Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.” If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place:
Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding this advice posting! Â Em and Lo, you got people going with this.
OK, I’m a guy and very small downstairs, and I think the original advice is sound, and the comments open, honest, and informative. Â For women who want: Â (1) an exclusive/monagamous sexual relationship; (2) satisfying sex as an important part of that relationship; and (3) a feeling of being stretched and filled by a large natural penis (not a dildo, vibrator, or extender sleeve) is essential to satisfying sex, I can understand that. Â Just tell the guy. Â If he’s very small, as I am, he should find a playful way to tell a woman who has become a romantic interest before they ever get to the point of stripping each other for sex in full-passion mode. Â It can be a bit awkward, but there are lots of ways to do it: hints, asking about likes and dislikes in bed. Â The only time a guy who’s very small shouldn’t disclose is when he thinks she has no interest in having sex with him. Â Guys with tiny peckers generally don’t chase women just to get them into bed, based soley on lust and physical attraction. Â The humiliation and negative consequences can be pretty severe.
Sure, I’m never going to wow a woman with vaginal penetrative intercourse. Â However, if a small one isn’t a dealbreaker for her, I am going to make sure she’s well-pleased in other ways, and then it may be my reward for satisfying her. Â I learned early-on not to try to make it the main event, or I would leave her frustrated and disappointed.
If it is a dealbreaker in a relationship, or if sex with me just doesn’t do it for her, I begrudge no woman following her dreams and preferences.
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