Oh, sugar daddies and mommas are absolutely real. Most people just donâ€™t have what it takes to be a sugar baby.
The sugar baby reality is that youâ€™ll probably have to exchange sex for money with someone youâ€™re not really into. Just like a prostitute, except you only have one client (or two). Most people literally canâ€™t do it. The genitals just wonâ€™t respond.
If you want the sugar baby fantasy scenario â€“ a lover who is rich and classy and not too old and good looking and with whom you share mutual personal affection â€“ then yes, youâ€™re delusional.