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• Okay, it’s one thing when a desperate-for-attention college woman dresses as a slutty cat for Halloween (as opposed to all those cats who are saving themselves for marriage) — but when your 12-year-old neighbor is doing it? So wrong.
• A reported article on YourTango (yay for blogs that do their own reporting!) discusses how the recession is affecting the way we find — and show — love.
• GoodVibes reports on how the sex police are on patrol in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. Apparently the thought of locally available sex education is rousing “concerned citizens” everywhere.
• What happens when you reconnect with your long-lost high school sweetheart and the sex just makes you feel used?
• Listen up, men: TheFrisky lists the top 5 reasons women think you’re bad in bed. (And no, it has nothing to do with penis size.)
• Lemondrop reviews condoms so you don’t have to.
• Tom Miller checks out the 4 iPhone apps that might save your relationship (or at least entertain you next time you’re stuck in the checkout line).