We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below:
Dear Em & Lo,
I’ve been married to my husband for 9 years and we have three kids. I’m currently nursing our 7 month old. I really don’t enjoy sex, I even dread it. It’s not painful or anything, but it’s just really hard for me to get into it and my husband doesn’t like it unless I am into it. He can’t just be happy having a “quickie” because he thinks it’s too much like business. Anyway, we were both virgins when we got married, so we are each other’s only partners. I need help, because we are both very frustrated.
— Sex Sucks
What should SS do?