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Dream Interpretation: My Partner Sterilized Equipment to Kill Me

August 29, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I just had this awful dream that my partner was trying to kill me. It was a little odd at times as he was actually married to someone else in the dream, but I lived with him, and they both decided they were going to kill me. I kept trying to get upstairs to get my daughter to leave, but he was upstairs making everything sterile, all the instruments, it was horrid! I finally got my daughter in the car, then his wife — a random women in the dream — came chasing after me, hanging onto the car. It was so realistic I can smell bleach!

Lauri:  Dreaming that someone is trying to knock you off is fairly common. However, I really like the added element of the sterilizing bleach. Nice touch!

So, let’s figure this out. Odds are, your mate is not a homicidal maniac, so don’t worry. But he probably does want to “kill off” something about you or something in your life. Do you have a behavior or a habit he wants you to stop? Does he want you to lose weight? Is there anything going on in your life that he thinks needs to end? Or does he want to kill off who you are now and make you someone else… like his wife?

The bleach, and the fact that he is married in the dream, are both clues. The wife could mean that he is committed to this change that he wants to take place. The bleach might mean he wants to, or he wants you to “come clean” about something. Or perhaps he wants a fresh clean start in some way.

Whatever this change is, it is something you are resisting, which is why the dream was so horrid. It seems you don’t see it as a change but rather a death sentence! Might be a good time to discuss this with your mate, because he may be putting the pressure on a bit too much!

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Dream Interpretation: My Doctor Has a Penis AND a Vagina

August 23, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I work at a hospital as a professional vampire. lol The other night I had a dream about a woman doctor — no one I knew or recognized. She and I were dating and she didn’t care who knew or saw. She was very hands on in the hospital with me. I’m pretty sure we did “stuff” because I knew she had a vagina and a penis. What could this mean?

Lauri:  Your dream reminds me of one I had just the other night where I was a unicorn and I was dating Kelly Clarkson! But enough about me.

Dating is an interesting dream element and it can usually be connected to “courting an idea” in waking life. Are you courting the idea of becoming a doctor? If not, then this doctor represents something else you desire or are interested in trying out. Doctors are healers and to the dreaming mind they represent our own ability to make a waking life situation better. Is there an issue, a behavior or a relationship you are trying to heal?

The fact that she happened to be an hermaphrodite is another clue as to what this dream is really about. Remember, the doctor represents some part of you and her sporting both genitalia is a sign that, whether you desire to be a doctor someday or wish to heal some waking life situation, it’s going to take your male assertive energy and your female nurturing energy to do so.

And if you happen to sprout a magical horn in your next dream, we’ll need to talk!

Dreamer responds: Thanks for letting me have some insight on my dream. I was thinking that because¬†I’m kinda struggling with whether I like men or women or both, that is why she had both parts to her…? ¬†I agree about the part where you said it’s going to take your male assertive energy and your female nurturing energy to do so. I have been kinda telling my self I don’t want a relationship and acting like a guy when it comes to my relationships but in reality I do want one and that’s when the girl part comes into play. I do look up to doctors and really admire them but I don’t want to be one. Thanks so much for your help. I’m sure I will have plenty more weird dreams for you in the future.

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend Turned Into a Baby

August 15, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I’ve had many dreams lately about my boyfriend being a child. In this last one, we were at a baseball game, and he was an adult. But as the game went on I would look over at him and he was getting younger and younger. Finally he was a baby and a man walked by selling peanuts. My boyfriend starting crying because he wanted some peanuts so I picked him up and started to leave. As we were leaving everyone was telling me how cute of a couple we were, so my aggravation left me. I gave him a kiss and the dream ended.

Lauri: ¬†Has your boyfriend been acting childishly lately, by either being playful or perhaps by being a brat? I think it’s very telling that he pulled a Benjamin Button on you as the baseball game progressed. It tells me that there may be some head games happening and you are finding it to be more and more juvenile as time goes on… perhaps even to the point that it’s nuts, hence the peanuts.

And it seems that being the more mature one in the relationship, or at least at the time of this dream, you were ready to move on from the drama — not necessarily the relationship, but rather an issue — but his adorableness may have roped you back in.

Hopefully these recent dreams are merely illustrating and helping you to better understand a one-time issue within this relationship. However, if they continue then you may need to — as they say — put on your big girl panties and do what is necessary for your sanity!
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Dream Interpretation: My Dreams Are Always Lesbian (But I’m Not)

August 8, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

My dream is usually about people who don’t really exist but it’s always lesbian-related — why is that, if I’m not a lesbian? And the dreams never get into having sex, it’s just a tease — why is that?

Lauri: ¬†It is common to have people in your dream that don’t exist in real life. These people are actually parts of yourself. The dreaming mind will give form to all the different parts of you so that you can gain a better, deeper perspective of yourself and your life.

I believe the unknown women in your dream represents parts of you that desire, hence the lesbian activity.¬† But you’ve not obtained this yet, hence the teasing and no sex. Are you “flirting” with the idea of changing careers for example? What do you want to change about yourself or bring into your life that you don’t yet have? In what way do you want your identity or sense of self to change?

