Jingle Balls!

Smartballs by Fun Factory That warm, fuzzy feeling you get from the holiday season can be experienced any time of year really (at least by the ladies) thanks to Smartballs, vaginal balls-within-balls that rotate fast and steadily with pelvic movement to help improve PC muscle strength and sensitivity — the lazy way of doing your […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Sex-Related New Year’s Resolutions

Who said that a new year’s resolution had to involve giving up something you enjoy? Rehab is for quitters! Here’s a novel idea: take on some booty-related resolutions instead. We’ve compiled two lists of resolutions, depending on whether you’re single or loved-up. Learn them, live them, love them… If you’re in a LTR (or monogamish)… No […]

Merry Christmas!

photo by plindberg We hope you have a great Christmas Day and nice long weekend off! Here’s hoping there’s something saucy and battery-operated in your stocking…or at least a nice new pair of undies. Our post load will be light the next few days, but we’ll be back with our regularly scheduled program on Monday. […]

Blog Snog: The Naughties, Hanukkah Boyfs, and Holiday Blasphemy

photo by vsmoothe Goodvibes takes your most treasured childhood holiday icons and makes them  sex related. Wrong. Funny, but wrong. How did we get to the end of another decade already? The Frisky lists the top ten sex trends of the naughties (and we promise never to use that term on this site again). LemonDrop examines […]

Pop Culture
Sundance Film Festival’s Top 10 Lessons in Love

The movies are a great place to learn about life, including your love life. Let the characters in these ten Sundance Festival films make the big dating and mating mistakes so you don’t have to: Once: Sometimes the best love affairs are the ones you never have (i.e. the fantasy is often better than the […]

How To
Top 10 Skills You (Should Have) Learned from Us in 2009

photo by sinabeet Ladies and gentlemen, have you been taking notes? We didn’t think so. Well, you’re in luck, because we have a very organized archive and you can find all our how-to columns at the click of a link. If you were student of the year and showed up to every single day, here […]

Naked News: A Sex-Positive Streep, a Fallen Jonas Bro & Sad Pattinson Fans

scene from new movie “It’s Complicated” Meryl Streep, our new hero, on sex scenes between older people: “”The whole idea that you have to look a certain way and be a certain age to earn love is ridiculous. We love what we love. It doesn’t matter what shape it is. It’s thrilling to see real […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is a Striptease a Good Last-Minute Gift?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the question, “If your partner gave you a serious striptease with a serious striptease face and cheesy music, would it really be the best present ever or would it be kinda weird and uncomfortable?”: Straight Single Guy (Max): A serious striptease requires two things. […]

How To
10 Worst Things to Say at Your Partner’s Family Holiday Dinner

photo by Average Jane Forget charades, let’s debate the Stupak Amendment! So what made you guys decide not to circumcise your son? No Brussels sprouts for me, thanks — we’re planning on anal tonight and I don’t want to be gassy. Hoo-boy, anyone got a box of matches I could borrow for the bathroom? I […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: An HIV+ Boyfriend in Target

photo by phigonggoi Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: My boyfriend and I have been on rocky ground lately and I can’t seem to break through the tension. There’s […]