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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

My boyfriend, who lives with me, and I had the same dream last night. He killed me, but was possessed while doing so. I’m sure the details in his dream were different than mine, but it was the same content.

My dream was one I’d had before. In my dream, another man tries to save me from my current boyfriend, but is unsuccessful and my boyfriend stabs me. The dream was very dark and dreary and also involved a train and a train station and skips to a party scene on the train.

In his dream he was possessed and stabbed me like 20 times and after the fact that I was dead he realized what he did and started balling and hugged my dead body until the police came.

The fact that we both dreamt the same thing on the same night is rather scary. Any thoughts?

Lauri: Yes, two people can have the same dream on the same night. It’s called shared dreaming and it usually happens to two people who are very close: husband and wife, best friends, mother and daughter, etc. The reason why is because the two individuals are dealing with the same issue and their subconscious responds to it similarly by giving them comparable dreams.

Now, let’s decipher these dreams and see if we can pinpoint the shared issue. Being stabbed in a dream often means you have been the victim of someone’s hurtful and wounding remarks. Do you recall if you and your boyfriend fought that day? Did he take a lot of “stabs” at you by criticizing you?

The fact that you’ve had this dream more than once concerns me that he may have an anger problem. Just as he was possessed in the dream, does it sometimes seem like some angry person had taken over his body? Is he sometimes not himself?

The murder aspect of these dreams suggests he may be trying to force some sort of change on you. Death in a dream is a natural change or ending in waking life whereas murder in a dream is a forced change or ending. The unknown man that was trying to rescue you in the dream is most likely your own male, assertive self. Do you recall trying to “grow a pair” and stand up for yourself that day… to no avail?

His remorse in the dream shows he’s truly sorry in waking life. Nonetheless, if there are changes he is trying to get you to make, you may wanna tell him to lighten up a bit about it because it’s giving you nightmares!

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I keep having this dream and my ex is in it. Same dream just different places. It’s always with him and his sister. I always end up walking into them. I talk to the sister but he is quiet and walks away. I had a different dream where the same thing happened but this time I ran away when his sister wanted us to talk. This dream always comes back. He and I do still talk and we’ve remained friends and there are still feelings between us. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it . Help please.

Lauri: I believe it has everything to do with it! Our dreams are most often connected to unresolved issues. It seems to me that the lack of communication between the two of you in these dreams is a direct result of something that is going unsaid between the two of you in waking life. And that unsaid something is most likely the feelings you both still hold for each other.

It’s interesting that he is the one that always walks away and I think it is because of one of two reasons: he’s the one that ended the relationship OR you feel he is the one that should bring up what has been unsaid all this time… and he never does. However, in the latest of this series of dreams you RUN away. AY yi yi mija! I think that is a good indication that deep down, you know it is best that a romantic relationship with this boy should not be rekindled. Remember, he’s an ex for a reason.

The dreams will stop when some sort of finality is made. Initiate the conversation and get that closure you need or decide to close your heart to him so you can open it to someone you can have a lasting relationship with.

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Hello, I’m single, celibate, and have been for seven months. I fear intimacy with someone who isn’t right for me or doesn’t want to commit, and recently I had two bizarrely weird sex dreams.

In the first I am in a Garden of Eden type place. It’s a mild summer dusk, the sky is a very pale blue, and the Garden is lush with green grass, broad trees, and abundant foliage, but everything is covered with fresh, green Eucalyptus leaves. A Facebook friend who’s usually a grouch is there being encouraging, smiling and good natured. I am hungry so she suggests I eat, but all I can see is an eaten apple. I look again and that too is covered with Eucalyptus leaves. She suggests getting something from a tree that’s enclosed by a picket fence. I walk in and the Eucalyptus grass stirs. A fat green snake, covered in Eucalyptus, hisses and lunges for me. I scream and wake up.

