Your Call: When Your Partner's Fantasies Are Seriously Disturbing…

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We’ve said before that one’s fantasy life need not be impeded by fears, be limited by ethics, or even abide by the laws of physics. But then we read a comment like the one from icequeenkjd in response to the post “Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About When They Fantasize?” and that whole philosophy comes crumbling down:

I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of 2 years searched out step-dad/step-daughter porn on the internet.  I have two beautiful daughters, one is nine and the other is 13.  I have since moved out and I am completely crushed.  Any thoughts?

What do you think? Did she do the right thing by moving out? Any words of comfort and support you can provide?


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21 Comments on "Your Call: When Your Partner's Fantasies Are Seriously Disturbing…"


10 months 5 days ago

I’m sorry that your man had to be such a loser. You totally did the right thing. Well done for being strong and not sweeping it under the carpet. So many people ignore warning signs and complain too late when damage is done.
I know friends and relatives abused by their dads, uncles and grand fathers.
Looking at this online is one sick thing and I wouldn’t chance my children’s safety for any mans mistakes. You are their protector so protect at all costs.

Aly
2 years 4 months ago

This chick overreacted. Like other people said, if he watches slasher films it doesn’t make him a killer. Sexual fantasies are generally things people just think about or role play, but they don’t REALLY want to do them. My fiancé and I are into all sorts of things but they stay between us. We would never do them with anyone else. And I have a child, but I trust him. Not every kinky man is a perv. Just like not every woman who fantasizes about being raped is a slut.

Most Mommy/Daddy fantasies are just about being loved and nurtered. Most incest fantasies are just about the taboo. The same with Teacher/Priest/Cop/etc. Rape/gangbang/bondage fantasies are about being helpless. Nothing’s hotter for a woman than being helpless and struggl ing while some unknown man ravages you 😉

Will
3 years 5 months ago

This is why you should never date women who have children. Too much drama, and too many potential landmines.

Shewolf68
4 years 8 months ago

Nice to see you understand the deeper concern for young children’s well being Jack!

How obtuse and shallow of you!

Jack Jones
4 years 8 months ago

What if she discovered that her partner was into watching violent films for (gasp!) entertainment. War films? Crime dramas? Murder mystery? Would she be worried that her partners was a murderer?