The fact that these are females in your dream as opposed to males may mean that you the part of you that you desire to become most likely involves female energy such as a nurturing or creative role. That’s what these females are and they keep teasing you in the dream in order to keep you enticed in real life so that you will continue to pursue and finally, ahem, nail what it is you desire.

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Dream Interpretation: I Watched My Boyfriend Sleep

August 1, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I went in to wake my boyfriend up and there was a little boy lying in bed right next to him. The little boy was about 5 or so. I just stood there and watched for a minute. They both were having a dream I could tell because both of them were moving their mouth & eyes were fluttering a lot. When I looked at the boy his were doing the exact same thing. I woke my boyfriend up & told him, “It’s funny when y’all sleep & dream you make the same expressions.”

It’s weird because I don’t usually see faces in my dreams and both of them I did. We were at my grandparents home except it was decorated differently, more modern. My boyfriend handed me a letter in a sealed envelope but I never got to read it.

Lauri: This dream is probably telling you quite a bit about your relationship! The five-year-old boy just may represent the child-like part of your boyfriend… whether that is a good thing or not, I suppose, is up to you. This is why they were doing the exact same thing, because they are the exact same person.

It is very interesting that they were both dreaming. Is there anything lately that your boyfriend has said or is attempting to do that you feel is not realistic; something that might cause you to say, “Yeah! Keep dreaming!”?¬†This also took place at your grandparents home. This could mean that something in the relationship is starting to get old.

The envelope you never got to open and read is very important. This points to a communication issue within the relationship. It seems you are not really getting your boyfriend lately. I think the sealed envelope suggests that you may not be “open” to what your boyfriend has been trying to get across to you.

It might be time to listen without thinking about what you are going to say while he is still talking. I think we’re all guilty of that from time to time. Sometimes writing each other a letter or an email is a good way to get a much needed conversation going. This way you can get all your thoughts in order. You have time to be thoughtful and careful about what you want to say AND in return neither of you can interrupt the other. Give it a try. Your dreaming mind seems to think it would be a good idea!

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Dream Interpretation: I Rip Off My Wedding Dress

July 25, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Last night I had a dream where I walked into a venue with a stranger (whom I have never met) to get married. I felt apathetic and neutral about him and getting married. As we walked in, there were several brides who were also waiting to get married to their significant others.

My “fianc√©” greeted his mother and introduced me, as this was the first time meeting. I remember trying really hard to seem lovely and she gave me an uneasy, judgmental response. I then introduced her to my mother who gave the woman an even more uneasy, stuck-up judgmental response where the “mother in law” became extremely angry and upset refusing to go through with the wedding. My stranger “fianc√©” rushed by her side to calm her down leaving me with feelings of regret.

I ripped off my wedding dress to where I was naked from the waist up, using my tulle fabric I had ripped to cover my breasts and I followed my brothers out of the venue crying on the walk home. Can you please help me decipher what this dream means?

Lauri: ¬†Dreaming of a wedding — unless you are in the planning stages of one — is really more about a commitment you have made in waking life to something, someone or even to yourself. The apathy you feel in the dream suggests that you were feeling apathetic towards something in real life you were obligated to do. And just as you were trying to seem lovely to the mother in law in the dream, you were probably trying to make the best of this obligation in real life…or were at least trying to act as if you cared about it.

Ripping your wedding dress off from the waist up reflects your desire to get your disdain for this commitment or obligation “off your chest.” Also, the ripping of the fabric symbolizes how “torn” you were at the time of this dream as to whether stick to this commitment or not.

The judgmental attitudes of the two mothers suggests you were very concerned about how others may view you if you were to go through with the commitment or obligation. The entirety of the dream, I believe, is a strong message you were sending yourself that this simply is not for you.

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Dream Interpretation: I Sprouted Five Penises!

July 18, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

All right, this is extremely strange and I woke up very relieved that it wasn’t real. In my dream I grew a penis. I was shocked, as I am a woman. I started to get very scared and wore different girdles and things to hide it. Then my body started sprouting more of them! I eventually ended up showing a few people, including my best friend, my mom and my ex-boyfriend. I was panicking. I still had a vagina, but also by this time 4 large penises and 1 sort of mediocre penis but no testicles to speak of. I went on the internet in my dream to see if I could find a pro-bono surgeon to remove them! I remember telling myself in my dream, “You are a woman! You’ve had a child! You get your period!” I woke up very glad to just have… me down there. Does this dream mean something?

Lauri: ¬†If you’re a regular reader of this column, you’ll see that gender-bending in dreams is more common than you might think. When we sprout or lose genitalia in a dream, it’s important to know that it’s not so much about our “junk,” but more about the masculine or feminine energy that junk represents.

Male genitalia often represents assertive energy. “Grow a pair” or “man up” are things we tend to say when we encourage others to behave in a more aggressive or assertive manner. “Pussy whipped” or “he’s such a pussy,” etc., are the (not very nice) ways we refer to someone who is being passive or submissive.