In the second dream I am lying naked on a luxury upgraded version of my bed. My mouth is open and pouty. I look great and am horny. My hands reach down towards my genitals. My pubic hair is groomed but fluffy. As I am about to masturbate, I pull out juicy, ripe peaches from my genitals. It doesn’t hurt pulling them out. I try to again and this time I pull out cream cheese. Green salad leaves start growing from there as well.

It’s so confusing, what does this all mean please?

Lauri:  I have to tell you, I absolutely adore these dreams! The imagery and especially the messages are fantastic! Making the decision to remain celibate until you find that special someone you know won’t disrespect you or take advantage of you is a big deal! And in this day and age that is something to be commended… yet at the same time, in this day and age that is something that will be difficult to do. But fear not! These dreams are not only confirming that you have made the right choice for yourself, they are also giving you some very clever encouragement.

The setting of your first dream is the Garden of Eden, the most famous place of temptation in history! And boy, howdy, are you going to be finding yourself in places of temptation as you try to stick to your guns! But notice how everything is covered in leaves. I believe that is a reminder that when you gave into temptation in the past, someone would “leave” you. Yes, dreams loooove to use puns. If you can find one in your dream, you have found part of the message.

You are hungry in the dream because you are hungry for a lasting, healthy, trusting relationship in real life. The eaten apple you find symbolizes how you feel about letting others take a bite out of you in the past. You don’t want to be that girl that is considered all used up. I think your typically grouchy friend who is unusually friendly and encouraging is how your dreaming mind wants you to be: kind and supportive to yourself rather than angry at yourself over the past.

The snake that comes at you at the end of your first dream is the absolute perfect symbol for the temptation you are going to have to face in the coming months. The snake not only represents the temptation that Eve fell victim to, but it also represents the tempting phallus -0 or rather phalli — that you will likely be confronted with and must resist until you finally encounter that friendly, trustworthy phallus that is out there somewhere.

Since the first dream is all about the phalli you are trying to resist, this second dream is all about “the lady garden” you must protect! Yes, you can certainly enjoy it all you like and that will certainly help you to resist falling prey to a smooth talking snake with ill intensions! But what’s more, I think this dream is trying to show you the value of what you’ve got going on down there. The peaches represent how juicy, delicious, and tempting it is for men but at the same time, it is a fruit that they must labor for and should not be given away willy nilly!

The cream cheese is… well, duh! But it could also be a warning not to spread yourself around too thinly as may have been the case in the past. And finally, the growing salad leaves, I believe are all about how a “healthy” relationship can grow and flourish. And ultimately, that’s what you are after and it seems all the delicious symbols in this dream are giving you the recipe for how to acheive just that!

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Last night I had a dream I was at work, talking to this girl I’m not very close with. In fact, our conversations are generally short and kind of awkward. Anyways in the dream we started discussing masturbation and such and I asked her if we had vibrators in the store, to which she replied ‘yes’ and walked me to the aisle where we have vibrators?! And so I bought one and put it in my car, and as I was walking to my car I was desperately trying to hide it. But I also never used it in the dream. What does this mean?

Lauri: Masturbation dreams are usually about the need to give our selves more attention and appreciation in waking life. Are you uncomfortable taking compliments or showing off your skills? Do you do too much for others and not enough for yourself? Do you feel awkward when you are given praise? That may be what the co-worker represents.

Purchasing the vibrator suggests part of you is ready to start giving yourself some more me time, not necessarily in the bedroom or the shower but rather in being kinder and more forgiving of yourself perhaps, or in taking better care of yourself or even being more willing to show off your skills, looks or assets.

However, the way you try to hide It on the way to the car makes me think that either a part of you still is not comfortable with the idea of giving yourself more attention, credit, etc. OR there is something else in your waking life that you are trying to keep to yourself, something that maybe you fear will make you appear selfish or self-absorbed. I think the message of the dream is that it’s okay to do what pleases you and to be proud of yourself… it feels good!

