photo of Old Faithful by Chuck Martin
Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.
Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.” The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.
I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.
Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.
Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Ew.
Our “wise guys” are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. David Grossman recently graduated from Stony Brook University in New York; this week’s Gay Married Guy is Joel Derfner, author of Swish; and our Straight Married Guy is Figleaf, the guy behind RealAdultSex.com. To ask the guys your own question, click here.
November 4th, 2012 at 11:50 am
my BF loves when i squirt (more like a gush really) i am 38 and had only done this once before with a guy i was dating. I was so embarrassed…at first i thought i had no bladder control. Last night my boyfriend was so turned on by this!! i find it more of a mess than a turn on, but the g-spot orgasm is AMAZING, and it makes it special because my guy loves it so much.
– now i am just trying to learn how to actually control it!
November 30th, 2012 at 4:24 pm
I think that a Lady ejaculating is wonderful. It is not only a unique and special expression of the Goddess “Within” but it is also, a means to for the Lady to experience, heightened, full-body-pleasure!
Ps…I am so glad that women can feel good about exploring, experimenting, and discovering new ways of sharing their sexuality.
There is a book that is called: The Masseur by author John M. Martin that has two steamy scenes, with a Lady named SuSan, who ejaculates all over the masseur’s face and neck.
Pss…There is a 11 page free preview of the book at: LuLu . c o m