Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri:
I keep dreaming that my fiancé has a hard-on while he is in public and when confronted by me it seems like he is hiding it from me. Don’t know why I dream that because we have a great sex life.
Lauri: The fact that you keep dreaming this means it’s about something that is on your mind quite a bit lately… and whatever it is, it’s not necessarily your fiancé’s stiffy! You see, genitalia in dreams is rarely about our little bits and pieces at all. Instead it is more about the male or female energy it — or they — represents. So whenever your fiancé’s in full salute in a dream, it may in fact be more about his assertiveness, or “firmness” in waking life.
He’s also hiding it from you in the dream, which is interesting. Are you discovering that he is more stern or more of a hard-ass now than he was in the beginning? Is he revealing “a part of himself” lately that you didn’t know was there? Or has he been “standing up” for himself in some way that you are only just now discovering? Perhaps there is something he gets “excited” about that he’s afraid you’ll make fun of him for if you knew. Or perhaps he has been behaving differently in public with you than he does in private.
Whatever the case, it’s not likely about sex, but rather something you feel he doesn’t want you to know. Perhaps it’s time for a waking life discussion rather than confrontation. Your dream seems to be showing you that if you come at him with blame, you aren’t going to get anywhere.
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