This picture language that we use while awake is exactly the way our dreams work… except our dreams bring that picture language to life! Now, as far as your dream is concerned, it seems you are certainly “manning up” in your real life. And since you sprouted several penises, it could be that there are several areas of your life where you are discovering your ability to “stand firm”… ahem, and be assertive.

It’s interesting, however, that you are trying to hide them and even research a surgeon to remove them. This indicates that you are not comfortable having to take on a more aggressive or forceful role. We gals certainly “have the balls” to handle our issues, but fear using this power because we don’t want to be labeled the B word. Is this what you are going through? Don’t be afraid to be a ball buster, when the time is right. It’s all about finding the right balance of feminine, nurturing energy and male assertive energy. This goes for both genders. Yin and Yang, positive and negative… wasted and sober, everything in moderation and balance!

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I’m Straight But My Dreams Are of Lesbian Heartbreak

July 11, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Lately I’ve been having dreams about being in love with a woman. So in love that when I wake up I still feel the emotion and heartbreak of it. I am a happily married woman to a man with a 2 and a half year old son. I’ve never been in love with a woman in real life. I believe that I have no sexual attraction to women of any sort. So anyway, in these dreams, I feel greatly in love with a woman and it seems like that love is never satisfied. Either because the woman I’m in love with doesn’t love me back or they are already committed to someone else. Please help me put sense into these dreams!!!

Lauri: ¬†In my latest book¬†Dream On It: Unlock Your Dreams Change Your Life, I have a list of the 10 Rules to Remember when interpreting your dreams. One of those rules is that the emotion you feel in the dream can always be directly connected to that same emotion you are having over something in real life. So let’s start there.

In your real life lately, what is causing you heartbreak? Where in your life are you feeling unfulfilled or even rejected? You were also in love in the dream. This may be more about something in your waking life that you are very passionate about, perhaps a cause or even a talent or hobby. Whatever it is, it seems you aren’t getting a return out of it, leaving you with a sense of emptiness or rejection.

And finally, the woman in the dream is most likely some part of YOU! So think about that for a moment. Is there a part of you that you are felling disconnected from, a part of you that you really like? Maybe the thinner you before kids? Maybe the more adventurous, fun loving, carefree you? Maybe the working you (did you quit working after the baby came)? This dream is letting you kn0w that you need to reconnect with that part of yourself or reconnect with that passion, cause or hobby, etc, because your inner self seems to be missing it terribly.

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Dream Interpretation: My Husband Wants a Divorce

June 27, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

In my dream, I ask my husband for his phone and he gives it to me. While browsing his messages I see two from two different girls that say “I love you.” I ask him who these girls are and he says that the first girl is some kind of a fling and the second girl is “different.”¬†As I’m asking what “different” means, he tells me that he wants a divorce. I cry a lot and while I’m crying he’s constantly saying good things about this second girl as if he’s very proud of her. This was a very terrible nightmare for me. What does it mean? Help please.

Lauri: ¬†Dreaming that our mate is cheating is actually an unbelievably common dream, and it usually has nothing to do with an actual affair that may be going on. So let’s get the obvious out of the way: Other than this dream, do you have any reason to suspect hubby may be getting his pleasures elsewhere?

If not, then this dream is more likely connected to something else within the marriage that needs to be addressed. The two girls on the phone most likely represent two things your husband has affection for, such as a sport or hobby or maybe even his job.  The fling may be something in real life that was a temporary interest or a passing phase that your husband gave a lot of attention to and the other girl is most likely something your husband is really into like golf or the X Box. And just as he is leaving you in the dream it is something he leaves you to go do in real life.

Odds are, this dream is alerting you to the fact that there may be some sort of divide that is developing in the marriage. That’s the most common reason behind a divorce dream; it’s not about a divorce but a divide such as a separation of ideas, a difference of opinion, or even a divide as far as one of the spouses travelling too much. Whatever the case, the phone in this dream is where the answer is for you: Communication. Open those lines of communication and you’ll find out what the other one really needs you to know.

Dreamer Response: Thank you for your response. Everything has been clear with your explanation and it’s really true. Thank God it’s not what my dream literally means. Yes, me and my husband have different ideas and opinions since we come from different races. I’ll visit your site more to read your advice. Thank you so much!

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Dream Interpretation: I Watched a Guy Dance Naked

June 20, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I dreamt of a nude guy dancing in front of a car, and celebrities are watching him. I was also there in line with them so I could also see him. It’s very weird. What does it mean?

Lauri:¬†¬†When trying to figure out your dream, it’s important to remember that everything in your dream is symbolic of you or something in your life. Therefore, this dancing naked man is YOU!

Typically, nudity in a dream is connected to feeling embarrassed or vulnerable over something in your real life. But since people were lined up to watch him AND he was dancing about, I’m thinking it may have more to do with opening up about something, getting something off your chest, freeing yourself of something you had been keeping under wraps, perhaps.

And the dancing is the joy you feel because of it. Now, if this doesn’t sound like you recently, it is likely someone directly around you. The celebrities may be your desire for recognition and applause for opening up. Oh, and all this going on in front of a car? That could mean that you can now move on and forward!

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