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Comment of the Week: How I Learned to Enjoy Giving Blowjobs

Wed, Sep 5, 2012

Comment of the Week, Confessions

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Reader Female said the following in response to our oldie-but-goodie post, “Wise Guys: What Makes a Great BJ?”

I never did blowjobs, I found them to be degrading to women, especially when referred to as “gobbies” — I suppose it’s that image of the town bikes handing them out at parties that turned me off them. However, lately I have acquired myself a boyfriend who I am extremely fond of and my perception of them changed. I find it enjoyable to make him feel good.

I used my lips pretty much all over his body which drove him crazy, he was having trouble controlling himself and wanted to do things to me — however, I was having such a good time pleasing him, I had to tie him up and gag him with a scarf haha. This added a greater element of enjoyment to the situation, and it made me feel like I wasn’t some sex object to him and that I had some control. I really got into it, switching around from his penis to around his body and back to his penis to keep it exciting.

The whole time he was panting, clenching his jaw and almost in tears when I teased. He came, which was apparently not a common occurrence without sex. He told me it’s the best he has expirenced, not sure if thats’ a confidence booster or a truth, but I do think it was the fact I was enjoying it, role-playing and getting into it.

It was also good on his part to show enjoyment, it helped me feel confident and want to keep going. The location I found was important too — he was sitting on a low couch lying back, so I could see his face most of the time, it created more of a connection and I never felt like the submissive “pornstar.”

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