I actually imagine that the person I’m most attracted to is watching me…fantasizing about the physical act of sex with someone is too distracting for me!
ALL of the above! Depends on the mood of the moment, whether I’m attracted to someone specific, whether I’ve recently had great sex with someone, whether Russel Crowe was on TV that day…
all of the above…an aquaintance and an ex partner together…3ways…certain acts with any number of mental sex partners…certain fetishes that I dig that include a partner but not always. This is so not a hard and fast question…too many variables…just like sex!
I find my fantasies evolve, depending on what I’m currently obsessed with – at the moment it’s DP, before that was rough-n-ready anal… often it’s an extension of something I’m building up to try with my partner.
When I fantasize it’s normally has to do with my day. This hottie bumped into me at the coffee shop, my friend let his towel drop when getting out of the shower, I bent over and someone spanks me, or maybe a hug lasts a few seconds longer then it should.
Is “a fictional character” just a random lover you made up on the spot, or, like, Jack Sparrow or Siruis Black or someone from literature or film?
MMMM, my new “not really alive” character is “Daryl Van Horn” on Eastwick. Yum. My Man keeps telling me “What’s wrong with you? He’s the Devil.” No, he isn’t he’s just……misunderstood. And hot. Damn.
ML – I totally get the Daryl van Horn thing, you can’t beat a bad boy.. tho it took my BF half an hour and an IMBD look up to convince me that was the same guy as in Due South!
Also he reminds me of my BF in appearance, sexiness and a general air of self assurance (and gorgeous voice) way, rather than being the devil obviously which kind of adds to it, i seem to have a type.. ;0)
I generally think about celebs or attractive people around me. I worry though as I’m a married woman, I love my Hubby dearly but I can’t say I have ever thought about him when masturbating – is this wrong? I have done it during sex too, imagined someone else.
To many my hubby is an attractive man and I do think him attractive . Thoughts?
October 2nd, 2009 at 2:00 am
I actually imagine that the person I’m most attracted to is watching me…fantasizing about the physical act of sex with someone is too distracting for me!
October 2nd, 2009 at 7:39 am
You should have included a ‘none of the above’ option…some people fantasize about specific acts or fetishes or body parts instead of people.
October 2nd, 2009 at 10:13 am
ALL of the above! Depends on the mood of the moment, whether I’m attracted to someone specific, whether I’ve recently had great sex with someone, whether Russel Crowe was on TV that day…
October 2nd, 2009 at 5:47 pm
I mostly just concentrate, honestly. If I fantasize it’s almost exclusively about my partner…
But mainly I just think about getting there!
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:56 am
I was going to say I think this is missing the “someone I have a massive crush on” category, but I guess that falls under friend/aquaintance?
October 3rd, 2009 at 8:47 am
Rachel: exactly, yes.
October 5th, 2009 at 4:54 pm
all of the above…an aquaintance and an ex partner together…3ways…certain acts with any number of mental sex partners…certain fetishes that I dig that include a partner but not always. This is so not a hard and fast question…too many variables…just like sex!
October 6th, 2009 at 2:11 am
I find my fantasies evolve, depending on what I’m currently obsessed with – at the moment it’s DP, before that was rough-n-ready anal… often it’s an extension of something I’m building up to try with my partner.
November 9th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
When I fantasize it’s normally has to do with my day. This hottie bumped into me at the coffee shop, my friend let his towel drop when getting out of the shower, I bent over and someone spanks me, or maybe a hug lasts a few seconds longer then it should.
December 5th, 2009 at 10:31 am
Is “a fictional character” just a random lover you made up on the spot, or, like, Jack Sparrow or Siruis Black or someone from literature or film?
MMMM, my new “not really alive” character is “Daryl Van Horn” on Eastwick. Yum. My Man keeps telling me “What’s wrong with you? He’s the Devil.” No, he isn’t he’s just……misunderstood. And hot. Damn.
December 5th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
ML – I totally get the Daryl van Horn thing, you can’t beat a bad boy..
tho it took my BF half an hour and an IMBD look up to convince me that was the same guy as in Due South!
December 5th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
His voice alone could melt butter…….among some other things.
December 6th, 2009 at 4:32 am
Also he reminds me of my BF
in appearance, sexiness and a general air of self assurance (and gorgeous voice) way, rather than being the devil obviously
which kind of adds to it, i seem to have a type.. ;0)
December 8th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Ah, Bettyboo, we gotta love them bad boys, don’t we? *sigh*
August 28th, 2010 at 1:17 pm
I generally think about celebs or attractive people around me. I worry though as I’m a married woman, I love my Hubby dearly but I can’t say I have ever thought about him when masturbating – is this wrong? I have done it during sex too, imagined someone else.
To many my hubby is an attractive man and I do think him attractive . Thoughts?