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POLL: Who’s Right About Miley – Sinead O’Conner OR Amanda Palmer?

Fri, Oct 4, 2013

Confessions, Music, Poll, Pop Culture

When Miley Cyrus said her “Wrecking Ball” video (in which she cries into the camera, before getting it on with a wrecking ball and a sledgehammer) was inspired by Sinead O’Connor‘s classic and subtle “Nothing Compares 2 U” video (that title is pre-texting!), O’Conner wrote an open letter to Miley, warning her that’s she’s being used as a cog in the sexist machinery of the music biz. Musician/arteeest Amanda Palmer then wrote an open letter to O’Connor warning her of that poopoo-ing female artists’ choices is actually not very feminist. Read the letters and then take the poll below!

Here’s an excerpt from O’Connor’s letter:

Nothing but harm will come in the long run, from allowing yourself to be exploited, and it is absolutely NOT in ANY way an¬†empowerment of yourself or any other young women, for you to send across the message that you are to be valued (even by you)¬†more for your sexual appeal than your obvious talent….

I¬†repeat, you have enough talent that you don’t need to let the music¬†business make a prostitute of you. You shouldn’t let them make a fool of you either. Don’t think for a moment that any of them give¬†a flying fuck about you. They’re there for the money‚Ķ we’re there for the music. It has always been that way and it will always be¬†that way. The sooner a young lady gets to know that, the sooner she can be REALLY in control….

Whether we like it or not, us¬†females in the industry are role models and as such we have to be extremely careful what messages we send to other women. The¬†message you keep sending is that its somehow cool to be prostituted ‚Ķ its so not cool Miley ‚Ķ its dangerous. Women are to be¬†valued for so much more than their sexuality. We aren’t merely objects of desire. I would be encouraging you to send healthier¬†messages to your peers ‚Ķ that they and you are worth more than what is currently going on in your career. Kindly fire any¬†motherfucker who hasn’t expressed alarm, because they don’t care about you.

And excerpt from Palmer’s letter:

Miley is, from what I can gather, in charge of her own show. She’s writing the plot and signing the checks, and although I think it’s tempting to imagine her¬†in the board room of label assholes and management, I don’t think any of them masterminded her current plan to be a raging, naked, twerking sexpot. I¬†think that’s All Miley All The Way. Now, would these men ARGUE with her when she comes into the room and throws down her treatment to hop up naked¬†on the proverbial (and literal) wrecking ball? Of course not. Sex sells. We all know it. Miley knows it better than anyone: swinging naked on a big metal¬†ball simply gets you more hits than swinging on a big metal ball wearing clothes. We’re mammals. LOOK BOOBS! And even more tantalizing: LOOK¬†HANNAH MONTANA BOOBS! But none of this means that Miley is following anyone else’s script. In fact, what I see is Miley desperately trying to write her¬†own script; truly trying to be taken seriously (even if its in a nakedly playful way) by the standards of her own peers….

I want to live in a world where Miley (or any female musician) can twerk wildly at 20, wear a full-cover floral hippie mumu at 37, show up at 47 in see-through latex, and pose semi-naked, like Keith & co, on the cover of rolling stone at 57 and be APPLAUDED for being so comfortable with her body. This¬†is not to say that women have to play the desperate I’M-STILL-SEXY game as they age. Watching Madonna’s plastic surgeries and apparent¬†stubbornness around aging just makes my inner teenager want to scream (YOU’RE MADONNA! YOU COULD HAVE MADE AGING SEXY GODAMMIT¬†AND YOU DIDN’T!!), but the grown-up in me just pauses for a breath and remembers that Madonna is just carving out her section of the playing field. How¬†she chooses to sculpt her face and body is just…her choice.

Who do you think is right?


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2 Responses to “POLL: Who’s Right About Miley – Sinead O’Conner OR Amanda Palmer?”

  1. Johnny Says:

    I think “open letters” are for jackasses.

    If Sinead O’Connor had words of advice, concern, and experience for Miley Cyrus, why couldn’t she write a regular letter, just addressed to Cyrus? I’d be pissed too if someone called me out in public under the pretext of concern.

    Same with Lance Bass and Amanda Bynes. Just expressing concern for an old friend… in a forum with a hundred million spectators…

    Pure attention-seeking from all parties, that’s how I see it.

  2. twerking Says:

    O’connor is right. They just using her for money and she is so stupid to not see that. Making a bitch from self just for getting money.


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