Comment of the Week: Porn Is No Biggie

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Reader Jessica wrote the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: He Looks at Other Women But Gets Jealous If I Ogle Men“:

I used to be one of those women, when I was younger, who would fly off the handle if I saw my boyfriend looking at another woman. After going through a terrible marriage, I realize there are far worse things out there your man could do.  As long as my boyfriend doesn’t stare for a longer period of time than normal, or try and talk or smile at the other women, I’m o.k.  Let’s be real ladies, we look at men just as much as men look at women and our “girl talks” would make any man blush if they knew what we talked about. I enjoy admiring a beautiful woman, too.  Women are physically beautiful and so are men.  Porn is healthy, get over it.  My boyfriend and I enjoy it together and when we are apart.  If you restrict someone so much, they are going to do something far worse then watch porn.  So ladies lighten up a bit and enjoy your man.  As long as he isn’t cheating on you or lying, you have a good one.

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