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I’m alone in my boyfriend’s parents’ house, all of a sudden I feel panicked and scared cause I think someone is trying to break in. I’m hiding because someone got in the house. I realize it’s my boyfriend so I come out, then out of nowhere he has a knife and tries to stab me. He grabs me and I suggest he shows me what he’s going to do, he starts cutting off his fingers one by one. After the middle finger came off I managed to get outside and it’s a big yard (5 acres). He catches up with me grabs me & asked me if I want to cut him, I said yes and pointed at the side of his neck almost below his ear. Then I woke up.

So my boyfriend is a gun guy and it’s strange to me that he would choose a knife? I actually carry a knife with me everywhere, though the knife in the dream was a different knife than what I carry.

Lauri: Your dream taking place at your boyfriend’s parents’ house makes me wonder if somewhere in your relationship you feel like the parent and he the child… that is, unless you two have been talking about becoming parents.

The intruder, even though it turned out to be your boyfriend, seems to suggest that something worrisome to you has emerged in your relationship, something that feels like an intrusion. This intrusion into your otherwise peaceful relationship may have to do with stabbing, emotionally wounding remarks, as symbolized by the knife. Has your boyfriend recently said something to you that was critical or that “cut like a knife?”

He then proceeds to cut off his fingers in the dream, which is not only a bit of a turn off (!), it is also a good indication that some sort of dismembering or severing is going on in real life. Is he trying to cut out a certain behavior? Is he cutting people out of his life? Or is he giving you signs that he may be cutting you out of his life?

You running outside means that there is something you wish to get out in the open… or maybe you already did. You then point the knife at his neck and ear area and that tells me that there may be a communication issue here that you want to fix. The ear area represents his ability to hear what you have to say and the neck/throat area represents his voice and ability to communicate with you. I think your dream is trying to tell you that certain behaviors need to be cut out in order for open and honest communication to happen.
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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Okay, so I’m a female and recently I had a dream that I had and erection, not just a random erection where I was, like, wanking. In my dream my friends and I were playing some basketball and just goofing around and stuff when one of the girls shoved me up against the wall and started rubbing my crotch with her knee like she was trying to get me aroused. When I didn’t she got frustrated and turned away and then I immediately got a raging hard-on in my dream. First off, I don’t even know who the girl was in my dream, second I’m not a lesbian or bi or straight, I’ve actually been saying I’m asexual because I’ve never been sexually interested in anyone. It’s not like I’m curious — in fact, I hate women. I know I’m a hypocrite, but I do. They’re all feminine and I just don’t like it, even the more masculine women. I’ve never had any interest in men either. Any help would be nice as to what this means.

Lauri: I can certainly understand how a raging erection dream would leave you confused and wanting answers! And considering where you stand sexually, you’ll be glad to know that this dream probably doesn’t mean that, deep down, girls turn you on. Instead, this dream is more likely about your need or ability to “stand up” for yourself and be “firm” and unbending in your decision(s).

The setting of your dream is a basketball game, which means it is either about some sort of competitive situation or head games you are currently dealing with, or it could mean that the ball is “in your court” now. Are you in a situation where it is your turn to make a decision or take action? The way you are shoved up against the wall in the dream makes me think you were recently “put up against the wall” in real life and are being forced to make a decision.

I think the way the girl is trying to get you aroused is really more about your inner self trying to get you to stand up and be firm and do what is right for yourself. And I think her frustration in the dream is really your frustration with yourself. Were you recently in a situation where you wish you had stood up for yourself but only “got the balls” to do so when it was too late?

I think what you can take from this dream is that you definitely have what it takes to take a stand when you need to, to be firm and unbending when you want to and especially, to push back when life puts you “up against the wall.”

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Last night, in my dream, I was about 7 months pregnant (I really want a baby but my partner doesn’t want one yet). I was at work when the dream started (I don’t work). I got home and my partner’s sister was over (she doesnt like me). She started yelling at me for some reason. My partner was watching my daughter and his son and his ex was over dropping their son off like she does every second weekend. He hugged me and told me he loved me again — he’d been telling me that all day while I was at work. I went out back with the kids so I could have a smoke. When I came back inside to go to the bathroom, I found my partner in bed with his ex and her best friend. He was telling me he hates me and never wanted to be with me, he only wanted his ex. So I walked up to all three of them, smack them, and then throw them out.

