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So, I have been having a casual sexual realtionship with this guy. ¬†I really like hanging out with him but neither of us are looking for a relationship so it’s basically just friends with benefits. ¬†We see each other more or less once a week. ¬†Recently, I have had some health issues (a cyst) that have prevented me from having sex. ¬†All told, I’ll probably be out of the saddle for about 3 weeks total. ¬†Well, I’ve been kind of making excuses about why I can’t have sex with this guy, (I have my period, I’m sick, etc) but he is starting to think I’m avoiding him. ¬†I’m just embaressed to tell him about this gross cyst but I don’t know what to tell him. How much info should I give him? ¬†I don’t want him to be turned off by TMI but also don’t want him to think I’m blowing him off! ¬†Help!