Comments on: Top 10 Spanking Tips

By: Karen Affeldt

Karen Affeldt — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 19:51:34 +0000

I bought my man a paddle and told him that I’ve been a bad girl. Worked like a charm!

By: janet

janet — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 05:58:31 +0000

Have never written to one of these, but here goes. How do I ask my husband to spank me ? It is many years since I was spanked and as he is interested in anal sex do I just ask him or buy a paddle of something as a christmas gift my original idea was anal sex toys should I include something for a spanking?

By: David aka Mr. Manpower

David aka Mr. Manpower — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:38:12 +0000

Spanking… nothing like administering punishment to my girl when she’s being naughty…

I’m a big fan of building up powerful pleasure until my girl explodes…

By: Karen Affeldt

Karen Affeldt — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:19:23 +0000

I like being spanked by my “daddy” (and sometimes deserve it!) I have even been spanked and scolded during our love making. It keeps me in check and is very erotic. Sometimes I’ll misbehave just for the attention!

By: lexi

lexi — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 20:29:47 +0000

I like to give my man little spanks during sex. Those stingers send him over the edge. Sometimes it makes him cum too soon so I have to be strategic about the timing.

Agreed with Spes on the wooden kitchen spoons and also in the main piece about spanking the “intersection of bum crack and crease”. Yeeow! That’s good stuff!

By: Spes

Spes — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 18:13:15 +0000

I have to stand in defense of kitchenware. I detest any spanking with a hand, flogger, paddle, or (with the exception of a riding crop) just about anything specifically made for spanking purposes. However, my favorite bedroom accessory, besides lube and vibrator, is a wooden or plastic spoon from the kitchen. They can create some of the best sensations and leave some of the prettiest marks (nice little ovals with a dark purple ring surrounding a pale center circle). Plus because they’re easy to control, narrow, and light they can be to used on the breasts as well and inner thighs, too. And they’re a great way to keep one’s mind on sex when doing something as mundane as cooking dinner.
Wow. I think I need to go find my love, now…

By: Leigh Olivia

Leigh Olivia — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 16:14:09 +0000

the first kinky community i was involved with had a name (i’m sure it wasn’t original to this group though) for the spatula/slipper/etc family of toys: pervertibles. home depot is a veritable kinky goldmine (see also pet shops, drug stores and chef central).

By: Jocelyn

Jocelyn — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:01:25 +0000

lol id feel too silly using a spatula, and would wind up making crack and behind jokes =]]

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:18:58 +0000

Just make sure it’s not the textured side of the ping pong paddle. Rubber rug burn is bad.