Comment of the Week: In Defense of Being the Other Man by Em & Lo | 4 Chime in! photo via Flickr When we pick something to be a Comment of the Week, that doesn’t automatically mean we endorse, approve of, or even like the response — sometimes it just means we think it’s a ginormous springboard for debate. And with that, we give you this gem from Bob T. in response to the post “Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?” Please to discuss: Must admit, I’ve developed a thing for married ladies. Reason is that when you get together, there’s none of this courtship drama, no ‘rescue me.’ Just straight-up sex. The less complication, the better it is and they know it. As for their relationship with the husband, that’s none of my business. I do insist on discretion, and make it clear i have no interest in disrupting the marriage. I do slightly know a few of the guys, and my impression is that I’m doing them a favor. Besides, I just flat do not believe that anyone has a right to demand sexual fidelity of a partner. If you feel like it, you are. And if not, you don’t. MORE LIKE THIS ON EMandLO.com: Can Open Relationships Cure Jealousy? How I Make My Open Relationship Work Would Most Men Accept a Freebie One-Night Stand? Cheaters,Comments SHARE THIS | 4 Chime in!