Comments on: How to Have a One-Night Stand in 10 Easy Steps

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 05:34:23 +0000

Herpes or no herpes for a chance at a one night stand.

By: Erica

Erica — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 21:56:38 +0000

You had me onboard until I got to the herpes line…. then I remembered why I’m out for 1 night stands every night. (Just a few times a month…)

By: JLWPGH

JLWPGH — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 05:49:47 +0000

What’s a One Night Stand? And can I get ten of them. Did I miss something.

I am so out of it. Can I up size, or get fries with this order.

Custer mad his last stand. I know where there’s a Custard Stand.

I am just starting to date again. You had me at WHAT?

By: Kay

Kay — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 17:33:03 +0000

I find it very hard to orgasm my first time with a guy… so that means one-night stands don’t hold much interest for me, because I won’t have tons of fun. However, flings are a whole different story. A couple weeks with a person can be tons of fun, especially when you both know it’s not going anywhere serious. It takes so much stress out of the equation, and lets you discover new playful sides of yourself, when you have little to lose. And I don’t think wanting to have fun makes anyone a whore, as long as both parties are aware of what’s going to happen, and everything’s safe!

By: Mcveinn

Mcveinn — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 16:28:39 +0000

One night stands most of the times leave a missing something kind of sensation for both the guy and the girl. Specially if it was a good one

By: Caira

Caira — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 11:35:00 +0000

I agree with Wendell I think most guys should know to slow it down when the girl is not there yet..
Question here..How wouls you tell the guy that you’re not there yet when he’s done?
And yes I agree a high-five is a must..he might even give you a booty call as a bonus..haha lol

By: Dex

Dex — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:19:52 +0000

And Reciprocation is Mandatory.

Otherwise, your partner is just a highly-realistic doll with life-like parts.

By: Dex

Dex — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:16:40 +0000

I must be getting old…

I remember the joy of sex as sport, but now I think of it as a team sport.

Even though I don’t currently have a special woman in my life, I’ve not been tempted by opportunities for one-nighters. If a woman interests me, I want more than her body.

I don’t think I’m saying “never,” but she would have to be really hot, highly persuasive, and on her way out of town (or otherwise unavailable for more than the one chance).

By: Kristen

Kristen — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:41:00 +0000

you know, if you want to be kinky with your one night stand. Just dance with somebody at the club and if he seems worth while, just say “Do you wanna come back to my place and fuck” easy as that.

By: Madamoiselle L

Madamoiselle L — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 18:57:04 +0000

Wendell asked: “Tanja, what about the men who become emotionally attached? Do they have this hormone? Has someone checked?”

Yes the hormones involved are oxytocin and prolactin. Both are released by orgasm. Men have a lot of oxytocin, but women have anywhere from 10 to 400 times more prolactin on a daily basis.

Prolactin causes “bonding” which is why one night stands may lead to more heartbreak for women. Both of these hormones are also released by childbirth and breastfeeding, so the mother becomes attached to her child. That’s why women have more prolactin, no prolactin (VERY VERY RARE) not much milk. MOST women who claim they “can’t” breastfeed, however, have completely normal prolactin levels. Men have and make some prolactin, but nowhere near as much as women make. Oxytocin is neccesary for orgasm (as well as the expulsion of the child, and milk ejection) and during and right after orgasm men seem to have about the same amount as women, sometimes more. There used to be an Oxytocin nasal spray which was used for both milk ejection issues and orgasmic difficulties in women. Although it sold well, the drug company pulled it because it didn’t make enough money for them and doctors didn’t know why or when to prescribe it. Sad that these things happen.