What does this/could this mean? I’m really insecure at the moment. I feel really down about myself and I have been on antidepressans for 10 weeks now. I’m so scared my partner is cheating now. Please help.

Lauri: Dreaming that your partner is cheating does not mean he is, especially if you have no other reason to suspect him. If this dream meant it was true, then there would not be a single faithful person alive, because we all get this dream from time to time.What it does mean is that there is something that has come between you and your partner, so let’s see if we can figure out what it is.

In the dream you are 7 months pregnant. That’s a specific amount, which means it is connected to something in waking life that has been going on for 7 months. Have you been wanting a baby for 7 months? Have you been with your partner for 7 months? Or living with him for 7 months? Think about this and see if you can make the connection.

In the dream you are also working, even though you don’t in real life. This means this dream is about something in your life that you have been working on, like your relationship or your depression. Ask yourself what seems to take the most work and odds are, that’s what this dream is about.

Your partner’s sister yells at you. Whenever someone is mad at us in a dream, it is usually because we are mad at ourselves in real life. What are you mad at yourself for lately? Whatever it is, it seems you do want to cleanse yourself of this anger because in the dream you decide to shower. But instead that is when you find your partner in the midst of a threesome with his ex and her friend! This could be a real big clue. Are you jealous that he had a kid with her but doesn’t want one with you? Or are you bothered by their relationship in any way? Do you feel he is closer to her than you would like? Perhaps you are mad at yourself for insecurities that are unwarranted.

You throw these people out in your dream, which is really the way your inner mind is telling you that you need to throw these insecurities out of your psyche, you need to cleanse yourself of all this mess. I think this dream is an ugly manifestation of the insecurities and depression you are battling and perhaps THAT is the third wheel in this relationship, THAT is what is coming in between you and your partner. Remember, things are NEVER as bad as we make them out to be in our heads.

You’ll recall the beginning of the dream when your partner was telling you how much he loved you: well, he must because he has chosen to live with you. Get your confidence back woman! Men and future employers can’t resist confidence!

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I have had two dreams now about this guy who I have been attracted to for a while but just recently saw again after a year. I have a fiancé and there is still the “spark” of passion between him and I. But this other guy has this immediate calming wave that happens to me every time he speaks to me or even looks at me. My first dream I was no longer with my fiancé for some reason I am not sure, and I see the guy I’m attracted to at his party. He was with his girlfriend. I ended up at the end of the dream outing her for cheating on him and right before he confessed that he wanted to be with me I woke up. It was 2:30 in the morning so I fell back asleep and dreamed it all over again.

In the second dream I am at some random place that I can’t put my finger on and I am sitting next to him and put my hand on his leg. He immediately moves it to his “package” and tells me that he knows I have been waiting for an invite, so here it is. I was so shocked I didn’t do much, I just kept it there. Then he started to put his hands down my pants while telling me that we are not doing anything wrong. I feel horrible and fall asleep. As soon as I wake up I find out that he had carried me to another room and I immediately felt like I had to leave. But again he told me we weren’t doing anything wrong so I stayed. It was like my mind was saying two different things the whole time. I want him but I know I have to go. What does this mean?

Lauri: Since you recently saw this guy again, it clearly brought up conflicting thoughts and feelings. Through this dream, you are trying to sort it out, which is what our dreams do for us… help us sort things out.

In your first dream you are not with your fiancé because you are safely exploring — in your head — what things might be like if he weren’t in the picture. However, the guilt you are having over this attraction is present in this dream because the girl you are outing for cheating actually represents the part of you that feels you are cheating by having these thoughts that there is a part of you that wants to be with him.

Everything going on in these dreams is all you. Look at all the dialogue in these dreams as a conversation you are having with yourself. The guy is the part of you that likes him, the girlfriend is the part of you that feels guilty for liking him.

