No one sees our “flaws” more than ourselves. My advice to men: stop measuring yourselves, big or small — you are a man, and just in being a man are wonderful in yourselves and highly valued by women. Just love us. That’s it. Don’t worry about how big — we look to the man who loves us as the only man in the universe, the man who loves me I have seen as no other. No one other man can compare. To women: Love your man — he is your foundation stone. Love him, and he would protect you even if it means he must lay down his life for you. Men feel hurt and rejection as you do. Do not hurt your man, they are a great gift to us, and it is an honor to be loved by a man. Remember, we are meant to build each other up, not tear each other down. Period.
Have passion. Look at the word itself: passion is described as a compelling, driving emotion. It is something that just wells up deep inside you that drives you forward. Passion actually defines the way you act. Passion will actually cause your heart to go after certain things. Your passions will even influence the way you talk — out of the overflow of our hearts, our mouths speak. If she says cruel things about your size, sit back and see if her words define her intentions. She is not for you. She is all about herself. And she is not ready to be in a loving relationship. It is not your fault, it is a fail within herself that she must work out on her own. More often than not, misery loves company. Find a sound mentally stable female to be with.
From here on out, if you’ve been hurt (and we all have), learn to break away from the power of your past. End the cycle now. When we have passion in our hearts they are no longer made of stone, but of flesh! And if this indwells in your life, all of a sudden being devoted truly is not a chore or something to fear, but you are set free! So ask yourself, what beats in the heart of your relationships? What is in your heart? Because the honest truth is, you will never take anyone farther than you have gone yourself. If there is no passion, no love, no trust — hey, if you’re not willing to explore and open up your heart, you will only lead your lover as far as you’re willing to go. Your passions will set the tone, and take your people with you.