male. I noticed that during a recent intense hand job that i climaxed but didn't ejaculate. I had post orgasm extreme sensitivity and a shuddering orgasm. I think it was is refered to as a ruined orgasm. She brought me to the brink and then suddenly stopped. I am a healthy 29 year old fit male. I noticed that during a recent intense hand job that i climaxed but didn’t ejaculate. I had post orgasm extreme sensitivity and a shuddering orgasm. I think it was is refered to as a ruined orgasm. She brought me to the brink and then suddenly stopped.

]]> By: Rich http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-5197 Rich Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:03:17 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-5197 Articles about retrograde ej. caused me so much paranoia until I read one that said that the urine must be cloudy, and i was like, YEAH! my urine was clear, which means that I was paranoid for all the wrong reasons, and I in fact was having multiple orgasms via the right technique. But still, that paranoia is pesky though. Articles about retrograde ej. caused me so much paranoia until I read one that said that the urine must be cloudy, and i was like, YEAH! my urine was clear, which means that I was paranoid for all the wrong reasons, and I in fact was having multiple orgasms via the right technique. But still, that paranoia is pesky though.

]]> By: pogs http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-5021 pogs Sun, 20 Sep 2009 09:14:37 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-5021 It's not difficult to orgasm without ejaculation once you've mastered the trick, and I can well believe someone might achieve it accidentally given the right circumstances. In my case the PC muscles -the ones which go into autonomic reflex contraction and power the ejaculation - are surrounded by other groups of muscles: parts of the gluts, those controlling the anus, and - most notably - those extending from the inner thigh. By keeping those fully-tensed as orgasm approaches, the impulses to the PC's can be 'overwhelmed' and suppressed. As long as I can keep them tensed throughout the orgasm (that's the hard bit), the pc's don't kick in. Having disconnected the 2 functions (orgasm and ejaculation) I can then continue (with care!) to a second or third orgasm. Admittedly these are not quite on the same Richter scale as the first, but well worth having nevertheless. For me, because the tensing of the inner thighs is so important, it means I can really only achieve this happy state if I'm in a position where the legs/thighs/bum aren't thrusting too much as orgasm approaches, so any of the partner-on-top positions are favourite or rear-entry, with the partner supplying most of the movement. It’s not difficult to orgasm without ejaculation once you’ve mastered the trick, and I can well believe someone might achieve it accidentally given the right circumstances. In my case the PC muscles -the ones which go into autonomic reflex contraction and power the ejaculation – are surrounded by other groups of muscles: parts of the gluts, those controlling the anus, and – most notably – those extending from the inner thigh. By keeping those fully-tensed as orgasm approaches, the impulses to the PC’s can be ‘overwhelmed’ and suppressed.
As long as I can keep them tensed throughout the orgasm (that’s the hard bit), the pc’s don’t kick in. Having disconnected the 2 functions (orgasm and ejaculation) I can then continue (with care!) to a second or third orgasm. Admittedly these are not quite on the same Richter scale as the first, but well worth having nevertheless.
For me, because the tensing of the inner thighs is so important, it means I can really only achieve this happy state if I’m in a position where the legs/thighs/bum aren’t thrusting too much as orgasm approaches, so any of the partner-on-top positions are favourite or rear-entry, with the partner supplying most of the movement.

]]> By: David aka Mr. Manpower http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-4968 David aka Mr. Manpower Thu, 17 Sep 2009 20:18:58 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-4968 Yeah, he may have performed the male multiple orgasm technique, most likely by accident. Or he could have had a retrograde ejaculation. If he did the male multiple orgasm, he should try and master it. Not only is it a cure for premature ejaculation, but it allows him to maintain his erection after orgasm. He can repeat the technique over and over, have as many orgasms as he wants, and last as long as he wants without losing his erection. Check this out, wrote about it yesterday actually: <a href="http://mistermanpower.net/blog/?p=240" rel="nofollow"><b>"What REALLY works to Overcome Premature Ejaculation: Male Multiple Orgasms and Ejaculation Control Training"</b></a> Pass by and share your thoughts! Yeah, he may have performed the male multiple orgasm technique, most likely by accident. Or he could have had a retrograde ejaculation.

If he did the male multiple orgasm, he should try and master it. Not only is it a cure for premature ejaculation, but it allows him to maintain his erection after orgasm.

He can repeat the technique over and over, have as many orgasms as he wants, and last as long as he wants without losing his erection.

Check this out, wrote about it yesterday actually:

“What REALLY works to Overcome Premature Ejaculation: Male Multiple Orgasms and Ejaculation Control Training”

Pass by and share your thoughts!

]]> By: Texasred http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/dear-em-lo-my-man-orgasmed-without-ejaculating/comment-page-1/#comment-4747 Texasred Fri, 11 Sep 2009 02:58:47 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5390#comment-4747 Right on advice, although "failure" to ejaculate can be for reasons other than the 3 listed. Right on advice, although “failure” to ejaculate can be for reasons other than the 3 listed.

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