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	<title>Comments on: Poll: Do You Ask About Belt Notches Before Sex?</title>
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		<title>By: Cyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I ask about STDs, but never about the number of partners.  Things just get competitive or feelings get hurt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I ask about STDs, but never about the number of partners.  Things just get competitive or feelings get hurt.</p>
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		<title>By: Madamoiselle L</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madamoiselle L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:08:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nope, non-latex. I&#039;m allergic to latex. Anaphylactic shock is a definite for me, I&#039;ll take my chances on NOT suffocating to death with polyisoprene or other synthetics.

Newer studies have shown, that polyisoprene and other non-latex condoms are just as effective against pregnancy and when properly used, as effective as latex against STDs. Lubing the inside and the outside prevents breakage, and the &quot;pores&quot; are not as accommodating to virus and bacteria as earlier suspected. 

They don&#039;t have that &quot;Latex Funk&quot; either....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nope, non-latex. I&#8217;m allergic to latex. Anaphylactic shock is a definite for me, I&#8217;ll take my chances on NOT suffocating to death with polyisoprene or other synthetics.</p>
<p>Newer studies have shown, that polyisoprene and other non-latex condoms are just as effective against pregnancy and when properly used, as effective as latex against STDs. Lubing the inside and the outside prevents breakage, and the &#8220;pores&#8221; are not as accommodating to virus and bacteria as earlier suspected. </p>
<p>They don&#8217;t have that &#8220;Latex Funk&#8221; either&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather Frost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather Frost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hope you actually mean bring your own LATEX condoms since those are the best for protecting against pregnancy, STIs, and HIV/AIDS.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope you actually mean bring your own LATEX condoms since those are the best for protecting against pregnancy, STIs, and HIV/AIDS.</p>
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		<title>By: Madamoiselle L</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madamoiselle L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Acht. My ramblin&#039; days were in the late 70s to early 80s, and we didn&#039;t THINK to ask. (The only man I ever did ask was my first, and the man who ended up being my eventual &quot;forever-Man.&quot; Only because I was a virgin and wanted to know if HE was, he wasn&#039;t.) 

When I think that the only thing we THOUGHT we had to worry about was stuff you could cure with a few days of Penicillin.....until herpes reared it&#039;s ugly multi beaded head. And even then, it ain&#039;t gonna kill you. 

I remember being in college and hearing about the &quot;Gay Plague&quot; and not knowing much about it. (I remember going to Gay Bars with a Gay friend and men greeting each other with &quot;Where&#039;s the Beef?&quot; Ah, the 80s.....and his not allowing me to even use the &quot;Ladies Room&quot; in those bars, due to unfettered goings on in those rooms. Hole in the Stall Divider Days.) 

Condoms were not in very common usage back then (early to mid 80s) A friend had a one night stand with a young man, who identified as &quot;Bi-Curious&quot; (only we called it something else back then) and she got a bacterial infection afterward and was laughing and making JOKES &quot;Oh no, I have the Plague.&quot; (I am pretty sure she is HIV negative at this point.)  

If only more people had taken it seriously. We were in college, we were horny, and, shit if we just didn&#039;t IMAGINE what could be brought home by NOT asking or thinking. 

I pray I never have to date again. UG. But if I did I certainly would ask, not to mention bring my own non-latex condoms....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Acht. My ramblin&#8217; days were in the late 70s to early 80s, and we didn&#8217;t THINK to ask. (The only man I ever did ask was my first, and the man who ended up being my eventual &#8220;forever-Man.&#8221; Only because I was a virgin and wanted to know if HE was, he wasn&#8217;t.) </p>
<p>When I think that the only thing we THOUGHT we had to worry about was stuff you could cure with a few days of Penicillin&#8230;..until herpes reared it&#8217;s ugly multi beaded head. And even then, it ain&#8217;t gonna kill you. </p>
<p>I remember being in college and hearing about the &#8220;Gay Plague&#8221; and not knowing much about it. (I remember going to Gay Bars with a Gay friend and men greeting each other with &#8220;Where&#8217;s the Beef?&#8221; Ah, the 80s&#8230;..and his not allowing me to even use the &#8220;Ladies Room&#8221; in those bars, due to unfettered goings on in those rooms. Hole in the Stall Divider Days.) </p>
<p>Condoms were not in very common usage back then (early to mid 80s) A friend had a one night stand with a young man, who identified as &#8220;Bi-Curious&#8221; (only we called it something else back then) and she got a bacterial infection afterward and was laughing and making JOKES &#8220;Oh no, I have the Plague.&#8221; (I am pretty sure she is HIV negative at this point.)  </p>
<p>If only more people had taken it seriously. We were in college, we were horny, and, shit if we just didn&#8217;t IMAGINE what could be brought home by NOT asking or thinking. </p>
<p>I pray I never have to date again. UG. But if I did I certainly would ask, not to mention bring my own non-latex condoms&#8230;.</p>
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