Dear Em & Lo,
I have a male friend whose company I enjoy very much (I’ve known him for¬†about 3 months). He’s very much attracted to me (or he just wants sex) and¬†we hang out when we can and talk on the phone almost everyday. We are both¬†single at the moment and he’s tried several times to initiate sex and said¬†on numerous occasions that he would like to sleep with me. I don’t believe¬†in casual sex (feel free to judge). I am attracted to him and would have considered sex if I thought there was a possibility of a long-term¬†relationship. At the moment I don’t see anything of the sort, even though¬†he likes me, it seems to me like he is weighing his options. Since I am¬†still single and find myself engaging his company more often, what should¬†be my best course of action?
– Holding Out