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Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?

Tue, Jul 26, 2011

Advice, Wise Guys

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.

anonymous_suitStraight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.” The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.

I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.

Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.

joel_derfner_100Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Ew.

Our “wise guys” are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. David Grossman recently graduated from Stony Brook University in New York; this week’s Gay Married Guy is Joel Derfner, author of Swish; and our Straight Married Guy is Figleaf, the guy behind RealAdultSex.com. To ask the guys your own question, click here.

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56 Responses to “Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?”

  1. roxygirl Says:

    my BF loves when i squirt (more like a gush really) i am 38 and had only done this once before with a guy i was dating. I was so embarrassed…at first i thought i had no bladder control. Last night my boyfriend was so turned on by this!! i find it more of a mess than a turn on, but the g-spot orgasm is AMAZING, and it makes it special because my guy loves it so much. :) – now i am just trying to learn how to actually control it!

  2. Anonymous Says:

    I think that a Lady ejaculating is wonderful. It is not only a unique and special expression of the Goddess “Within” but it is also, a means to for the Lady to experience, heightened, full-body-pleasure!

    Ps…I am so glad that women can feel good about exploring, experimenting, and discovering new ways of sharing their sexuality.

    There is a book that is called: The Masseur by author John M. Martin that has two steamy scenes, with a Lady named SuSan, who ejaculates all over the masseur’s face and neck.

    Pss…There is a 11 page free preview of the book at: LuLu . c o m

  3. litsa Says:

    Hey all
    I’m female and during my first orgasms which were on my own I always ejaculated, at the time I didn’t really know a great deal about it, after a while it became less common and would only happen on my 4/5th multiple orgasm, I didn’t think it could happen during sex because I didn’t really enjoy sex much,
    I had completely forgot about it and hadn’t had an ejaculation for years when whilst having sex on a one time off with an ex partner I was ontop when I ejaculated,
    he’d never known that it happened and accused me of urinating on him lol I was so confused that I actually started to believe that maybe that’s what it was

    my new partner however is quite experienced and he lasts a long time but I would normally stop the sex and say that I felt like I needed to go the bathroom, when going to the bathroom I didn’t actually need to pee
    he realised what was going on and talked to me about whether I had ejaculated before because he’d read somewhere that it felt like you needed to go the bathroom during sex, I told him that I hadn’t done it in a long time but I had done it
    he got really excited about it, he said that he loved them but no one he had been with had ever been able to do it, he spent a good bit of time telling me about how to make it easier to happen and how bad he wanted to see it
    when we finally got down to actually doing it I think he enjoyed it more than I did :)
    I guess it depends on the guy when it comes to it but it is rather messy, messier than the males ejaculation,
    I think if you compare it to how a girl would feel if a guy ejaculated on her then there would be some girls that say hell no and some girls that don’t mind

  4. nikki Says:

    I was told about squirtin,bt nva experienced it,I hav seen it happen in porn movies,bt I found it a bit embarrasing,bt wen I realised dat he was ok wid it,I seem 2 b ok wid wid it evry tim he entered me tink I squirtd ova 25 times,some we’re forceful some we’re a smal stream,I jus wana here 4rm my partner how he feels.

  5. nikki Says:

    Sori guys,bt wen I dated a mor mature guy wo had me squirtn den I realised wat it was,

  6. SORFE Says:

    I too have studied the art and science of squirting (female ejaculation) and decided to share my advice and techniques (as well as others) at http://www.squirtingorfemaleejaculation.com

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