Comment of the Week: When HE Puts Out Too Soon by Em & Lo | 1 Chime in! photo by e.esders Just to prove that it’s not only women who fall hard on a first date, get swept up by their libido, and never hear from said date again… I met this beautiful gal on a dating website. We had a second date, had a great time, spent the entire day together. At the end of the evening we ended up at her home, and one thing lead to another… I thought we both had a great time and I was totally interested in seeing her again — then, the next morning, she sent me a “Dear John” letter. So obviously in this case, it was way too soon. I knew in my head this might happen, but it still hurts when it does. Live and learn I guess. — Steve, commenting on “Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer?” Casual Sex,Dating,Men vs. Women SHARE THIS | 1 Chime in!