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Dear Dr. Vanessa: My G-Spot Hurts

Thu, Jul 8, 2010

Advice, What's Up Doc?

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Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here.

When I have sexual intercourse with my boyfriend, whenever he hits my G-spot it feels good but it hurts far more than it pleasures. Is it suppose to hurt so much? It happens every time and usually post love making I will have a kind of sharp pain in my lower abdomen, and I was just wondering if something is wrong with me to experience this pain from G-spot stimulation. And it has always hurt in past sexual encounters with past boyfriends that have hit my g-spot.

Some women do report that their G spots are very sensitive and cause discomfort or pain when they are stimulated directly.  A change in position during vaginal intercourse may solve the problem.  In some positions, the penis is less likely to directly press on the G spot.

For readers who may be wondering what the G spot is, it is located within the vagina, about one to two inches from the vaginal opening.¬† It is on the anterior vaginal wall of the vagina.¬† Think of the vagina as a tube.¬† The anterior vaginal wall of the vagina is the top portion of the vagina on the same side as a woman‚Äôs belly button.¬† (The bottom part or posterior part of the vagina is on the same side as her rectum.)¬† The G spot contains spongy tissue that may feel rougher than other areas of the vagina.¬† The area is usually bean-shaped and about the size of a quarter.¬† ‚ÄúHitting the G spot‚ÄĚ during penile vaginal intercourse or through masturbation or ‚Äúfingering‚ÄĚ your female partner can result in intensely satisfying orgasms.

Now back to the question: a very sensitive G spot is not the only possible cause.  It is also possible that the pain you feel after intercourse is unrelated to the pain you feel during intercourse.

There are many causes of pain before, during, or after sexual intercourse.  Sometimes the cause is emotional.  It could be fear, anxiety, or a previous traumatic experience during sexual intercourse.  Sometimes pain is caused when a woman is not aroused enough or is not lubricated enough.  And sometimes the cause is from an infection or other problem with the internal reproductive organs.  This could be a sexually transmitted infection or a non- sexually transmitted condition such as endometriosis, polycystic ovary syndrome, a tilted uterus, or fibroids.

The best way to find out what is causing pain is to consult your health care provider.  Have a conversation about the pain you feel during intercourse and the pain you feel after.  Your provider may want to give you a physical exam to see if there is a physical condition that could be causing one or the other or both.

No one should experience pain as a regular part of sexual activity.  As always, anyone who finds sex to be consistently painful should definitely check with a doctor or nurse.

Best wishes for your good sexual health,

Vanessa
Planned Parenthood

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One Response to “Dear Dr. Vanessa: My G-Spot Hurts”

  1. Beth Says:

    I guess this is an old entry, but I wanted to respond anyway. It’s actually possible you think he’s hitting your g-spot, but that he’s hitting your cervix. If you’re feeling sore in your abdomen, that’s what it sounds like to me. Because I’ve had that happen LOTS of times.

    You should ask him not to thrust so hard/fast. A lot of men sort of jackhammer a bit. Try a slower rocking motion, with more shallow thrusting. His penis doesn’t need to go all the way to your cervix in order for him to have an orgasm.


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