SEXUALITY DOES NOT DETERMINE INTEGRITY. PERIOD. And since faithfulness has it roots in integrity, sexuality doesnâ€™t determine it any more than race, hair color, height, gender, etc. Each individual makes a CONSCIOUS decision as to whether or not they are going to be faithful.
Iâ€™m straight and married to a bi-sexual, and I â€śhangâ€ť just fine. Also if a person has no interest in being faithful, then whatever the sexuality of their partner is, itâ€™s not going to have any bearing on whether or not they (the bi-sexual) is going to be faithful. Straights cheat on straights, gays on gays, biâ€™s on biâ€™s, straights on biâ€™s, biâ€™s on straights, gays on biâ€™s, etc. However, there are also faithful straights, gays, and biâ€™s, and they donâ€™t all have partners of the same orientation.
Being faithful is right along the same lines as being honest, and Iâ€™d hate to think anyone believes all biâ€™s are liars, or all gays or liars, or all straights are liars. Weâ€™re all adults here, shouldnâ€™t we be past the whole stereotyping bs by now? Havenâ€™t we learned better?
– Spes, responding to the post “Your Call: I Can’t Handle My Boyfriend’s Bisexuality”