Now, in your second dream you are in a place you can’t figure out because in real life you are in a place emotionally that you can’t figure out: engaged but having feelings for someone else. Placing your hand on his package represents you exploring the forbidden fruit! And you keep your hand there because this attraction seems to be “staying there” all this time.

He tells you that you aren’t doing anything wrong because the part of you that is attracted to him is trying to justify your feelings. It is interesting that you fell asleep and woke up in the dream. That can be connected to your feelings for him being “awakened” again after you saw him recently in real life. He carries you into another room because you just might be getting “carried away” with your feelings. You feel you have to leave because the bigger part of you knows you need to leave these thoughts and feelings for him behind. The point at which your dream ends is usually where the most important part of the message is — like a good story, the moral is always at the end. The moral of your dream story is to get yourself out of this emotional conflict ASAP.

Want to be able to figure out your own dreams every morning? Lauri’s latest book, Dream On It: Unlock Your Dreams Change Your Life, will give you the tools you need to become a Dream Expert too! Check out all of Lauri’s books here.

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I have realized that I have a been having a particularly odd recurring dream for many years. In the dream, I realize that my erect penis has come off. My emotion at the time varies from mild concern, to thinking that this is somewhat normal, but there is never any pain or horror. The recurring part is that it magically reattaches, and sometimes I’m surprised by how easily it goes back on.

In last night’s version, I was in a busy place and I was trying to find a bathroom stall, but there were lines for all the stalls. I was searching for an empty stall, and the walls were really low so you could see the people inside. I got to an area where there were two women sitting on the stalls writing or doing homework, and not actually going to the bathroom. I asked one of the women to give up the stall so that people could use it, and she refused. I somewhat aggressively picked up her purse and put it outside the stall, so she was forced to leave. Once inside the stall, I set out to put my unattached penis back on. I turned my back to the people outside, because I didn’t want anyone to see what I was doing.

I think I had a few more “reattachments” after that, and finally, there was one point where I waited too long to reattach it, and the “connection” started to dry up, at which point I had to go to the hospital.

I’ve seen other interpretations for other castration and penis dreams, but not one that centers around how the penis easily reattaches!

Lauri: The reattachable penis dream is more common than you may think. The meaning of it varies, depending on the context of the dream. In your case, I think it is connected to your ability to “stand up” for yourself or for what is right and “not bend” to others demands, due to the fact that your penis is erect in your dreams. Would you say that you are pretty laid back and easy going for the most part, but can be “firm” and assertive when you need to be… kind of like turning on a switch or plugging in a part?

Your latest dream gives us more clues. The bathroom suggests you had a need — at the time of this dream — to “relieve yourself” of some sort of frustration or negativity, but it would probably require you to “stand up” and be “firm” in order to do so. But what is most interesting to me about this dream is the waiting: you wait in line for a “stall” (have you or has someone around you been stalling on something) and then you find that you almost waited too long. So what in your real life seems similar to this? I think the message of the dream is, when an issue “arises”, ahem, stand your ground right away, otherwise the situation may be irrevocable.

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

In my dream, my wife is offered milk in a bowl of clay by an elderly woman.

Lauri: I like the imagery in this dream! It is very biblical. In addition, I believe this little dream has a lot to say. My first thought is that this may have to do with pregnancy, because of the milk. Are you and she trying to or talking about having children? The gift of milk to your wife in this dream may be a reference to motherhood being a gift and with that gift comes maternal instincts, personality traits, DNA, etc. that is passed on from generation to generation.

I think that is where the elderly woman comes in. But I think she may also hold another meaning: time and age, which unfortunately is a factor when having children is concerned. Your dream may be urging you to do this before it becomes too difficult. And that clay bowl, well, that is a natural substance and your dream may be using it to remind you of the natural, earthy process of pregnancy and birth… in case you were having doubts, your dream is reminding you that it’s the most natural thing in the world!

If having children is not on your minds at all, then this dream may be connected to an opportunity your wife has recently been offered. If that is the case, it seems that through this dream you feel this opportunity will benefit and nourish her in some way, intellectually or perhaps financially.

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