Here are the steps you have to follow, as told to me by my local District Attorney:
- Immediately go to your local precinct and file a report of harassment. This gets the paper trail to the law. Bring as many printouts as you have, but donâ€™t worry about bringing EVERYTHING from 4 years of stalking/slander. Just whatever youâ€™ve got handy.
- Call your nearest FBI office and tell them whatâ€™s going on. They will ask for his name and such. They may refer you to the FBI Cyber Crime unit, which knows how to handle internet stalking.
- Sign up for a phone service called â€śTrapCallâ€ť. I have it, and for about $5/month, I can unblock private numbers. There is a loophole where doing this is legal. The service allows you to re-route a blocked call to an 800 number, and since 800 numbers have the right to unblock private callsâ€¦ it bounces it back to your phone, and voila! His actual number will show up in your missed calls. Take a photo!
- Call an attorney who deals with stalking/harassment/slander and libel. What your ex is doing to you is a crime, donâ€™t forget it.
Best of luck, and remember, the longer you sit back and wait, the greater chance of him finally crossing the line someday. You donâ€™t want it to get to that point. Legal action *now* is a great preventative measure for peace of mind and safety later.