Comments on: Ladies Only Poll: Is Emotional or Physical Infidelity Worse? http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/ladies-only-poll-is-emotional-or-physical-infidelity-worse/ Your daily dose of advice, news, and stories about sex, love, and other important stuff. No yoga mat required. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 07:40:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: TS http://www.emandlo.com/2009/09/ladies-only-poll-is-emotional-or-physical-infidelity-worse/comment-page-1/#comment-4755 TS Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:33:17 +0000 http://www.emandlo.com/?p=5336#comment-4755 Anything that puts men and women in separate behavioral camps bothers me, but I do believe a man can have sex with a woman, even over a long period of time, and never develop feelings for her that would threaten his primary relationship. He's not going to leave his main squeeze unless he falls in love with someone else. I doubt there are many men who left their wives because the sex was so good with someone else. Falling in love or at least getting emotionally attached to someone else is much more threatening to a relationship. If my man told me he'd screwed around, I'd be peeved, but might be able to handle it. If he told me he had feelings for someone else, well then, we're in trouble. Anything that puts men and women in separate behavioral camps bothers me, but I do believe a man can have sex with a woman, even over a long period of time, and never develop feelings for her that would threaten his primary relationship. He’s not going to leave his main squeeze unless he falls in love with someone else. I doubt there are many men who left their wives because the sex was so good with someone else. Falling in love or at least getting emotionally attached to someone else is much more threatening to a relationship.

If my man told me he’d screwed around, I’d be peeved, but might be able to handle it. If he told me he had feelings for someone else, well then, we’re in trouble.

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