Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ä¶except when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:
I had a dream I was having oral sex with a female but don’t know the face. My husband was there and watching. What does that mean?
Lauri:¬† Let’s get the obvious out of the way first: Are you and hubby discussing the idea of bringing another woman into the bedroom? If so, then your dreaming mind is providing you dress rehearsal by putting you in that very real scenario, so that you you experience it and therefore decide if this is for you or not.
If not, then you might find it interesting to know that oral sex in a dream can usually be connected to intimate conversation in waking life. Anytime the events in your dream involve your mouth, the first thing you wanna do is look at the way you have been communicating lately. Your oral partner in the dream can be a big clue! Yours was an unfamiliar female. Since she isn’t an actual person you know, then she is likely to represent general female attributes: sensitivity, creativity, nurturing instincts, etc.¬†At the time of this dream, do you recall having an emotional, deep or caring conversation with anyone? Ask Lauri to
Interpret Your Dream!Or have you been working on “coming” (ahem) across as more caring or sensitive?
Hubby was watching, so that’s a good indication the conversation could have been with him or it could be that he encourages you to communicate this way… unless his watching creeped you out or made you feel pressured in the dream, in which case you may feel he is very judgmental of the way you communicate in real life. So which of the above is it? Inquiring Em & Lo readers want to know!
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