Itâ€™s all about attraction/what you like/donâ€™t like. Nobody is expecting everyone to like things one way or another, and no one is telling anyone theyâ€™re wrong for liking what they do. We all just have different types of experiences and preferences of our own. I think we can all confidently say that everyone here agrees that some form of communication respecting both partnersâ€™ desires must take place before facials, but why limit it to facials? Donâ€™t we feel that way about any sexual act, or non-sexual act, for that matter? Good communication is going to happen in ways that are compatible with the personalities present, which means itâ€™s going to be different for everyone, but it should happen. That is all.