Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ä¶except when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri:
I had a dream last night where my best friend (a girl, like me) and I had sex…and I enjoyed it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Does that mean I am BI??????????????????
Lauri:¬†No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ¬†If you were bisexual, you would probably know it by now.¬† Everybody gets naughty dreams where they are with the same gender. And gay people get dreams where they are with the opposite sex. Dreams are not to be taken literally because they speak in a symbolic language.
In addition, sex dreams aren’t commenting on your sexuality, they are commenting on your psyche. ¬†Most often, sex dreams are really about the union of qualities, mindsets or opinions. If you look at it this way — psychologically rather than sexually — it makes sense that you would have had such a dream with your BFF.
The day before you must have really connected in some way, united emotionally and/or psychologically. In a nutshell, the two of you came together in your dream because you “came together” on some level in real life. ¬†Make sense??????????????????
Want to be able to figure out your own dreams every morning? Lauri’s latest book,¬†Dream On It: Unlock Your Dreams Change Your Life, will give you the tools you need to become a Dream Expert too!¬†Check out all of Lauri’s books here.
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