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Dream Interpretation: I Dreamed a Threesome, Will It Happen in Real Life?

Tue, Nov 29, 2011

Advice, Dream Interpretation

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Last night I had a dream about a threesome. In the dream was myself (a man), my fiancĂ©e, and a girl I know. The other girl is one that I met through an online video game last year and have since become good friends with. She is even coming to our wedding. I have yet to meet her in person but have seen pictures of her and spoken to her on the phone and through the Internet. Also, she is married. And while she is cute, I have never had thoughts of her like this before. However, that doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t be open to it.

My fiancĂ©e is open to the idea of a threesome and admits to being bi-curious and is turned on by certain women. She isn’t particularly friends with the other girl, as she isn’t a gamer, but they have spoken on occasion. My fiancĂ©e is excited to meet her at our wedding.

My fiancée and I have a great sex life and often talk dirty while in the process. We have been three states apart for three days now. In the dream, we were all getting equal attention and pleasure from each other. What exactly does this dream mean?

Lauri: I’d love to tell you that it means it’s about time for a wild and naughty threesome so have at it… but I can’t. A threesome is not the best way to start a marriage and, in addition, the proposal of it might completely freak this married friend of yours out. Keep in mind, dreams are symbolic and should not be taken literally.

You mentioned that you had this dream after being three states apart from your fiancĂ©e for three days. The amount of three was clearly on your mind so that is what probably triggered the threesome dream. Sex in a dream is usually about what you need or desire to incorporate into your life or into your self. Therefore your friend represents that which you need or desire. She’s a gamer whereas your fiancĂ©e is not. If she were, do you feel your relationship would be perfectly balanced, just as everyone was getting equal attention in the dream? Or it could be your hope that your friend and your fiancĂ©e really hit it off.

You may also want to look at what game it is you play with this friend. The message could be in the game. Look at the characters, the strategy, even the name of the game and see if any of that clicks as to being something you want or need to incorporate into your life or your self. Also, ask yourself if there were any “head games” going on with you and your fiancĂ©e at the time of this dream. Let us know if you make the connection and in the meantime… Mazel Tov!!

Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. Anonymity guaranteed! Don’t forget: you can get access to Lauri’s Instant Dream Decoding Dictionary on her site. And check out Lauri’s new book Dream On It, available everywhere!

 

3 Responses to “Dream Interpretation: I Dreamed a Threesome, Will It Happen in Real Life?”

  1. harold Says:

    I’m happily engaged and I’m having dreams about treesomes almost every night and my fiance and I are 500 miles apart why am I dreaming this

  2. harold Says:

    What should I do about my dreams

  3. ben Says:

    I had this dream of my wife and I at a party and we were having a threesome. I told her no oral sex on the other guy. As we are going I notice she is giving him oral sex. Angered at whats going I end up beating this guy profusely. Any ideas on what this means??


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